by Dr. Lawrence Wilson
© October 2016, L.D. Wilson Consultants, Inc.
All information in this article is for educational purposes only. It is not for the diagnosis, treatment, prescription or cure of any disease or health condition.
WHAT IS EMPATHIC BLENDING?
Empathic blending is the energy exchange that occurs, at times, between people. It is due to a blending of the aura or energy fields of the two or more people involved.
The energy field of a person is the emanation of subtle energy from the body. It might be called an electrical field that radiates a slight glow around a person, and around all living things. It has various layers, and may extend from several inches to miles around a person, depending on one’s level of mental development. It cannot be seen by most people, although some people can see it as a slight colored glow around people. The healthier a person, the brighter their glow, as a general rule. For more details about the aura or energy field, please read The Aura on this website.
WHAT OCCURS WITH EMPATHIC BLENDING?
When one visualizes blending with another person, it causes a transfer of information from one person to the other. This may seem strange, but it is true. It is very similar to, or even identical to the phenomena in electricity and magnetism called induction. In electricity, when two wires are close together, as in a transformer, the current from one wire can cause or induce a flow of current in the other wire. This is how a transformer works.
Another related concept to help explain empathic blending is resonance. This is when two frequencies of energy blend in such a way that they affect each other a lot.
Another related concept is entrainment. This is when two frequencies of energy blend in a way that one strongly impacts the other. These concepts may help one understand empathic blending.
Another related concept is imprinting. This is where one person leaves a trace or imprint on another person due to empathic blending.
WHERE DOES EMPATHIC BLENDING OCCUR?
Empathic blending occurs between mates, between parents and children, and between students and teachers. It can also occur at work between colleagues and work associates, between two friends, and in groups, as well.
It also occurs between people and animals, and between animals and other animals. It can even occur between people and their plants or shrubs, and between animals and plants, and plants with other plants. This is how common and easy this type of blending is.
Now let us discuss some interesting aspects of empathic blending, such as why it occurs so easily, how to use it for healing, dangers and risks it carries, and how to avoid the dangers so as to maintain your health and your identity intact.
WHY DOES EMPATHIC BLENDING OCCUR?
Basically, it occurs because all human beings and animals have a subtle energy field or electrical energy field around their bodies. The strongest part of it extends only a few inches away from the body, but during certain situations, it grows very large, up to several miles in diameter.
This field can also be extended to another person in some situations, such as in sexual contacts. A property of this energy field is that it can overlap or blend with the field of another person, causing the phenomenon. As stated above, it is a type of resonance and induction phenomenon.
RELATIVE STRENGTH MATTERS A LOT IN EMPATHIC BLENDING
The transfer of information when two blend in this way occurs from the stronger or more vital person to the weaker or less vital one. This can be used for good, but often it can be very harmful for the one receiving, and possibly also for the one sending the energy.
For example, if one is a healer and one blends with a client or patient, if the healer is stronger or has more vitality, then the healer will give energy to the client. However, if the client happens to be at a higher vitality level than the healer, then the client will extend their illness to the healer, making the healer more ill.
This cannot be avoided, so be careful if you are blending with anyone who is ill in any way.
HOW CAN EMPATHIC BLENDING CAUSE HEALING?
As the etheric bodies blend, there occurs a transfer of information. For example, if a healer who is stronger blends with a client who has a virus, the healer sends a healing vibration or energy that may weaken or even kill the virus. This can help reduce or completely remove the virus.
The effect may not last. However, at times, it does last because enough change takes place in the receiver that the virus cannot once again gain a foothold after the blending contact has occurred. Many healers actually do this consciously or unconsciously. They make good doctors and nurses, for example, because everyone who comes in contact with them begins to feel better automatically, as it were.
As another example, if the weaker person is a very slow oxidizer and the stronger one has a balanced oxidation rate, this information is transferred also. It can cause the oxidation rate of the weaker person to increase as a result. This is related to an article on this website called The Car Analogy To Understand Nutritional Balancing Science. By “forcefully” speeding up the oxidation rate, toxin removal speeds up greatly, and this has a powerful healing effect.
Many other healing possibilities exist. The stronger person could also slow down a very fast oxidation rate in the weaker person. The stronger person could help correct an imbalanced mineral ratio in the weaker person, and so on. This is essentially how it works.
CAN EMPATHIC HEALING TRANSFER VITAMINS, MINERALS OR OTHER SUBSTANCES FROM ONE PERSON TO ANOTHER?
