by Dr. Lawrence Wilson

© June 2023, LD Wilson Consultants, Inc.

All information in this article is for educational purposes only.  It is not for the diagnosis, treatment, prescription or cure of any disease or health condition.


I. Introduction

II. Sexual Issues

III. Good Habits – No drugs or alcohol, Cleanliness, Other

IV. Communication



Man-woman relationships are the basis for society. This article discusses basic ideas and methods to establish and maintain healthy relationships between men and women.

The situation on earth. Relationships between men and women have been severely damaged by the alien group called on this website the Rogues. The Bible calls them Satan.

The rogues are very sick beings who look and sound human but we don't consider them human. They are psychopathic mutants who often have electrical control boxes inside their heads. They are real and have controlled most events on earth for at least 20,000 years.

They work at all levels to damage man-woman relationships:

1. They force women and some men to work for them. They use many young women to cause boys and men to lose sexual fluid and this is absolutely terrible for them.

The girls and women also filth up boys and men with diseases that all the women have, no matter how healthy they look. The rogues also force women to send messages long distance, to give them yin energy during rapes, and much more.

NOTE: The following may sound harsh and offensive to women, but some women appreciate that we are exposing the truth:

Men need to know that ALL women have been severely beaten and raped and ALL women have sexual diseases as a result. Also, very few, if any, women will tell you the truth about this. They all lie. The rogues force all women to lie to men.

Men also need to know that ALL women have been conditioned by the rogues to want sex. This easily causes problems in relationships because the women want more sex than a man can provide without hurting himself by losing sexual fluid. Men need to hold on to their sexual fluid and only do down sex. We discuss this later in this article.

2. They frighten, horrify and terrorize women, causing severe emotional damage. They beat boys and some men to cause the same type of damage.

3. They destroy women's self esteem and sense of control over their lives.

4. They use high-tech methods to direct friendships, work relationships, family relationships and marriages.

5. They stifle creativity and normal human expression.

6. They teach lies in school, in the media, and everywhere. This mixes up the brains and damages them.

7. They have mixed up our religions and infiltrated them.

We are their slaves. The rogues consider themselves our rulers and we are their slaves sexually and in other ways.

Captures. Many young, attractive women are also their “captures”. This means that a rogue male has attacked her and demanded that she live with him, perhaps marry him, perhaps have children with him, and that the woman lie and tell others that it is a real relationship.

This is very common among attractive women. The rogues control the police and use high-tech methods to track the women and recover them if they run away.

NOTE: If a woman (or man) does not want this life, start doing three coffee enemas every day and start praying unselfishly such as the Lord's Prayer. Also, follow the entire development program as taught on this website only.

Our women clients tell us this works. The rogues will tell you you smell bad and they will leave you alone. They may tell you not to do coffee enemas, not to pray and not to follow the development program, but do them anyway. For details, read Captures, Rape and The Rape Planet.


False attitudes about men:

- The rogues teach women that “all men rape”, which is not true at all. The rogues rape.

- They also want women to abandon their moral standards so they will be more easily available for sex. They do this many ways:

- They rape women and then falsely teach women that once they have been raped, they are all filthed up and might as well just enjoy casual sex.

This is a lie. The more sex you have, the more filthed up you become. Also, it is possible to clean up the vagina and the entire body from their diseases using the development program.

- They torture women in some of the most horrible ways imaginable until the women agree to basically be sex slaves, and to go along with the rogue agenda and never to reveal it.

- They force the women to the Biblical Commandments about lying and about adultery. They tell women God is dead or that God does not care for them and hates them. None of this is true!

- Boys and some men are also beaten, but usually they are not told who is doing it and they are made to forget the entire episode. The boys and men just find they are less intelligent and more fearful.

- Boys are all beaten by the rogues as young children and from this learn that women hate men and boys.

- The rogues promote homosexuality and homosexual marriage that damages man-woman relationships.

- The rogues promote false gender identity teachings that damage man-woman relationships.

We do not agree with some that say that human nature is bad. Our research is that all human beings are damaged today in the manner described above.

