HEALING RAPE
by Dr. Lawrence Wilson
© March 2021, LD Wilson Consultants,
Inc.
All information in this article is for
educational purposes only. It is
not for the diagnosis, treatment, prescription or cure of any disease or health
condition.
Update 3/4/21. Clients tell us that Down
Hugging is a wonderful and perhaps necessary addition to a complete
development program in order to heal from rapes. Otherwise, certain
aspects of the rape trauma seem to remain.
The
other newer method for healing rape is the Vaginal
Peroxide Implant Procedure.
This is also very powerful.
Both the peroxide implants and the down hugging are
needed, we believe, for deep healing from rape.
Contents
The Intent Of This Article
Loving Yourself
A Soul Experience
Forgiveness
A Bioenergetic Approach
II. WHAT DOES HEALING RAPE CONSIST
OF?
Becoming A Warrior
Stages Of Healing From Rape
The Basic Development Program
The Accelerators
Techniques To Release Points
Other Methods
V. SPECIAL MODIFICATIONS OF A DEVELOPMENT
PROGRAM
The Detoxification Procedures
The Accelerators
Natural Methods To Heal Sexually-Transmitted Diseases
Soul Recovery
Mental Healing
Other Methods To Heal From Rape
Spiritual Healing
What Can Husbands, Boyfriends And Male Friends Do If A
Female Partner Or Friend Experiences Rape?
Social Media After Rape
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Update November 2020. A simple and safe newer development procedure is proving extremely helpful to retrace and clear the trauma of rape. For details, read The Hydrogen Peroxide Implant.
The intent
of this article. The intent is to undo and free you
completely from your rape. This
article is not about ÒmanagingÓ or ÒcopingÓ with a trauma. It is about healing the trauma of rape
and moving on.
It is possible to
undo a lot of the physical and even the emotional damage due to a rape, even
the most extreme ones and multiple rapes. This is our experience,
having assisted hundreds of women and some men, as well. It takes some time and effort, but it
can be done and is well worth the effort.
This
article discusses an integrated program that is quite effective to remove many
of the effects of rape. Its
effectiveness depends mainly on how well you follow the program, rather than
how severe was your trauma.
It is
even possible for someone who experienced rape or multiple rapes to feel better
than she did before any of it occurred!
The reason is that following a properly-designed
development program will renourish and balance the
body very deeply, in ways it was never balanced before.
LOVING
YOURSELF
An intent
of any violent act against a person is to teach you that you are not a good
person and you deserve to suffer, as a result. Rape is no exception.
To heal
fully, one must change back to the truth, which is that I AM LOVED, LOVING AND LOVABLE FOREVER. You may need to repeat this true phrase
many, many times, as did the author.
Loving yourself is first a mental
decision. The feelings will follow, but usually
not immediately. The reason is
most bodies are malnourished and toxic, so the cells send out messages that Òwe
are not okayÓ, Òwe are sickÓ, Òwe are badÓ, etc.
So do
not expect the feelings to be there.
Just stay with the mental decision that I AM LOVED, LOVING AND LOVABLE FOREVER. If that sounds too good to be true, at
least begin with the thought, I AM OKAY.
Of
course, with this thought must come changes in your lifestyle, diet, attitudes
and more that are discussed below.
A
SOUL EXPERIENCE
To heal
from rape, you will need to view it as a soul experience. We donÕt understand our souls very well and sometimes they
want an experience. The soul lives
on, so a rape or even death of the body is not very important to the soul. It is just an experience.
If you
can get to this understanding, it makes forgiving, healing and moving on much
easier.
FORGIVING
Full healing from rape requires that one
forgive everyone for everything that has occurred in oneÕs life.
Unwillingness to do this is one of the greatest stumbling block to healing fully. That is why we mention it at the beginning of the
article. Later in this article we
discuss forgiveness in detail and why it is required.
A
BIOENERGETIC APPROACH
The
development method of healing rape is bioenergetic, rather than analytical. Analytical methods include counseling
and other psychotherapy in which you slowly hopefully learn more about your
trauma and this helps release it.
Bioenergetic means that the way it works is to increase the
adaptive energy of the body. As
this occurs, the body is able to process and release trauma, diseases, horror,
hatred, fear, shame and everything else associated with a rape.
The
releases occur automatically, in their own time and order. You donÕt need to talk about it for
hours with a counselor. Talking
with someone, at times, might be helpful but is extra and not essential.
The
development bioenergetic approach is usually much
faster and much deeper and more permanent. The main problem with the bioenergetic
approach is that feelings and thoughts related to the trauma will surface for
processing and release. This is
often unpleasant, and perhaps disgusting or scary.
Some
women and men quit the program when it occurs, thinking it is bad. It is necessary, however, as part of
trauma release. The negative thoughts
and feelings slowly fade away. For
details, read Trauma Release.
II. WHAT DOES HEALING FROM RAPE CONSIST
OF?
It
means:
- Getting oneÕs energy back.
- Being able to think clearly again.
- Not crying often
- No more back pain
- Not craving male sexual fluid
- No more depression and self-pity
- Getting rid of the points. These are either ultrasensitive spots on the body or numb
spots on the body that occur after a long rape. For details, read The Points.
- Stopping the progression of sexually-transmitted
diseases and getting rid of them altogether. This is possible.
- Less fear.
Women are always at more risk than men in society because they are
smaller and weaker than men. Women
need to live correctly and this goes a long way to reduce fear.
- No more feeling filthy all the time.
- Forgiving and letting go of the whole thing.
- Feeling rebuilt, strong and whole.
- Getting your souls back (soul recovery)
- Finding the lessons, and perhaps even the benefits
of your rape.
Becoming a warrior. Full
healing from rape requires learning to be a type of warrior. This is an attitude and psychological
stance. For details, read Qualities Of A Warrior. For a more metaphysical article, read The
WarriorÕs Creed – Rules Of The Society Of Loving, Light-Hearted Warriors,
also called The Straight And Narrow Path.
This
attitude is really much more fun and more effective than just ÒmanagingÓ or
ÒcopingÓ with a past trauma. The
authors of this article believe life is about having wholesome and healthful
fun. If you look at your healing
program this way, you will tend to stick with it much better.
For
example, to heal from rape we recommend deciding that your house or apartment
is now a fancy health spa – the kind where people spend up to $500. a day for a makeover.
You will get a makeover, too – and a better one than is available
at any spa of which we are aware.
This is
a much better attitude than telling yourself that you Òhave toÓ eat a certain
way and do tedious procedures each day.
STAGES
OF HEALING FROM RAPE
STAGE 1. LAYING
THE FOUNDATION This consists of remineralizing
the body. It also consists of
basic repair of the spine, getting back some of the souls that were lost, and
slowing down or stopping the progression of the sexually-transmitted
diseases. This stage often takes a
year or a little more.