The answer is yes, to some degree. Empathic healing is a purely vibrational or energetic healing method that transfers energies from one person to another.
Empathic blending will transfer the energy of a vitamin, mineral, herb or other substance from one person to another. However, it does not transfer the actual chemical substance of a food, vitamin or mineral from one person to another. This may be called a vibrational or radionic approach to healing, and it works, to a degree.
One might also transfer the energy of better digestion, and this, in turn, might allow the weaker person to begin absorbing more vitamins and minerals from their food.
CAN EMPATHIC BLENDING ALSO TRANSFER , AT LEAST IN PART, ATTITUDES, HABITS OR EMOTIONS FROM ONE PERSON TO ANOTHER?
This is possible, as attitudes and even habit patterns are basically energetic patterns. So it is possible to influence the attitudes and habits of others. Indeed, this is part of what occurs with prayer groups. They not only send or transfer healing energy. They also send the message to please give up your smoking or drinking habit, or please relax and let go, or other changes in attitudes and beliefs. Sometimes it works, particularly if there is a lot of love between the people.
IS LOVE BETWEEN PEOPLE IMPORTANT FOR THIS KIND OF BLENDING?
Yes. The phenomenon works in the most powerful way if there is a love bond between the two people involving both of them. However, as people know in prayer groups, it is fine to pray anonymously, and it carries power anyway. Love can be universal, and people who love others in this way make the best healers because they broadcast their love to everyone, everywhere on earth.
CAN ONE USE EMPATHIC HEALING CONSCIOUSLY AND SAFELY?
Yes, and all advanced spiritual people do this. They may give someone a hug, or just send them healing light, or something similar. In rare cases, they may actually enter a full-fledged relationship for the purpose of healing another. This is what is meant by blending very consciously for healing. However, the phenomenon is not very safe. This is the subject of the next section of this article.
PROBLEMS WITH EMPATHIC ENERGY EXCHANGES
CAN EMPATHIC BLENDING TRANSFER ILLNESSES AND NEGATIVE EMOTIONS FROM ONE TO ANOTHER?
The answer is yes. One can definitely transfer distorted or dark energies, disease states, negative attitudes or the energy of a bad habit from one to another. In fact, this occurs all of the time.
It often occur unconsciously in the helping professions, for example. If a doctor or nurse is tired and less alive or vital than the patient, the patient’s negativity and disease state can jump to the doctor or nurse. This is a common cause of fatigue, depression, and burnout among helping professionals. It also occurs in families, businesses and everywhere.
Healers are thus often be harmed by blending with others, even loved ones. They simply are not strong enough, or do not maintain enough boundaries, so they are forever blending sloppily with strangers and it takes a toll on them, even if the other person gets well as a result. It can be a serious problem, in fact, for anyone who cares about others and is willing to blend with others.
Sometimes, one wonders if a doctor cares enough because he or she seems somewhat distant. Keeping this distance can be a way to protect oneself from this problem, although it could, of course, also be just a way to not get too involved due to lack of caring.
EMPATHIC BLENDING AND ENERGY VAMPIRISM
Energy vampirism is the process by which one person steals a certain energy from another. The way it is done is often a misuse of empathic healing principles. Essentially, the one acting as the vampire blends a little with the victim, and then deliberately, even if unconsciously, does or says something that upsets the victim in such a way that the victim gives up a little energy to the vampire. Click on Vampirism to read more about this subject.
In this sense, energy vampirism is a kind of subtle seduction and violence practiced against others. For example, a few men or women will say “I love you”, but whenever you are around them, you then begin to feel worse, tired or depressed.
The fact is, they may indeed love your energy, but it is because they are able to disrupt it or perhaps steal a little for themselves. This happens a lot with parents who say they love their children, but who feed the children junk food to weaken the children. While it may be unconscious, it is still horrible and a type of vampire behavior.
So in the case of vampirism, the transfer of certain information is used specifically to disrupt another person’s energy field in such a way that the person gives us some energy to the vampire.
IDENTITY EXCHANGE, A MORE SERIOUS DANGER OF EMPATHIC BLENDING
Another worse danger of empathic blending is called identity exchange. That is the name given to the phenomenon by Mr. Roy Masters.
In this strange, but common phenomenon, when two blend, the stronger person is able to actually steal a part of the identity of the weaker person. At the same time, the stronger one is able to implant a part of his or her identity in the weaker person.
