DEVELOPMENT AND SEXUALITY
by Lawrence Wilson, MD
© Revised, November 2010, The Center For Development
Sex is an important area to discuss and pay attention to during the early stages of mental and spiritual development. This article outlines why this is so and what precautions should be taken for the fastest development. It is best to limit sexual activity to once a week at most to speed up mental development and healing for most people. Those over age 45 or so will heal best by limiting sexual intercourse and orgasms even more.
LIMIT SEXUAL INTERCOURSE IN THE EARLY STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT
In the early part of development, most people, especially men, should limit sexual intercourse with loss of fluids. Even sexual activity without loss of fluids or ejaculation should be limited, if possible. Here is why.
á Too yin. Sexual exchanges are always yin in nature and this slows development in all cases, since the bodies today are already too yin.
á Infections. Sexually transmitted diseases are rampant, and the more sexual partners one has, the more infections one is likely to pick up. So limiting sexual acts and behaviors is helpful in this way in most cases.
á Loss of nutrients found in sexual fluids. Sexual fluids in both men and women are highly charged with life force or chi. Their loss will slow down development in all cases, for this reason. These fluids, especially male fluids, are also very rich in nutrients. So their loss is also harmful as it contributes to more nutritional depletion, even though one may not feel it.
á Etheric loss. The etheric reserve of a person is stored in the genital organs, in part. The loss of fluids, in particular, leads to loss of some of the etheric energy reserves of a person. This is another reason to limit fluid loss that occurs during sexual intercourse.
WHAT TO DO, PARTICULARLY FOR THOSE WHO WANT AN ACTIVE SEX LIFE
The best answer is to let go of the idea that an active sex life is needed, helpful, loving or required in any way for your self esteem, your ego, your relationship or partnerships, or anything else. This is the wisest course of action. It is difficult only because it is not the accepted norm of Western and even Eastern society on earth. So one must buck the trend, the TV shows, the books, and the commentators all the way.
The next best idea is to limit your sexual activity consciously. Do not believe, as some teach, that more is better. In fact, it is the opposite. Know that those who wish to control you will often encourage sexual activity. They know what you do not – that sexual activity actually weakens, distracts and detracts from your health, beauty and length of life. It tends to throw people out of control, especially women, which makes them far easier to control in the end. So please know that sexual activity is not better, but worse for development for these reasons.