Remineralizing. We use seven methods at the same time
to remineralize the body and lay the foundation for a
healthy body. All are needed. Skipping any of them will slow progress
noticeably. The seven methods are:
- Eat a lot
of only certain well-cooked vegetables. They are all types of onions –
red, white, yellow, green, leeks, and shallots. They also include rutabaga, green beans, daikon
radish, Brussels sprouts, cauliflower, cauliflower leaves, carrots,
along with some animal protein and blue corn chips. A little celery, savoy cabbage,
golden beet and grape tomato three times a week are also good.
Only
these vegetables contain a chemical that speeds up development and
healing. For details about diet,
read Food For Daily Use.
- Using sea
salt. A good one is Hawaiian
bamboo jade salt. This is an excellent source of some
trace minerals. Avoid Himalayan
Salt. For details, read Salt.
- Drinking
spring water or carbon-only filtered tap water. These
types of water contain some vital minerals. Avoid reverse osmosis water, Òdrinking waterÓ, Òpurified
waterÓ, alkaline water or distilled water. For details, read Water For Drinking.
- Drinking
10-12 ounces daily of carrot juice. Please do not do more than this amount
daily because it will make the body too yin, which is harmful. Also, do not drink other juices. For details, read Carrot Juice.
- Doing
daily coffee enemas. This is an herbal method that adds more
vital minerals. For details, read Coffee Enemas.
- Taking the
correct nutritional supplements in the right amounts. These
provide extra calcium, magnesium, zinc and other minerals. This ideally requires a hair mineral
analysis. However, one can begin
immediately with the Free Program.
- Doing
daily kelp wraps or kelp spray. This is optional, but can greatly speed
up your progress. You will absorb
more minerals through the skin.
For details, read Kelp.
STAGE 2 OF RECOVERY.
COMING OFF ARTIFICIAL LIFE SUPPORT
Most
everyone who experiences rape has one or more tiny implants in the head or
elsewhere that help keep them alive.
This is a very advanced technology, and one that works.
Full
healing from rape requires that one become strong enough so the implants will
not be needed. This stage
often takes a year. The process
actually begins as soon as one starts a development program. For details, read Implants and The Walking Dead.
STAGE
3. DEVELOPMENT
Once
a person is somewhat renourished and off life support
development will begin. Only with
development can a person be fully healed of rape. For details, read Introduction
To Development on this site.
Plateaus. At times
in this healing process, one may feel that no change is occurring and that one
is wasting oneÕs time on the program.
This is never the case, in our experience.
Change
is simply taking place within the body that you cannot see or feel. It is necessary to move to the next
stage of healing. If you feel you
are at a plateau, you can check and we can tell you if you are progressing
well.
Uneveness of the process. The
healing process can be like riding a roller coaster. Until you arrive at the destination, there will be times
when you move fast, and others when you move slowly. At times, you will be Òflying highÓ and at other times you
may feel Òupside downÓ or a little scared as you move along the path of healing.
Pacing. For
success with a development program, you will need to have great compassion and
love for yourself. You will learn
that there are times to move ahead fast, and there are other times to go more
slowly and gently on the program.
Your Helper with the program will assist you with this important aspect
of the program.
The
recovery program consists of four parts:
A. The basic
development program. This is a new and very unique method of
physical, emotional and mental healing.
It has been helpful for at least 1000 women and men who have experienced
rape. No other nutritional or medical program that
we have seen is nearly as effective.
What does it involve. The program consists of:
- The
development diet.
- A healthful
lifestyle, including going to bed between 8 and 9 PM and getting lots of rest.
- About
8 nutritional supplements and avoiding the rest.
- 5 or
6 healing and detoxification procedures.
How it works. A properly designed development program:
- drastically increases the adaptive energy of the body.
- makes the body much more yang (warm) in macrobiotic
terminology.
This
combination, in turn:
- restores energy, vitality and balance to your body and
brain.
- can heal all infections, including sexually transmitted
diseases (STDs).
- removes several dozen toxic metals from the body and brain.
- removes hundreds of toxic chemicals from the body.
- restores hormone levels and glandular activity.
- improves brain functioning tremendously. This allows one to process traumas of
all kinds much more easily and quickly.
- all this occurs at the bodyÕs own pace and in the proper
order, usually in a gentle way.
The
program consists of the diet described above, a healthful lifestyle, about 8
nutritional supplements, and at least five healing and detoxification
procedures.
For
details, read Introduction To Development
Programs and Why Development?
You do not have to
like the program. Please do all of it, anyway. Skipping any part of it, for any
reason, will compromise results.
Here is more on the diet, which is one of the most important parts.
DIET
AFTER A RAPE
What you eat right after a rape is very
important. The worst foods to eat
after a rape are raw foods such as salads and fruit. Also bad are all sugars and sweets, including fruit and
fruit juices or too much of any juice.
Vegetarian diets are also very bad.
Instead, eat 6 to 9 cups (preferably 9 cups daily) of
the preferred vegetables listed in the Foods For Daily
Use article. These must all be
properly cooked and are essential for healing. Do not skip them.
If they bring up your anger or fear, then eat a little less of them
until you have processed the anger and hatred.
Protein foods are lamb once or twice a week, organic
or grass fed beef once or twice a week, chicken, sardines, 2 tablespoons daily
of toasted almond butter and 2 tablespoons daily of either organic roasted
sesame tahini or 4 tablespoons daily of hummus (and
not more). All of these are very
important. Eat protein with each
meal, but only 4-5 ounce servings.
Eat a 4-5 ounce serving of animal protein preferably twice a day, but
not more.
Blue corn tortilla chips, about 5-8 per meal only, are also excellent for development – much better than
other grains, which are not nearly as helpful for development. We particularly like these brands in
the USA: Simple Truth and Private Selection (Kroger brands), Late July Cantina
Dippers, Garden of Eatin no salt added, and Xochitl.
Avoid all wheat, which is an irritating food. We suggest avoiding all rice products at this time –
there is a problem with them that hopefully will be resolved soon.
You can skip dairy products, or limit dairy products
to only 4 ounces daily of all of them combined. All fish are too high in mercury except for sardines. Three to four cans weekly are an
excellent food. They are not
essential if you really find them disgusting, but Brisling sardines, taste
quite good and are an excellent brain food and anti-inflammatory and
development food.
The rape
diet. At times, a rapist will warn a person
that she is never to eat red meat again, and to eat fruit and tunafish every day.
This is nothing more than an attempt to keep the woman from regaining
her former strength and mental acuity.
For more on vegetarian diets, please read The
Rape Or Cult Diet and Vegetarian Diets.