This may sound very odd, and it is somewhat unusual. However, it occurs commonly. Here is an example. If a woman feels impure and perhaps too masculine, she can often steal some of the innocence of her children, and exchange it for some of her more masculine traits that they now begin to feel inside of themselves. While this is a crude example, it is a common one.
PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM HARM FROM EMPATHIC BLENDING OR HEALING
Simple measures can help protect you if and when you blend your energy with others:
1. Know that empathic blending is always occurring, so be careful with whom you mix. Try to do it consciously, not sloppily. For example, casual sex is very bad for blending because you are not really in love and committed to the other person. This is why getting married before having sex is always best.
2. If possible, avoid blending with others if you are tired, hungry, thirsty or otherwise out of sorts. The reason is you will be weaker, and thus more influenced by others. This means that whenever possible, do not go out in public, if possible, if you are not well-rested, or if you are out of sorts in some other way. Instead, rest up, eat something and try to be more alive and centered before venturing out.
3. Be especially careful with all close relationships. Blending occurs easily and deeply in these situations. For example, be very careful with whom you have sex. Also be careful whom you hire in your business.
Also be careful whom you invite into your home, and where you spend your time around others such as at the movies, churches, etc. These are situations in which deeper blending occurs easily.
4. The most unbalanced and dangerous people to blend with tend to be the “players” and “socialites”. They attend many parties, sleep around, perhaps, or just rub elbows, as it were, with others all the time. They often spread diseases and “bad vibes” everywhere they go. I would avoid them all.
5. Spend some time alone each day to clean up your energy and help release the imprints you have gotten from others, even from nice people you interact with. This is a reason to have your own bedroom, if possible, so you can “unblend”, “unwind”, and re-center and rebuild your energy often. This is not necessary if you are married. When two people marry, they agree to blend their energy deeply and fully. It makes marriage very satisfying, but it is not always easy.
6. When in close relationships, it is best to keep one’s own “psychic space”. This just means to do your own thinking at all times and don’t fall into the temptation to just “go with a friend, no matter what”.
Teens often do this, wanting to be loved and accepted, and get in trouble as a result. Older people sometimes do it, too. It is called an addictive or co-dependent relationship.
7. Sex often causes harm. Sexual contact causes a lot of powerful energetic blending. This is explained in the article, Why People Want Sex on this site.
Unfortunately, it can cause harm to both people if they are not well-matched or compatible. Some people feel this each time they have sex with their partner.
When women have orgasms, their energy fields “open” and they feel the energy of their partner very deeply. They are also more influenced by their partner’s thoughts and feelings. This is why a woman or a man should only have sexual relations with someone they truly love. It is also one reason why rape is very bad for women.
VAMPIRISM AND EMPATHIC EXCHANGES IN CULTS AND RELIGIONS
In most, if not all cult situations, the leader basically hypnotizes his followers and then is able to blend easily with them. All that is needed is for the victim to “love” the leader a little too much, and lose perspective and distance.
Real love does not tend to cripple a person, but adoration of the wrong kind can and does cripple a person. This is a fine line, of course, but it is important when one is seeking to understand empathic blending.
The followers usually give up strength to the leader, who becomes even more rich, powerful or greedy. It all happens unconsciously in most cases. It happens in churches, temples, synagogues, sports arenas, theatres, auditorium and anywhere that a leader “entertains”, leads, speaks or works with a group of people. It can even occur via satellite television or radio to some degree because the etheric body can be extended this distance for a time.
The followers, audience, flock or groupies find themselves strangely weakened after attending church, or a group meeting, or some other contact with their guru or leader. Most of the time, all of this is unconscious. However, in the more evil or obvious cases, the rock star, guru or other leader deliberately does or says things to upset and steal energy from his fans, followers or flock. The effect is the same, whether the negative energy exchange is directed consciously or not.
National cult leaders do the same thing. Some cult leaders are masters at hypnotizing or mesmerizing thousands of strangers, and even a whole nation. Adolf Hitler, for example, and MaoTse Tung did this on a national and perhaps world-wide scale. They mesmerized their enemies to get them to leave the dictators alone for a while so they could gather strength.
Police sometimes must deal with criminals who mesmerize not only their victims, but the entire police force as well, stealing their energy and weakening them over and over again.
Harm to the leaders. The followers are not the only ones harmed by improper or misused etheric blending. Often harm comes to leaders such as famous sports stars, music stars, actors and actresses who have many “fans”. The leader starts to feel funny inside and may find himself or herself strangely attracted to sex, drugs, or just becoming ill. This is because they are blending improperly with strangers who are usually unconsciously finding ways to steal their energy.