- Honesty and high integrity. Honors and respects his partner and all women at all times. Gentle and kind. Not lazy. Safety conscious at all times in all areas.
- Knows the development program, and willing and committed to doing it all, including coffee enemas.
- Helps out with all jobs in the home
- Neat and clean
- Knows about and only wants down sex and tan blending. Not interested in ordinary or up sex.
- Sits on the toilet for urination, knows how to wipe after urinating, and always does it. The steps are 1) hold toilet paper to head of the penis, 2) make sure penis is aimed downward, 3) count to ten before removing the paper.
- Shaves his face and his groin. In the groin, the area above the penis is most important.
- No staring at women, and of course, no fooling around with anyone but his wife.
- Has some money. This is not quite as important if a woman has money and does not mind sharing it.
- Knows how to hold his sexual fluid. This means he can have sex longer, and it is safer for the woman. It also means he can do down sex. Good sexual fluid control takes some years of doing the pulling down procedure. Then it develops automatically.


When the souls wish to match men with women in marriages, they look for certain qualities in the men. 

These qualities are: kind and considerate of others, protective of women and children, sexually faithful, careful and thoughtful, financially responsible, clean living habits (such as non-drinkers, non-smokers and no drugs), and decent health.

Any man who has these qualities can be matched with one of the women on the development program for a superb quality marriage.

We have many more women on the program than we have men. Therefore, men are in high demand and please keep this in mind.

Now let us discuss these qualities in more detail.



These are the most serious problems of men. Rape, of course, is totally illegal and is an assault of the worst kind imaginable.  It should never enter a man’s mind.

Seduction of a woman, even if you intend to marry her, we consider just like rape.  The reason is that women are easy targets.  They are relatively weak, small, and easily swayed or fooled.

Many men use women for sex, fun, excitement, distraction, entertainment, slaves, sport, and more.  This is all reprehensible. Don’t do it!

Men are supposed to protect women, not use them.  This is a solid principle of living that must be observed by all men.  Until it is, women are often full of hatred for men, and for good reason.


There is no better way to ruin a marriage than either partner having an affair.  Men have many more affairs than women.  It is not just that women fear pregnancy and diseases more.  It is that women are more loyal, and they are smarter in this area.

By this we mean that affairs are stupid.  They mainly spread awful diseases for which there are no medical cures.  They also ruin marriages, in many cases.  They are not worth the few minutes of fun.

If your marriage is weak or in trouble and someone is tempting you, go for counseling, preferably with your wife, and try to heal the marriage before jumping into bed with someone who often does not care about you except for your body.


The only kind of sex we recommend is down sex.  It is not well known on earth, but it is so superior there is no comparison.

Down sex or yang sex is an embrace with penis inserted but without orgasms.  Women are delicate and down sex is much gentler, safer in regard to pregnancy and disease transmission, and just as much fun.  It is also much more intimate and loving, and it heals both partners in amazing ways at very deep levels.

In contrast, regular or ordinary sex just tires out the bodies, no matter how good it feels.

Down sex can be done every day if you wish.  Women always prefer it, so learn it and talk to your partner about  it and try it.

However, down sex is also much better for men.  Men will have to practice down sex to do it successfully.  Do not become discouraged!  It works.  Read the article Down Sex.

Ideally, men should not lose their sexual fluid. The ability to retain sexual fluid increases automatically as one develops.

Never lose fluid more than once a week, and much less if you over about 35 years old. This is very important for health, long life and for development.

Also, women are much more delicate in the genital area than men, so never go hard and fast.  Read below about going too long, which is a rape.



Going too long is a primary reason for relationship breakups and divorces.  Do not listen to locker room talk, television psychologists, or anyone else that tells men that when a woman says she has had enough, that it is okay to go on with sex for even one minute.  Going too long for even a few seconds is rape, and domestic violence, and nothing less.  It always does a lot of damage to a woman’s body

You must stop immediately when your partner says to stop.  Not doing this is worse than messing up the bathroom, leaving clothes on the floor, not making enough money, or other common complaints women have about their men.

Women have also been known to become violent if their man does not stop immediately when they request it.  So keep this in mind, too.


Women’s sexual area is much more sensitive and delicate than that of a man.  This is critical to know and recall at all times. 

One may think that women must be very tough because they carry and give birth to children.  However, their sexual organs are much more delicate than those of any man.

For this reason, sex must always be very gentle.  Most men do not understand this and it causes endless anger in a relationship.  A man who is rough with his wife, girlfriend or committed partner, even once, it will often ruin the relationship forever.

Also, do not ask for sex more than once a week.  Most women are very happy with sex once a week or so.  Few want more than this, except those with sexual fluid craving disease, as discussed below.

An exception is if the couple does down sex.  This she may want several times a week or even daily because it is very gentle and does not deplete her.


Sex for most men is mainly a physical and perhaps an emotional release.  For women, it is different and includes the following:

1. Often more intense pleasure than that which men feel.

2. Psychological safety and security.  It helps a woman confirm or know that she is loved, and that she is accepted for who she is.