B. The
accelerators. These are additional development
methods that can greatly speed up your progress. In some cases, they are absolutely needed. They are discussed later in this
article.
C. Techniques to remove points. This is very important. Removing the points created by a rape will permanently get rid of memories, ultrasensitive points and numb points on the body. Read Points on this website to understand this problem of rape, and how to get rid of it.
Another
somewhat unusual method that has helped some people is to listen and dance to a
particular piece of music. It is a
short song, and it must be a specific version of it.
Look on
YouTube under this heading: Yusef Lateef –
Love Theme From Spartacus. (It
has over 1,167,000 views). Just
keep listening to this 5-minute song.
Record it into your phone or onto a CD with your stereo.
Some
people need psychological, spiritual and perhaps other types of healing after
rapes.
Cautions
with the development program:
At times, the program will bring up
anger, fear, anxiety or other strong feelings. This process is called retracing. It is essential for deep healing, and is discussed
below.
Supplements
that bring up anger the most are TMG, kelp capsules, and selenium. Others that can have the same effect
are B-complex vitamins, and the thyroid or adrenal glandular supplements.
The need to
forgive. During a development program, if
unwanted feeling surface, usually all that you need to do is forgive everyone
more for everything that has happened during your entire life. Just keep on forgiving. It is not a one-time procedure. As the Bible says, ÒForgive seventy
times seven timesÓ. For details,
read Forgiveness on this site.
Beware of other
diets, other supplements and other healing procedures. Do not
combine development with other diets, and do not take other vitamins, minerals, natural hormones,
homeopathic remedies, herbs or chelating agents.
We know
this can be tempting. However, it
almost always ruins the development program, which is the product of years of
research. In fact, combining a
development program with some other methods can be dangerous by making the body
more toxic and/or more yin.
A
development program as a counter-trauma. Some
clients tell us that a complete development program is a type of counter-trauma. This is an interesting psychological
way to help reverse a trauma.
It
means that the program requires a type of ÒsurrenderingÓ or offering of oneself
to a force greater than oneself, but it is a totally benign force.
If one
continues the program for a few years, one moves in a completely new and
exciting direction of deep healing of oneÕs entire life. This is quite unusual and can even feel
a little traumatic, at times. This
is why it may be called a counter-trauma.
For
more on the general subject of trauma release, read Trauma Release on this website.
How to begin
a program. There are only two ways to begin a
development program:
1. Doing it on your own. You can
begin with the Òfree programÓ today by clicking
here. It includes a diet,
basic nutritional supplements, and the detoxification procedures. It is a good start if you do all that
is recommended.
Cost. The
Ôfree programÕ costs about $2000 to $2500.00 per year. This includes some money for extra
vegetables in the diet, coffee for coffee enemas and the cost of the nutritional
supplements. Building or
purchasing a red heat lamp sauna is a one-time cost that ranges from $150.00 to
$1000.00 dollars.
Problems
doing the program on your own. The free program is difficult to do
well because it is not individualized and even a small mistake can negate the
program.
Individualizing the program makes it much more powerful. Supervision avoids most problems that trip up
most people who decide to do the program on their own.
2. An
individualized, supervised program. To begin a complete development
program, contact any one of the Approved Helpers
listed on the referral page. You
may want to call or email a few to find one you feel will be a good match for
you. The cost is not much more
than the ÔfreeÕ program. It is a
little more due to the cost of hair testing and consultations, and a few more
supplements.
The
Helper need not live near you because most of them offer the program long
distance by mail, email and telephone.
Most of the clients do the program this way, and it works well.
Some of
the Helpers have more experience than others. However, Dr. Wilson sets up all the programs for all of
them, so the program will be identical regardless of with whom you choose to
work.
Imitators. Be careful to
avoid practitioners who are not listed on the Helper Referral page given above. A number of people people
claim to offer this program, but they do not do it correctly. If a person is not listed on the
referral page, there is a reason.
Cost.
Following a complete program costs about $2400.00 per year. This includes the initial consultation
and hair mineral test, retests every four to six months, the diet, supplements
and other costs.
When
healing from rape, most everyone experiences retracing or purification reactions. This is very important to know about
beforehand.
What is retracing?
Retracing is the temporary return of physical, emotional or mental
symptoms connected with a trauma or incident. They often do not last long, but they can be vigorous and
even scary, at times.
Retracing or purification reactions occur as the vitality of the body
increases and the body processes its traumas. One is essentially forced to review, forgive and let go of
the entire incident. This is not
always pleasant, but is a key part of deep healing.
We liken it to returning to the scene of an accident or crime, but in a
completely safe and secure manner.
Once there, you review what occurred in a detached way. You correct any false impressions you
may have had, and, as a result, understand the whole incident much better. It is a completion and resolution
process of amazing depth.
As part of this process, the following often occurs:
1. Intense
anger can surface that is very disturbing. Almost every person who
experiences rape reports this. One
is usually filled with murderous and vengeful thoughts. They may be directed to all men. Instilling hatred in women is one of
the important goals of professional rapes. One woman healing from rape wrote to us:
ÒLately I have
been feeling a really intense hatred and anger, included some violent thoughts
and general thoughts of suicide.
If I could describe how IÕm feeling itÕs like wanting to let out a
visceral scream, having a panic attack, and feeling like IÕm about to drop dead
all at the same time.
I also feel
defeated, like IÕve been resisting the urge to hate because I know itÕs wrong
but now I canÕt run away from it any longer.
I just want to
let go of all this hatred and anger, and be free from its suffocating
grip. ItÕs exhausting! I have prayed to let go and forgive and
then once I think IÕve let go the hatred comes back.Ó
These feelings are normal and must be dealt with. You just need to observe them as calmly
as possible, know that they will pass, and you will need to forgive everyone
for everything that has ever occurred.
This does not mean you are condoning any violent acts. It means:
- You realize that anger, resentment and
hatred just hurt you, wreck your body and ruin your life. They do nothing to Ôget backÕ at the
perpetrator of a crime or anyone else.
- You realize you donÕt understand all the reasons why things
occur.
1.Perhaps if you had not been raped, you would have been run over by a
car and killed.
2. Perhaps your soul did something horrible to someone else in the
past, so this is justice. Perhaps you
got off easy, no matter how horrible it was. It could have been worse, so you are grateful.
3. Perhaps you went through the rape experience for a reason –
such as to help
millions of people in the future who have had the same experience
and will need your guidance, or to prevent rapes.
As a result, you are ready and willing to stop judging the experience
as ÒnegativeÓ. You are ready to
let go the whole thing and move on in your life.
If you went unconscious during your rape, usually these feelings will
be even more intense than you can imagine, so donÕt worry about it.