This can occur to a degree with all leaders, teachers, healers, doctors, lawyers, parents, and others who direct others. They often fall ill as a result, or become depressed, suicidal or develop other problems of many kinds. To prevent this kind of negative blending, leaders in society must not become too involved with those whom they direct or lead.
HYPNOSIS AND EMPATHIC BLENDING
All hypnosis makes use of mild empathic blending. The hypnotist blends with the subject, or victim, and once inside, can then plant what are called post-hypnotic suggestions in the person. A skilled hypnotist can get a person to do almost anything, including kill their parents or have sex with him, or whatever else he wishes. That is how powerful hypnosis really is.
What is called the hypnotic trance state is really nothing more than a condition of the mind in which the person has been “opened up” to empathic blending somewhat artificially, in order that the hypnotist can get inside and plant post-hypnotic suggestions. People who have been traumatized early in life are particularly prone to this kind of forced entry, as it were. It is always dangerous and a form of subtle mental seduction of the worst kind. For more on this subject, read Hypnosis And Brainwashing on this website.
SEXUAL EXCESS AND EMPATHIC BLENDING
Too much sex has a particular type of weakening effect on both men and women that makes them much more open to empathic blending. This can be used for good if the partners are truly in love and they can then heal each other more easily. Often, however, they are not that in love and the excess sexual activity just causes excessive blending of a negative kind. This is a subtle subject, but it is a reason to be careful with sex, no matter how much fun it seems to be.
NUTRITIONAL IMBALANCES SUCH AS YIN DISEASE, AND EMPATHIC BLENDING
Sadly, when the body is weak, deficient or toxic at all, a person is far more open to empathic blending of a harmful type. It is harmful because it is out of the person’s control and one does not realize it is occurring. Essentially, the person is too open, blends too easily, and often becomes more ill.
Nutritional balancing science, in particular, is helpful to stop this type of “openness” to blending. The bodies must be made much more yang, more self-sufficient, more mineral-sufficient, less toxic and more balanced in terms of the oxidation rate and the major mineral ratios.
EFFECTS OF TRAUMAS ON BLENDING
Past physical emotional traumas have a curious effect of causing normal and healing blending to feel odd or strange. Meanwhile, unhealthy and destructive blending can seem “normal” or even enjoyable.
This occurs commonly with women who have had bad relationships with their fathers. Girls always tend to blend with their fathers from a very young age. If a father’s energy is abusive or even just strange, a young woman becomes accustomed to this energy.
Later, as an adult, when she blends with men her own age in relationships, she may enjoy or feel comfortable with men who are like her father. This causes endless relationship difficulties for some women!
In contrast, blending with a man who is emotionally more healthy, will feel unusual to her. It may feel boring, for example, or too “heavy”. Women will often comment this way about good men they meet. They often choose not enter a relationship with such men because blending with such a man is unfamiliar and feels uncomfortable. Fortunate is the woman who either realizes that the energy of a good man may feel unusual, at first. It is the truth, ladies.
Men can have exactly the same problem blending with women if the man’s mother was a vampire, abusive, possessive, or even just very weak or unhealthy. In this case, blending with a more emotionally healthy or even physically health woman may feel odd and perhaps threatening or boring.
This blending problem causes relationship breakups and other problems. To avoid it, here are suggestions:
1. Realize it is occurring.
2. Forgive your parents, especially, so that you do not harbor resentments that can tie you to your parents in many ways.
3. Forgive everyone else who has crossed your path in life, over and over, if necessary. This can help reduce resentments and even traumas that can bind you in many ways to other people and upset your energy fields.
4. A compelte nutritional balancing program can definitely help erase some emotional traumas.
5. When starting a new relationship, always give it time. Do not make snap judgments about people as long as there is some possibility of a friendship. Many women, in particular, do this with men. If they are not immediately attracted to the man, they run away. They often miss beautiful relationships for this reason. Remember, the energy of a good man or woman can take some time to appreciate.
ENTITY ATTACHMENT AND BLENDING
That which is called entity attachment or entity possession (though it not total possession) is a form of empathic blending. In these instances, a soul that is without a body, sometimes called a discarnate soul, blends or enters the etheric energy field of a person. This is what is mean by entity attachment, and nothing else.