3. Touch.  This is very important for some women.  It is important for some men, as well, but often not as much as it is for many women.

4. Relaxation.  In general, women are not as relaxed as men due to their fear level.  Sex should  be a relaxing time for women.


Recent research is that all women on earth have been beaten and raped repeatedly by the alien group called the Rogues. Very few women will talk about it because they are severely warned never to talk about it. However, the souls tell us it is true.

Molestation and even rape begin before a girl is born. Then there occurs something called the baby rapes.


Women all have sexually-transmitted diseases. as do men.  They are more difficult to see and to heal in women because they are inside a warm, moist environment.

            In addition, women are often unaware they have sexually-transmitted diseases, so be careful.  Always use several condoms and take other precautions – such as no sex before marriage.




Men all need to know that most all women are much more filled with fear than are men.  The reasons are that women are targets for seduction and rape, even older and less attractive women.

At the same time, women tend to be smaller and much weaker than men.  Also, they cannot run as fast as men, and in general they are less coordinated than men.  This creates terrible fear in most women.

This influences women in hundreds of ways, including buying decisions, politics, social norms, child-rearing, and much more.


An important physiological difference between men and women is that women bond to men when they have an orgasm.  Men do not bond to women as much during sexual contact.   


Sexual fluid craving is a rather strange problem that is common today.  It is actually a subtle nutritional imbalance in which a woman feels the need to have more and more male sexual fluid because it gives her a lift, a ‘zing’, or a boost that lasts from a few hours to a few days or even a week or longer.

Without the sexual fluid, the woman feels rather depressed and tired.  The problem is growing, and is worst among younger women, vegetarians, semi-vegetarians, vegans and among women who have been raped or even molested as children or as adults.

These women all tend to have one thing in common.  They are in very poor nutritional condition.

Women’s sexual fluid craving is actually very dangerous for men, so please read this carefully and help your partner if she has this condition.  You will know she has it because she will practically demand sex, often more than once a week.  She also will not want to use condoms. 

It is dangerous for men for a number of reasons:

1. Sexual fluid depletion.  Too much sex depletes the male sexual fluids.  This is definitely harmful and causes cancer, other illnesses and an early death.

2. Loss of the relationship.  If your female partner is not satisfied with your sexual fluid, she may go outside of her relationship with you for sex. 

3. Diseases.  If your partner goes outside the relationship for sex, she will often not want to use condoms, as this blocks the absorption of the sexual fluid in her vagina.  This combination means she will contract sexually-transmitted diseases in many instances, which she will pass on to you if you are not alert and careful in handling this problem.

Fluid craving can easily become an addiction, which means that the woman may lie about it, craving it more and more, and acting quite selfish and irrational in regard to it.  It can be a home wrecker, marriage wrecker and generally a horror.

For details and what to do, read Sexual Fluid Craving.


This is a controversial idea.  It is that while some women are smarter than their male partners, as a general rule women do not make as good decisions as men.  The reason is that women are much more fearful and much more traumatized by the rogues. All women have been beaten and raped, and this influences their judgment. In many instances, women also tend to be a little more gullible than men. 

As a result, it is often best for the man in a marriage to make the final decision if there is disagreement between them.  There are exceptions, but we are speaking in general.

Some men hesitate to do this, fearing it may end the marriage, or to avoid conflict.  However, the opposite is often true.  By the man insisting on making the final decision, it can save a marriage.  For more details, read The Sexual Order.



This is much appreciated by all women.  Please always keep this in mind.


An excellent idea for men is to follow the development diet and at least take the basic supplements with it.  Doing the full program is even better.

This will drastically improve health, improve the mind, and make a man a much better match for the many women who are on this program who are looking for a partner.

The healing and development procedures, such as the Penis Peroxide Procedure, are also superb to bring up old traumas and other issues and resolve them.  This will help any man.


These scare women, and they should.  Women are physically weaker and smaller then men. A man who is even slightly drunk or high on any drug is always extremely dangerous to have around.   This is one of the biggest causes for rapes and other domestic violence.


Men need to know that their penis is designed like a frost-free hose bib.  In this type of hose bib, the valve that controls the flow of water is deep inside the pipe. 

As a result, when you shut off the flow, it keeps dripping for a minute because some fluid is left in the pipe.  Men are built in a similar way.  This is why men make a mess when they urinate. 

Women hate it, in part because too often they have to clean it up.  Women also do not understand why men are so messy because women don’t have the problem.