2. You may
become very tired, perhaps for a few months. This can have to do with
processing the rape in your mind, and it may have to do with biochemical and
nutritional adjustments and healing.
One must rest more at these times.
Do not try to just Òpush throughÓ the fatigue, as this usually does not
work well, and tends to slow your progress.
3. You may
develop other temporary physical or emotional symptoms. The
joints, back, stomach or pelvic area may hurt, for example. Please read The Sting Or Fire Reaction for new information about
an important healing reaction that can occur as one heals from rape.
These symptoms may be directly due to the rape, or they can be
adjustment symptoms as your body restores itself. Regardless of the cause, they are usually upsetting or at
least annoying.
While one is always free to visit medical doctors, we suggest first
discussing such symptoms of all kinds with your development Helper. Ask that we review your entire
development program. Often this
can help.
During purification reactions, medical remedies are often not
helpful. Problems visiting doctors
or naturopaths when one is having healing reactions are numerous and discussed
in the article entitled Visiting Doctors.
Retracing symptoms will pass in their own time if they are handled
correctly. Reassurance is
often all that is needed. Rarely,
natural remedies or medical drugs are helpful to reduce their intensity. Slowing down the development program by
taking fewer doses of supplements each day may also help.
OTHER
SYMPTOMS
1. Weight
gain. Some women, and men, gain 100
pounds or more after a rape. This
can be due to nervousness, nutritional imbalances, or to avoid being attractive
in order to prevent another rape.
It can even be an attempt to avoid all relationships.
A
common symptom is a gain of weight in the abdomen and pelvic area. It can occur very suddenly.
It is water weight, and it goes away as you keep processing and
forgiving. For more on this
interesting phenomenon, please read The Hatred Body.
Weight gain will tend to go away if you process your rape completely
with a development program.
2. Details
about a rape may surface that are disgusting or otherwise horrible. Most
people minimize the horror of rape, and even forget certain details
entirely. These may come into
oneÕs consciousness during a healing reaction.
One need not dwell on them, analyze them, or wallow in them, feeling
sorry for yourself. As much as possible, just observe them from a neutral
place. The Pulling Down Exercise is excellent and often necessary
to accomplish this.
Plan on doing
this exercise every day for at least five years, and hopefully much longer due
to its many other benefits. This exercise is essential for
development, which is the only way we know of to fully heal from a rape.
Living in
denial by insisting that these horrible words or deeds are not true or did not
happen can stop the healing process. One must just allow these details to
surface. The memories will
fade, in time. Handling the awful
thoughts and feelings is one of the major stumbling blocks for those healing
from rape.
Realize that
one of the main goals of many rapes is to make the experience so outrageous,
humiliating and degrading that you will be forever hurt by it because you will
never be willing to process it. This is a deep truth about rape.
DonÕt allow the rapist to
win! Realize that the horror was
just a tactic for upsetting you and brainwashing you. You can retrace and process it by understanding this
deeply. For more details about
this way of influencing a person, read Brainwashing
on this website.
3. Rape
cries may occur in women. These are short, loud shrieks that
occur as one retraces a rape. They
are normal and important not to suppress.
With each one that occurs, you will be closer to full healing of your
rape.
4. You may
need to make other changes in your thinking that are unrelated to your rape. This may
seem unusual. However, deep
healing may require it. Some
clients have trouble in this area because the changes go against their
upbringing or personality tendencies, yet they are essential to continue the
healing process.
These may have to do with politics, religion, friendship, men,
attitudes about sex and love, or other things.
Good counseling with a very qualified person may help you to navigate
and negotiate these situations, but always beware of counselors because there
are not many that we like. Most
are political liberals who will tell you that your anger is justified, and to
just pretend the rape didnÕt happen.
Preparing for deep
healing. If you are prepared,
retracing usually goes well with few problems. If you are not prepared, and you suddenly feel angry or
exhausted, for example, you will decide the development program must be making
you worse, and some quit the program.
The
correct attitude is to welcome
retracing because it means you are healing at profound levels. If you really donÕt want to retrace and
heal at the deepest level, then you may not want to do a complete development
program.
For
much more on this topic, read Retracing
and Trauma Retracing.
FOCUSING
ON YOUR HEALING
To
achieve success in healing a rape with the method described in this article, it
is necessary to focus upon it, and make it a priority and part of your
lifestyle. For example, make it
your Òreal jobÓ for a number of years, even if you hold another job.
What if I donÕt
have time? It is necessary for many people to be very efficient with
time in order to fit in the procedures and the diet properly. This is actually not hard to do, in
most cases. Ask your Helper for
help in organizing your time for the best success. For more on this subject, read The
Spa Morning Routine and Time Management.
A path. The
method of healing described in this article is really a path, not just a
technique or method. A path means
that it is an entire lifestyle that leads to a clear destination when
followed. More details about this
idea are in the article The Healing Path.
DEVELOPMENT
– A SECRET OF THIS PROGRAM
The
most unusual feature of the programs we set up is that they cause development. This is a series of changes in the body
and brain that help restore the body, and make it much stronger and more
resilient.
The
idea of development is not well known on earth, but is very real. It is programmed into the DNA of
everyone. However, it does not
occur in most people because they are not well-nourished
enough and because they do not do other procedures that are required for
it. For details about it, read Introduction To Development and the
other articles about it on this website.
V. MODIFICATIONS OF A DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM
1. Obtain loads of Rest and Sleep.
Go to bed by 9 PM each evening, or even earlier, if
possible.
2. Eat a strict
development diet that is about 70-80% vegetables. All vegetables
must be cooked soft, not raw or crunchy. A
little salad is okay, but not recommended. To understand all the reasons for this, please read Raw Food on this site.
3. Eat some red
meat, preferably lamb, ground chuck (hamburger), or chuck steak at least three
times weekly, or even daily for a few months. Do this even if there is no desire to eat
red meat, which is common. It
will help reverse the nutritional depletion that always occurs with rape, and
which is otherwise often permanent.
If red
meat does not taste good, or does not digest well, here is how to eat it:
a.
Start with a very small amount – a few bites, perhaps - and increase
daily little by little.
b. Eat
it alone. Do not combine it with
other foods, as this makes digestion more difficult.
c. Eat it slowly and chew each bite at least 20 times.
d. Take
a powerful digestive aid with it.
The best is usually one that contains pancreatin
and ox bile.
e.
Relax when eating, and rest afterwards for at least 15 minutes.
4. Avoid all fruit
and fruit juices. These make the effects of a rape
worse. Professional rapists often
tell the person she must eat fruit every day. This just keeps the person weak.
5. Drink around 3
quarts or 3 liters of water daily – but only spring water, or carbon-only
filtered tap water if that is what you can afford or all you find. Avoid
other types of drinking water.