Entity attachment is thus just blending of the etheric energy fields. It can be positive or negative, as with all empathic blending. Most of the time, however, it is negative and needs to be stopped as soon as possible. The discarnate is usually not that smart, and often it is mistaken in its own identity and turned into a negative being who causes havoc with the person. The entity can cause disease, depression, and even suicide in some cases. So entity possession is a subset of empathic blending that is usually highly negative, as with hypnosis and sexual excess.
Blending takes other interesting forms. Sometimes a person actually has several souls attached or blended into him or her. This may be done for protection, in fact, or to add knowledge or wisdom to a person. It may also be done to keep out other entities or energies that would otherwise be able to invade and blend too easily with a person that would harm him or her. So the subject of blending is a large one. For more on the interesting topic of entity attachment, read Soul Attachment And Release on this website.
OTHER ASPECTS OF EMPATHIC BLENDING
THE MALE-FEMALE BLENDING EXERCISE
It is possible to have profound healing, and some harm as well, between men and women because their gender differences allow for some rather profound blending to occur.
This occurs normally in all families. The children seem to naturally blend with the parent of the opposite sex. Couples may also blend in this deep way, but not necessarily. It has much less to do with sex, and has more to do with the degree of love and openness between them.
This type of deeper empathic blending in couples tends to be very positive. Couples that blend deeply tend to stay together longer, and tend to live and work together far better than other couples. However, if it occurs in children with unhealthy or abusive parents, it can set up the children for problems later in life.
This is a common problem in women who despise their fathers or brothers, for example, or in men who hate their mothers. They will have a difficult time blending with anyone later in life. This often causes severe problems in intimate relationships of all kinds. They are too angry to open themselves and blend easily with anyone of the other sex.
An exercise to help this problem, which can also assist all couples, is found in the article entitled Male-Female Blending on this website.
THE USE OF EMPATHIC BLENDING TO TEST PRODUCTS
One can intentionally send or transfer the energy of products such as herbs or vitamins that one holds inside of one’s energy field by placing the substance near the body in the middle of the chest area. This is a powerful way to test some substances for another person, although it is definitely not foolproof. It is the basis for some types of applied kinesiology and many related holistic healing techniques.
Note that at times, one must consume or eat a substance to transfer it well, while at other times just holding the substance can work to cause some transfer of energy to occur. Eating it is more powerful as it enters the etheric body more deeply and of course, it remains there for at least a day or two until the substance is eliminated naturally from the body.
OTHER USES OF EMPATHIC BLENDING
The scope of empathic blending is much larger than that which is described above. Blending of energy fields is the basis for many energetic healing sciences. These include, to some degree, homeopathy, some herbal and vitamin therapies, testing with applied kinesiology, and other energy medicine techniques.
In addition, it is the basis for some forms of brainwashing and mental influencing of people with special frequency machines. These methods are sometimes referred to as radionics and psychotronic warfare. For more on this topic, read Psychotronic Warfare and Energy Healing on this website.
All of these share the idea of using the fact of empathic blending to either influence, direct or introduce energies or substances into the human body by means of introducing the thought or substance into the etheric body first, and then allowing it to filter down into the physical body. This is the essence of all energetic healing and energetic warfare of this type.
BLENDING WITH ANIMALS
Blending with animals can be used for healing, and is extremely common on earth. This is one reason why people grieve horribly when the dog or cat dies, or even when a pet becomes ill.
It is, in fact, easier to empathically blend with your pet than with your husband or wife. The reason is that the pet offers little resistance of any kind, and in fact, this is one of the reasons people have and love their pets.
Some people who love animals do not blend easily with their mate, spouse, family members, friends and so on. However, they find they can blend with their pet.
This is blending that occurs between two souls who were formed at the same time. It is a fascinating and powerful type of blending.
Twin souls does not necessarily mean a man and a woman, although this also produces more blending because it causes male-female blending, discussed earlier in this article. However, twins can both be in male bodies or in female bodies. For much more about twins, please read Soul Twins on this website.
USE OF ELECTRICAL DEVICES TO ENHANCE BLENDING
It is possible to induce blending between two people or even just two souls using electronic equipment of a radionic type. This is somewhat dangerous, but it can be done.
Empathic blending is an large and complex subject that affects every area of our lives and our health. This article just touches on the subject. It helps explain why:
- One may feel better around some people than around others.
- Family and friendship ties can be strong and sometimes harmful.
- You can help others without even knowing them, just by your presence, a smile or a hug.
- Healing your own body and mind always helps everyone around you. You will begin to radiate a stronger light and love to everyone around you, and even to the whole world. It is a thoroughly win-win situation.