Men must:

1. Understand the problem.

2. Always sit down on the toilet seat, as this is neater.

3. Always wipe the head of the penis each time you urinate.  To do it correctly, hold a small piece of toilet tissue there for at least 20 seconds to let the entire pipe empty out. Also, you must angle the penis downward toward the toilet. This combination – angling downward and waiting or holding a piece of toilet tissue for about 20 seconds – will empty the urethra or urine tube. Then, when you stand up, no dripping will occur.


It may sound odd, but most women really like a clean kitchen sink.  It is not a lot of trouble to do dishes promptly and use some scouring powder often to keep the kitchen sink clean.


Wanderers, as the word is used here, refers to men who do not focus on their marriage and family relationships enough.  Instead, they wander off and focus on friends, hiking, cycling, hunting, fishing, boating, football games, or something else.

This is very harmful for a relationship.  One result is these men become out of touch with the real needs and situation at home.

  The wife and family come first, and always first.  If a man does not want to spend a lot of time with his wife and children, then the marriage is in trouble and he needs to take the lead about getting counseling.




This habit is not quite as important, but some men stare at every pretty girl on the street, even when with his wife.  While not a horrendous habit, women definitely don’t like it.

We know that men are biologically programmed to look at women, and that many women today intentionally dress slutty and sexy to turn the men’s heads.  However, if you want a healthy marriage or even just healthy female and male friends, give up this bad habit.




Women really like the kitchen sink to be kept clean, do not like dirty clothes to be left around, and really appreciate help around the home.




            This is a key to all relationships, so please don’t ignore it.  However, you will find that women often cannot be as forthright and honest as men in their communication.  This is because they run scared all of the time. 

Women are often afraid they will offend you, causing you to become so angry that you strike them or rape them.  They are also afraid that you will scream at them - something never ever to do to a woman if you want to keep her around.

            So be gentle with communication, but persistent.  Try to find out what she really thinks and feels.  Don’t settle for evasion or “trying to keep the peace”, which is a tendency of some women.

            Work on communication every day.  Set aside time that is convenient for both of you – at least 15 minutes or more if there is an important issue to discuss.  In this case, set aside an hour when you are both relaxed with no distractions.  Turn off the phones.  Make sure the children are sleeping or that someone else will watch them.

Something women do not like is the “silent treatment”, where you won’t say anything about a subject.  Don’t do this if you value your relationship.  (You can also tell her to please not do this, either.)

            Women often communicate more through their bodies and body language than through words, so look for this.  She may dress differently, wear her hair differently, or act differently in bed.  Be aware that this is communication and she is sending you messages, even if she is not fully conscious of them.  They may be saying, “You are not paying enough attention to me”, or “I’m bored”, or “I’m sick”, or “What are you feeling about me right now?”


This is another important point if a man wants to hold on to a good woman.  Never, ever reveal details about your sex life or your partner to anyone – not to your closest friend, relatives, parents, children or anyone else.  Never, ever discuss it in public, by the way.  That is even worse.

            The reason for this is that women see sex in a more sacred, special and private way than men do, in most cases.  They often discuss it with their girlfriends, but they will get angry in most cases if they find out that their man has been sharing details about it with others of either sex.


Here are some of the reasons to always keep in mind:


1. She is pregnant.  This is not that common, but it occurs, in some cases.  This causes significant hormonal changes, mental alterations in some cases, odd cravings for foods, heat or cold in the body, nausea in some cases, and perhaps other symptoms such as odd aches or pains.

The woman may think it has to do with you.  It does not, except, of course, that you were, in part, responsible for her pregnancy.


2. Projection.  Women and men project their fears, desires, anger and other feelings onto others.  It is a common fact of relationships of all kinds. 

All you need to do is think about what is going on and ask yourself honestly if you are to blame, or is this something else.  That may tell you if projection is occurring. 

Women often project their feelings about their fathers onto their husbands and boyfriends, so you may get a clue from this fact.  They may also project their feelings about their mothers, but this is less common.

Feelings directed at employers, bosses, supervisors and others in authority may also be easily projected onto male companions as well.  Once again, just ask if you are to blame, or is something else occurring.


3. Premenstrual tension, or hormonal changes for other reasons.  These are extremely common, especially during the last few days before the menstrual period.  Some men keep calendars marked so they are aware of when this is occurring.  This only works if the woman’s periods are regular, of course.