This is very important.
Reverse osmosis water, for example, or alkaline waters, are not good.
This is all explained in detail in the Water For
Drinking article on this site.
6. Take the
specific supplements on a development program, and NOT ANY other supplements. The
reasons for this are: a) other supplements will ruin the program, in most
cases, b) they are not needed in our experience, and c) all nutritional
supplements, herbs, homeopathic remedies and essential oils are yin, and this
is not beneficial. Fewer is generally much better.
7. The
detoxification procedures are often amazingly helpful, so do as many as you
can. They are discussed in the section below.
VERY
HELPFUL AND PERHAPS ESSENTIAL DETOXIFICATION PROCEDURES (and stay away from all
others that some health professionals advocate)
1. Infrared lamp
sauna therapy. The use of a near infrared lamp sauna
will help you heal much faster, in our experience. Other saunas such as the far infrared type and the
traditional hot rocks sauna are not as good.
Build
or buy your own sauna, preferably.
You will use it daily for years.
You can build one for under $150.00 in parts, or buy one for about
$700.00 from one of the companies listed on the Sauna
BuilderÕs Page. You will use
it every day for five to ten years, preferably.
If it
is too much money, just buy one or two reddish Òheat lampsÓ at Home Depot or
any hardware store for about $12.00 each.
Shine one or more on your abdomen and back for an hour or so daily. This way you will get the rays, though
not as much heat. It is much
better than nothing, but not as good as using a heat lamp sauna.
Use the
sauna preferably twice or even three times every day for about 30 to 45
minutes. Start with only 15-20
minutes per session until you are sweating well. Do not do more, at first.
For more on this remarkable therapy, read Sauna
Therapy on this website. This
article also has a link for free plans to build a near infrared lamp sauna for
yourself.
2. Coffee enemas. These
are extremely helpful, no matter how strange they sound. They move your energy downward (which
is required for healing) and they replenish nutrients, heal infections, and
relax the nervous system. They
also clean the colon, detoxify the liver, and have at
least 20 other benefits. Read Coffee Enemas on this site for more on this
important procedure, and how to do them properly.
3. Vaginal peroxide
implants. This is a newer procedure and very excellent and
powerful. For details, read Vaginal Peroxide Implants or the Penis Peroxide Procedure.
4. Vaginal coffee
implants. All the women who do these report fantastic benefits from these. The reasons may be complex. A similar procedure may help men who
have been penis-whipped. For more
about this procedure, please read The Vaginal
Coffee Cleanse or Penis Coffee on this site.
5. Foot reflexology
daily. This is also quite remarkable in its
effects, yet simple and inexpensive.
Always do the entire foot,
top, bottom and sides. Also, be
sure to rub hard in the webbing on the top of the foot, between the toes. You must press firmly all over the
foot. Any spot that is tender or
painful usually needs more rubbing and more pressing. Repeating this daily can have wonderful benefits.
Rapes
and other traumas often disturb the brain architecture, which is the
positioning of the brain within the head.
This can be corrected with a specific reflexology routine. It requires that you rub the toes, pull
the toes, and twist the toes in every way. The toes reflex to the head and the brain. For more on this topic, please read Brain Architecture and Reflexology
on this site.
The
reflex areas to the vagina and uterus are located below and behind the ankle bones, on both sides of both feet. Always press on these parts of the
foot, as well.
6. The pulling down
mental exercise (and NO OTHER meditations or mental relaxation exercises
because they may relax you but they do not cause development). The
pulling down exercise is very powerful.
Other meditations may make you feel better, do not have the same healing
effects.
Trauma
of any kind tends to move energy upward, which is bad for your health. This mental exercise, unlike many
others, reverses that direction and moves energy in a healthy downward
direction. For more on this
interesting topic, read The Pulling Down Exercise
and Downward Moving Energy And Healing on this
website.
7. The Daily Spinal
Twist Exercises. Many rapes cause a pronounced twisting or severe subluxations or misalignments of the spine. This often
produces symptoms such as back pain, leg pain, knee pain, stiffness, trouble
walking or even standing, or perhaps neck tightness.
However,
even if no symptoms are obvious, rape often twists the spine in unusual
ways. This may be due to the
physical act itself or to a tensing of the body.
Correction is not
that easy because the spine is often twisted deeply. You can visit a
very good chiropractor or manipulative osteopath after a rape. However, many women report that
chiropractors and osteopaths either cannot correct the spine, or are afraid to
manipulate the spine for fear of causing more damage.
In this
case, another of the development procedures often works better. It is fully described in an article on
this website entitled The Spinal Twist Procedures. Anyone who experiences trauma can
benefit from it. Do them gently at
first, and do them preferably several times daily.
8. Ask for
the return of your guide creatures. This is unusual, but there are
fine-matter creatures around the body that assist a person to function
better. A rape usually causes one
or more of them to leave. When
this happens, one feels very disoriented and has trouble thinking.
Getting these creatures back requires the development program. Also, you can ask lovingly and persistently that Òall the guide creatures return to
youÓ. This is a very important
accelerator procedure! For
details, read Controllers And Other Guide Creatures.
9. Ask for
the return of your planning souls. These are very advanced souls, some of whom are driven off during rapes. Getting them back requires the development program. Also, you can ask that they return to
you. For details, read The Planning Souls.
THE
ACCELERATORS
The following other
procedures can be amazing to speed up your healing! They are optional,
but highly recommended.
1. The salt rub. This is
a new addition to the program that is simple, inexpensive and very
excellent. Do it daily and more
than once daily if needed and if it helps with symptoms of anxiety or
others. For details, read The Salt Rub.
2. Spinal
brushing. This can also be amazing, and very simple. Skin brushing is an ancient method of
activating the skin and relaxing the body.
Brushing
the skin over the spine – from the top of your head all the way to the
coccyx or tailbone (which is in between the butt cheeks) is extremely helpful
to restore the nervous system after a rape.
The brush. You will need a body brush or a loofah. I suggest a plastic body brush with
synthetic bristles. It should have
a long handle so you can reach your whole back. The reason for using a plastic
brush is that a natural bristle brush with a wood handle may become moldy very
quickly if you use it in the shower.
The procedure.
1. You can do spinal
brushing with the body dry or wet. Dry is a little more intense. Wet is more gentle. Dry brushing is done sitting down, or
lying on your stomach. You can do
it standing up, but this is less comfortable so I do not recommend it. With dry brushing, you can wear
underpants, if you wish, but pull them down to do the sacrum and tailbone
areas.
Wet
brushing is done in the shower or bathtub. Sit in the shower, if at all possible, for comfort. Just buy a small shower stool. This is a wonderful way to begin your
day, ladies!
2. Please do it twice daily!
Do it when you arise in the morning, and just before bedtime at
night. These are often the best
times to do it because you are most relaxed. However, you can do it at any hour.
3. Always start at the top of your head. Move the brush in a circle around the
crown of your
head, which is toward the back of the head. Do several rotations, circling in either direction. If you start in one direction, however,
do not stop and change directions.
Keep going in the same direction.
Then
move the brush down your entire spine in one motion, starting at your neck and
ending at the tailbone area. Do
not stop along the way, if at all possible. If you have to switch hands to reach all parts of your
spine, do so quickly.
Remember,
only move the brush downward – and never upward. This is important!
Do the
procedure with enough force that you feel it deeply. Do not scratch yourself much, but it should hurt just a
little bit.
This
procedure may sound unusual, but a number of women find it extremely helpful
after a rape to realign the nervous system. They need it for at least a week after the rape, and many continue
to do it for a few months until they relax without it.
3. The daily kelp
wrap. This can be another amazing addition to your healing
program. It is a little messy, but
very helpful to do daily or as often as you can, for up to one year after a rape.
It is a
rapid way to restore many minerals to the body. Just imagine you are at a very fancy spa each morning!
The
procedure is to apply cooked powdered kelp to the skin. For the details about this wonderful
procedure, please read the Kelp Wrap article on this
website.
4. The neck
pull. Lie down comfortably on a bed or on the floor on your
back, with no
pillow under your head. Now
try to lengthen or stretch out your neck as much as you can by pushing your
neck away from your body and downward a little into the bed. Also move your shoulders downward
toward your feet. Also, breathe in
deeply at the same time.
If you
do this right, the neck will suddenly ÒpopÓ or crack slightly each time you
lengthen or extend it. Now rest,
twist your head from side to side a little, and relax.
When
you are ready, do the procedure again.
Then relax again. Do this
at least 10 times or more every day.
Provided you do it sensibly, you cannot overdo on it, so do not worry
about this possibility, in my experience.
For
another explanation of this helpful procedure, please read The Neck Pull on this website.
5. The jolt. This
procedure moves energy downward very forcefully from your head to your
feet. It is totally harmless and always
beneficial. It will help heal a
rape much faster. For all the
details, read The Jolt on this website.
6. Down
hugs. If you have an intimate partner or close friend, Down Hugs are wonderful.
7. The toe
trance. This is quite amazing, safe and powerful. It requires a helper, who can be
anyone. For details, read the Toe Trance.
8. Down sex. This is
another very powerful healing procedure.
For details, read Down Sex.
9. The hand trance.
10. Psychodrama. This is
a very powerful method, but one that needs to be done carefully. For details, read Psychodrama.
For
more details about the accelerator procedures, read Accelerators
To Speed Healing.
NATURAL
METHODS TO HEAL STDS
Sexually-transmitted diseases can be stopped and eventually removed from
the body completely. The vaginal
or penis coffee procedure and the vaginal or penis peroxide procedure, along
with the entire development program, will help a lot. Women can also read The Vagina.
SOUL
RECOVERY
Recovering
souls that were lost from the body during or right after the rape is essential
for full healing. This is an
esoteric topic, but one that is extremely important.
If one
who has experienced rape has not recovered her souls, she will have the sad look
about her, will be weak, less intelligent, less able to think clearly, and may
have other problems as well. To
restore the souls, it is important to recall why soul loss occurs during and
right after a rape.
Reasons for
soul loss during a rape. These
include:
- sexual fluid loss
- the body becoming yin for any reason
- trauma or beatings of any kind
- brainwashing
- nutrition loss
- chiropractic problems
- getting Points (sensitive or numb
spots anywhere on the body)
- fatigue or weakness of the body
- disease in the body such as sexually-transmitted diseases
- getting toxic metals, as occurs from the male sexual fluid
and as a result of depletion of zinc and other nutrients
- lowering of the sodium/potassium ratio in the tissues, which
always occurs with rape
- psychological fears that always result from rape
- getting triggers.
This is a brainwashing term.
It often happens with professional rape. Triggers are implanted suggestions to panic if certain
sounds, sights or smells are brought to you. These essentially cause post-traumatic stress reactions or
PTSD that are frightening and often seem to occur for no good reason
The soul
restoration process.
Placeholders. The
actual process is to capture the aberrant souls that were brought in during the
rape and replace them with the original souls, if they can be found. If they cannot be found, then one must
replace the aberrant souls with what are called placeholder souls until the
correct souls can be found.
It is a
tedious and slow process due to the factors listed below. This is the reason why development
often works for rape recovery when other programs are not enough, including
other nutritionally-based programs. They are simply not comprehensive and
powerful enough.
Problems
that slow progress are:
Unable to
locate the correct souls. The correct souls have been with the
person since birth, in most cases.
Some are easy to find, but others may be taken away and are never found. This damages the person in subtle ways.
Individualized. The healing must be very individualized depending
upon what occurred, the personÕs personality, and other factors such as oneÕs
age, marriage status, and belief system.
Need for a complete
development program. This involves some cost, time, and a
fair amount of effort on the part of the participant.
Other invaders. Once an aberrant soul enters a personÕs energy field,
it often brings in its friends and gets rid of the protector souls that
normally protect a personÕs brain and energy field.
Weakness. The
entire body is weak and malnourished, which slows healing.
Fear. This
slows healing of rape until it fades, hopefully.
For
more details, read Soul Recovery.
MENTAL
HEALING OF TRAUMA
This aspect
of healing from rape is not emphasized enough, in our view. Here are some essentials:
1. Live according
to the Ten Commandments and the Golden Rule. This is not so easy to
do, but very important! For
details, read The Ten Commandments and The Golden Rule.
Also,
follow the rules for lifestyle, diet and more of the development program.
2. Forgive seventy
times seven times (meaning do it a lot, over and over again!)
Forgiving means letting go of your anger, hatred and other grudges
against everyone,
no matter what they said, thought or did.
Forgive and forgive some more, your whole life. Never stop.
Forgiving
does NOT mean:
a) condoning bad behavior.
b) that you did something wrong.
c) that you must stay in contact with someone who did an evil
deed, or acted improperly.
d) that you should not take steps to avoid rape in the future,
including sending someone to jail.
It
simply means that holding on to any trauma with its anger, hatred and
resentment, is not worth it and only makes one worse. Someone wrote that not forgiving is like swallowing poison
and expecting the other person to die.
Forgiving
also means that you accept the idea that we sometimes do not understand why
things occur. Let it go anyway.
Make
sure to forgive not only the rapist, but also others who were involved, such as
oneÕs parents, perhaps, who should have protected one. For some reason, women often blame
their mother in rape cases.