Premenstrual syndrome causes irritability, anger, depression, weepiness, sadness, hypersensitivity and can even cause violence in a woman.  It is worth understanding and observing if you notice a monthly tendency for your partner to be upset, in pain, or otherwise out of sorts.  It is also helpful to ask her about the time of the month.


4. Retracing.  If your partner is following a development program, which we hope she is, she will go through retracing reactions, or purification reactions from time to time. 

These are unpredictable in their timing, their nature and their severity.  Most are mild, cause few symptoms, and pass quickly.  Now and then, however, one can be intense, can cause mental and emotional symptoms that are awful, and a reaction can last for weeks, occasionally. 

This factor may be especially important if you know your wife or female companion has been through any sort of important trauma such as molestation, rape, abuse, beating, a difficult prior marriage, or anything else.

During a retracing or healing reaction, most people lose awareness of the present to some degree.  They are literally 2 or 5 or 15 years old again, and going through the same trauma as they did back then, only they are learning how to process it and handle it correctly. 

They may become angry, depressed, anxious, fearful, or moody.  They may have hateful thoughts, for example, or other deranged thinking.  This can be a challenge for her and for you. 

If she keeps in touch with her nutrition consultant as to whether changes in her program are needed, our experience is that the symptoms will pass and all will be well.

However, retracing reactions can and do strain some relationships.  If you are forewarned, you can more easily relax, not take things personally and give her more ’space’ for the time that it can take to get through the reaction. 

The main actions are

1. Do not react negatively, if at all possible.  That just makes things worse.  Reacting can keep her or even trap her in her process, slowing or even stopping the deep trauma healing.

2. Be a stabilizing influence.  Give her a hug and remind her that she is healing.  Also, rub her feet – several times daily, if you can.  It is an amazing, simple and safe way to move the process along much faster.  I wish every couple understood this.


5. A need for food, water, rest or relaxation.  All of us can snap at others, lose patience, feel dejected or rejected or become angry too easily when we are out of sorts due to fatigue, mainly, but also sometimes due to hypoglycemia or even just a little dehydration.  So check on this with your spouse or partner if something occurs and you wonder “Where did that come from?”


6. A need for intimacy or a need to talk more, perhaps.  Many women enjoy being close to their man.  They enjoy just sitting together and talking and perhaps cuddling. 

If this is missing, or just if it is needed and not forthcoming, some women, instead of just asking for what they want, will become angry, belligerent, depressed or just ornery and hard to get along with. 

Be aware of this need for closeness that some, though not all women, have.  It is easy to provide, sometimes almost too easy, by just sitting close on the couch together, or perhaps giving a warm hug or two.


Another factor that may be very important in your relationship is when you go through mental/emotional or even physical changes due to a development program, or perhaps for other reasons.  These can be quite disruptive for a marriage or committed relationship, and you may not realize it.

Therefore, if you suspect that you are not acting your usual calm, balanced and helpful self, be sure to inform your partner of this!  Seek to move through the situation as best you can, asking her for patience and gentle feedback as to what is going on. 

NOTE: This is often the best that you can do.  As with her healing reactions, when you go through yours, you will be partly in the present and partly back somewhere in childhood – perhaps a 3-year-old or a 10-year-old.  It is truly unusual and confusing for all of us.

Both of you should read and re-read the article on this site entitled Retracing And Healing Reactions, and this may help, as well.  We have had marriages break up when the man went through fairly severe healing reactions, so this is not something to take lightly.


A pole, such as a flagpole, is straight, strong, somewhat flexible but not wishy-washy, and firmly grounded or rooted.  Men need to be somewhat like this. 

While the analogy is not totally accurate, it is not far from the actual structure of the male body, in relation to the female body.  The male is stronger, less flexible, taller, straighter and harder to move.  In contrast, the female structure is shorter, more flexible, and more easily influenced and swayed.

When men act as poles for their women, the women are usually much happier and much healthier.  The women are also safer.

Of course, there are some women who do not want a stable, “straight” man in their life.  They prefer a wimp whom they can manipulate. 

If you are this kind of woman, please think about it carefully, as the type of man you desire is not going to protect you and, in most cases, you will be bored with him sooner or later and regret your decision to marry him or even be involved with him at all.  For more details, read Poles And Climbers.

Men should also act as shields for women.  This has to do with the next section.


Women want to develop as much as men.  However, they develop slower than men for a number of reasons.  Please help your wife develop by doing down sex or down hugging, even if it is not your favorite activity.

Also, help her to eat very well, sleep a lot, go to bed early and follow her development program, which powerfully supports development.  For more details, read Women and Development and Introduction To Development.

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