It also
means forgiving all men, all penises, all sexuality, and even letting go of
general anger toward the world.
This is a tall order, I realize, but absolutely essential. Good counseling may help, especially if
it is all about forgiveness, not about who did what and how horrible it all
was. That is okay for a few days,
perhaps, after an incident. Then
let it go and stop rehashing it.
Avoid any counselor who just wants you to hold on to your ÒjustifiedÓ
anger. There is no such thing.
Among the most
important people to forgive is yourself. This
may also be the most difficult.
Many women continue to torture themselves, asking why they let a certain
man into their lives, why they attended a certain meeting or party that fateful
night, why they dressed a little immodestly, and so on. It is best to learn your lessons, and
move on.
Under the law of grace, you are forgiven
by God for everything that you have done or not done. This is
an absolute truth, with no exceptions, no matter how badly you think you
behaved, and no matter how someone else behaved. In truth, no one is perfect, you will find. Everyone makes mistakes.
Instead
of blaming yourself, be glad you are still alive to talk about it, try to help
others, and not focus on your own misery. Others have it worse, no matter how bad your situation was or is.
Try to see Òthe face of ChristÓ in everyone,
including your rapist. I know this is a tall order, but we are
admonished to do this. Another
Bible verse comes to mind that is a tough one: ÒInasmuch as ye have done it unto
one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.Ó – Matthew
25:40. This is about forgiveness.
Spiritual
aspects of forgiveness. If possible, remember that you are not
just a physical being. The body
and the soul experienced rape, but the spirit remains pure, untouched, and as
shining and radiant as ever. This
is the truth, not just fancy words or phrases. This realization is often absolutely needed in order to
complete the forgiveness process. For more details, read Forgiving and Forgiving Parents.
A
forgiveness program on the internet is called Total
Forgiveness. It consists of a
DVD program. There is also a
seminar for women, but we donÕt know if the seminar is good quality or safe.
3. Let go of victim
thinking. An important and difficult step for many who experience a
rape is to let
go of all thoughts of victimhood.
You may think this is crazy.
ÒHow can I think otherwise?Ó, you may ask. You can, and you must for complete
healing.
Occasionally,
situations are brought to our lives that are horrible, for reasons we cannot
understand. You must come to
believe that your soul and your spirit somehow agreed to the trauma, although
the reasons why may not be clear right now.
This
awareness must be learned in an honest, not a phony way, without feeling guilty
and without brushing the whole episode aside and trying to bury it alive.
Letting go of the victim mentality is
critical, at some juncture, because victims cannot forgive fully. One must
leave the victim consciousness at the door, so to speak, and enter a realm of
full awareness and full responsibility for your body and your actions, even if
what happened does not make any sense to the logical mind. For more, read the articles Letting Go, Victimhood
and The Real Self on this
website. There is also a small
book similar to the Real Self article that you can read or purchase. To read it, go to The Real Self book.
4. Learn about
gratitude and practice it daily. This is also necessary and powerful to overcome any
serious trauma. Gratitude is
the idea that it could have been worse - which is always the truth. There are always things to be grateful for. Perhaps you can be grateful you had friends who helped you cope, or you stayed alive, or you
were able to cry and get some of the hurt out of your system, etc. So focus on the good aspects, rather
than any negative aspect.
One
always has a choice to look on the dark side or the bright side of any incident
or condition. You can harbor
anger, feel sorry for yourself, and turn the anger inward and allow it to
become depression. On the other
hand, you can be grateful that you survived. You can then move on more easily, and perhaps assist others
to prevent such crimes or help others handle them better.
5. Learn about
grace. The word gratitude is related to grace. Grace is the undeserved and unearned love of the
Creator for you. After a
trauma, many people focus on the negative, and cannot believe that it was grace
operating. Yet the grace of God is
there for you, and we are admonished to accept this Grace into our lives. It will heal all things, if you allow
it. Try to realize its presence in
your life.
6. Turn all over to
God. You may ask, turn what
over? The answer is
everything! Your
pain, your anger, your hatred of men, your shame, your humiliation, your
depression, your diseases, your confusion, and more. Get into this habit and keep it
up. It is the only way to handle
the feelings properly, at times.
No need to keep analyzing it all!
7. God will use
your experience of rape to help others, if you allow it. A
wonderful affirmation for those who have experienced rape is ÒTake me, use me,
Father, to do Thy will.Ó
8. Have a
sense of humor. It is difficult, but it can be done and it lightens
the mood. Try telling yourself and
others that you decided to play hard, this time, for example, or you decided to
let it all hang out this time. It
can help shift your energy – that is all.
9. Pushing
down with certain visualizations. In the article, The Pushing Down Exercise, in the section entitled Helpful Visualizations, there
is one called Ravaged by God or The Godly Rape. It is a type of counter-trauma that will help some women who
have experienced rape. It works
best doing it at the same time one does a coffee enema.
10. Counseling. Counseling after a rape can be helpful or it can be
bad, depending on the counselor.
Many people report having bad experiences with counseling!
Confiding in someone about a rape can be good, but be careful with whom
you discuss it. Here are some
reasons why:
1. Disbelief. One client told me that after telling her counselor
about her violent rape, the counselor questioned the truth of the story. The woman became so discouraged she
decided she just could not tell anyone else about it and instead she became
depressed and withdrew from the world.
2.
Encouraging
anger. Some counselors or others you may talk with will encourage you to
stay angry and even to exact revenge.
While getting in touch with anger is good, holding onto anger and
thinking thoughts of revenge can get a person killed, and certainly does not
lead to forgiveness and full healing.
3. Inexperience
or incompetence. Those who
have not experienced trauma themselves often cannot or donÕt want to understand
it well. Beware of this serious
problem with counseling and some counselors.
OTHER
METHODS TO HEAL FROM RAPE
1. Good quality
hugs every day. These can be with anyone. They are very necessary for some who experienced rape, and
they are good for everyone, even if you have not experienced any type of trauma
in your life. These should be
non-sexual and are just to keep you feeling the truth, which is that you are loved by your Creator more than you will ever
know.
2. Walking. A half-hour
daily walk slowly
can be extremely helpful, according to some of out clients. I am not sure why. If you are uncomfortable walking alone,
walk with a male friend. Walking
in a covered mall is also often safer.
3. Quality
relationships. Many women report that
a high-quality relationship with a man, preferably a marriage, is extremely
helpful for a woman who has experienced rape.
4. Rebounding. Using
a rebounder or mini-trampoline can be a helpful exercise, according to our
clients. However, you must do the
pushing down exercise at the same time that you are on the rebounder in order
to move subtle energy in the proper direction.
5. Other methods
such as rapid eye movement therapy and others. We know
less about these methods. Some
report help from them. We donÕt
think they are generally as powerful as the ones mentioned above.
SPIRITUAL
HEALING
To heal
fully, one must learn that you are spirit, not body, at your core. Spirit is untouched, pure, whole, and not violated. You are here on earth to learn a few
lessons and help others to live better lives. So it is time to get on with your mission and your
life. Indeed, it is time to use
your trauma as a springboard to move you ahead much faster than you otherwise
would have done.
When
viewed this way, rape or any other trauma can move a woman or man forward in
wonderful ways. She or he may:
- Let go of stupid, dangerous, or perhaps superficial
and flirty behaviors.
- Let go of false modesty and false humility, in favor
of understanding true modesty and true humility.
- Learn to appreciate life more.
- Learn that you can live deeply and intensely, having
survived the intense experience of rape.
Some who have experienced rape run from intensity, because it reminds
them of their rape. Others,
however, realize that intensity is not all bad and there are great benefits to
living a more intense life (not a stressful life. They are different.).
- Use the incident to assist others in some way. It might be by teaching young women and
girls how to behave and dress to avoid rape, or helping to teach parents how to
protect their children properly.
It
could just be to work to change the rape laws to make punishment more in line
with the violence of the crime – in other words, make the punishment more
severe.
- Learn to appreciate a good partner who will love you
properly. He might be a little
boring, but that is far superior to the more handsome, exciting players and
sexually aggressive ones who may have caused or contributed to a rape.
- Experiencing rape may undo some of what is called karmic debts,
or injustices you have done to others in your distant past, which you often do
not recall. Development programs
seem able to do the same thing, so they cause a little, but not a lot of
suffering. They may be called rape-equivalents,
in this sense.
- A rape can be a type of foretaste or practice run
for surrendering your life and your body to God, for offering up the ego self
to the Real Self in the process that is sometimes called Òbeing born againÓ.
- You may become so sensitive that it opens up a whole
new and exciting world for you.
- Other positive outcomes are available to those who
make a conscious decision to forgive, move on, and start life over in a better
way. See the last part of the
article entitled Rape on this site for a slightly longer
discussion of the benefits of rape.
Rape is an emptying
process. It depletes a person nutritionally, energetically, and in
other ways. When understood
properly, you will see that emptying can be a good thing, as it empties out a
lot of egocentric and superficial aspects of yourself. Spiritual development requires that you
be empty of self to you can be filled with the spirit of God or Òslain in the
SpiritÓ.
Rape
can hasten this process along. It
can help a person to know that he or she can handle feeling empty inside, which
is necessary to receive God or the Holy Spirit on a daily basis. In fact, one must become comfortable
with the empty feeling. Some
writers, such as J. Krishnamurti and some Christian
writers express this as learning to Òdie every dayÓ to the ego self, so that
you can become alive in Christ or alive in Spirit.
Become closer to
god. This direction in your life will help anyone. It may also prevent another rape
because many rapists do not want to tangle with religious people, often, who
are not afraid to report them and take action against them. Here are just a few ways to do this.
A. Many Christian,
Jewish and Buddhist organizations, among others, are willing and able to help
those who have experienced rape. Some
provide excellent spiritual counseling, for example, which can be better than
regular counseling. They may also
help with medical services, employment, and even help single young women find a
good mate.
B. Entering a convent or monastery.
This is a very protected and controlled environment that helps some
who have been through a bad rape.
This can work well for some people.
Problems
with this solution are 1) it restricts your ability to function in society,
hold a job, etc. and 2) convents and monasteries have strict rules that one
must follow, 3) it can be hard to find a suitable place, and 4) this lifestyle
is not suitable for everyone and worst, 5) many monasteries and convents are
not safe today.
C. For guidance,
always privately turn to God and to the Bible. You do
not need to join a particular church or group, although it may help. Reading the Bible or other spiritual
books on your own is very helpful for most people.
Warning: Do not
join a womenÕs private Òtouching groupÓ. These are offered in some churches. This is an odd practice in which some
churches tell women who have experienced rape that they should undress together
in a very private and safe place, and take turns touching each otherÕs private
parts, mainly for fun and mutual pleasure. The idea is that it is a kind of chummy, fun substitute for
regular sex.
This is a disgusting, satanic idea that
heals nothing and spreads disease terribly, because the women often lick their finger and then
touch another womanÕs vaginal area with it. Also, some women report that it is too much touching and
homosexual sex, and very bad. I
would warn against this practice, although some women may enjoy it.
WHAT
CAN HUSBANDS AND BOYFRIENDS DO AFTER A PARTNER, OR EVEN JUST A FRIEND, HAS
EXPERIENCED RAPE?
Many
clients say that they have only recovered because they have a sympathetic and
understanding husband or partner.
The most important things for a partner to do are:
1.
Listening. Listen a lot to your partner, who will need to express what
she feels without needing you to Ôfix itÕ, in most cases. It is just a healing process that needs
to proceed as fast as possible.
2. Hugs. Many
deep hugs are very, very needed and extremely helpful.
3. Sex? Some who
experience rape want more sex.
Many others, however, need to avoid sexual intercourse for a while, as
it just reminds her of the rape.
This phase will pass, especially if she follows a complete development
program as described in this article.
In the meantime, partners can still hug, touch and play gently. We only recommend Down Sex and not ordinary or regular sex.
4. Massage. Couples
massage can be very helpful.
Anyone who experiences rape needs to be held and touched correctly by
her partner. Try to find materials
describing how a couple can use massage to deepen their relationship. Be careful of professional massage therapy, however. Please read the article entitled Massage on this site.
5. Keep loving. Of
course, keep loving your partner who experienced rape
no matter how many diseases and how damaged she has become. Have her do the peroxide and ozone
baths to get rid of diseases. You may
be surprised how well she can recover and be even healthier and happier than
before the rape.
6. Safety
issues. Anyone who has experienced rape is usually terrified to go
out alone, even to go to work alone.
Therefore, the two of you must adjust your lifestyles, dress and activities. Your partner may no longer feel
comfortable with certain friends, for example, or going certain places.
7. Study and
practice. Encourage and assist your partner to study this article and
to follow her development program faithfully.
SOCIAL MEDIA
AFTER RAPE
Some who experience rape benefit from support groups on social
media. Also, spending time online
is usually safer than spending oneÕs time at discos, bars, gyms and other
locations.
Problems with social media, however, are that your privacy
is virtually always compromised and sexual predators use social media to find
women to rape. Therefore, we
advise great caution in this area.
Never post photos of yourself, and never give out phone numbers,
addresses, plans or activities that can be used to track you.
For much more information about rape, effects of rape, rape prevention and
rape self-defense, please read the companion article to this one, entitled Rape.
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