ATTITUDES AND
DEVELOPMENT
by Dr. Lawrence Wilson
© February 2019, LD
Wilson Consultants, Inc.
All
information in this article is for educational purposes only. It is not for the diagnosis, treatment,
prescription or cure of any disease or health condition.
Certain
attitudes seem to favor the development that is discussed on this website. Other attitudes seem to block
development, or at least slow it down.
This article discusses these attitudes in some detail.
You may not
agree with them, and you may find them offensive. However, over time I think you will find the recommended
attitudes and beliefs will prove to be helpful, and at times essential.
HELPFUL
ATTITUDES FOR DEVELOPMENT
Openness to change and growth on many
levels. This is
probably the single most important attitude to have in order to move forward
with mental development. In
contrast, the most damaging attitude is thinking that one knows it all, or has
achieved all that one can.
A willingness to exert effort. Development is a process that takes
some effort. While it does not
require severe deprivations or sacrifices, effort is needed. A very damaging attitude, and a common
one, is that one can just dream or believe whatever one wishes and the process
of development will occur. This
latter attitude usually leads to sloppy eating and sloppy lifestyles, and
greatly slows development.
A
feeling that one does not know everything. This may also be expressed as a certain level of humility
and willingness to be led. For
example, some rather ignorant, agnostic and one might say less intelligent
people develop very well because they have little in their way to block
learning. Many are simply hard-working, self-sacrificing, caring people who keep a
positive attitude and are willing to learn.
The opposite
attitude is one of arrogance, know-it-all and so on. This will block development greatly.
Caring
for others. An attitude of
gratitude and wanting to share and care for others in a genuine way is helpful,
even if it is wearing on the person.
Its opposite, an attitude of selfishness, greed and keeping things to
oneself is not helpful for development, as a general rule.
However, one
must take care of oneself first.
In other words, if one cares for others so much that one does not care
adequately for oneself, this will block and stop development because one
becomes depleted, exhausted and often resentful and angry. So the balance must be there.
Learning
to live simply with low stress. Development requires lots of time, rest and a generally easy
life. Some people seem to learn
early on how to live simply, limiting their wants and needs. The opposite attitude of Òwanting it
allÓ, running yourself too hard, and not resting enough, interferes with
development and can stop it altogether.
Letting
go of the ego is always helpful. Egotistical
attitudes such as arrogance, know-it-all, closed mindedness,
meanness, competitiveness beyond a healthy competition in business, for
example, are not helpful.
A spiritual
arrogance is particularly harmful because development is extremely
complex. It is far more
complicated than one can even imagine.
Thinking one understands spiritual matters therefore usually gets in the
way.
Development
has to do with the opening of the seven major energy centers of the physical
body. This is discussed in a
separate article entitled The Energy Centers.
It also
entails the development of the seven subtle human bodies with names such as the
etheric body (the main one at this time), and others
such as the whole body, mental body, spirit body and others.
Self
love. This is very important for
development. It is a strong enough
ego so that one will tolerate some ambiguity and confusion, yet one will not
become arrogant and selfish. In
contrast, too much guilt, shame, or hopelessness are
not helpful at all for development.
OTHER
IMPORTANT ATTITUDES FOR DEVELOPMENT
Many other
attitudes may help promote development:
These
include openness to guidance, openness
to compassion for oneself, and willingness to let go of all of oneÕs past,
if needed, in order to heal the physical and other bodies and allow them to
grow and develop.
Courage, fearlessness and relaxation. Others
include a certain courage to move ahead into the
unknown, a certain type of fearlessness, and a certain relaxed quality that
allows one to move ahead without too much fear or drama. Healing reactions that will occur
provide enough drama for most people.
Discipline. Other important personal qualities
include a healthy sense of discipline to keep one focused on the path ahead.
Willingness to learn new things. Another, more subtle factor in
development is a willingness to learn new things each day. It may seem surprising, but learning
anew is very difficult for most people.
Many people
have fixed ideas about the truth of things, and when these are challenged, many
people feel quite uncomfortable.
In part this is due to conditioning from schooling. However, it is also a psychological
fact with many people who build their lives and identities upon certain
foundations that they feel they must maintain.
Contentment. Another very important attitude has to
do with contentment. People who
are restless and must travel a lot, must be with new people a lot, need their
friends, must speak on the phone daily with family and friends, and so on, will
have a much harder time.
Avoiding
travel. Frequent
travel interferes with development, in most cases. It is far more difficult to rest adequately, eat well, take
saunas and coffee enemas, and to study and relax when traveling.
Air travel,
in particular, is quite toxic. One
is exposed to quite a bit of toxic radiation at the airports and due to
high-altitude travel. One must
also breathe less than pure air for hours on planes, and often one is exposed
to many germs on planes as well.
Some aircraft are also sprayed with pesticides and toxic cleaning agents
on a regular basis.
Hotel rooms
are often sprayed with pesticides or may not be as clean as they could be. Restaurant food is variable, and one
may have more difficulty finding healthy food, though most restaurants today
offer eggs, fresh meats and fresh cooked vegetables. As a result, members of the Òjet setÓ generally do not
develop well at all.
If you must
travel for business or other reasons, please recognize the problems, bring your
own food and water as much as possible, and take extra precautions to rest
enough and relax.
A spiritual focus. Another helpful attitude is a spiritual
focus for oneÕs life. This might
be working as a healer, reading the Bible every day, going to church regularly,
or even a true love of nature and spending time in nature every single day by
taking a walk in the woods, for example.
This is subtle, but quite powerful.
It probably
helps by separating a person from Òlower centerÓ concerns which include money,
power, sex, and even some kinds of fraternal or romantic love that become
obsessions for millions of people.
Having a spiritual focus also has to do with giving to others,
particularly to strangers, self-sacrifice, and letting go of selfish
considerations that rule so many peopleÕs lives.
Even having
a business that is not seemingly spiritual is helpful. On the other hand, taking welfare and
spending oneÕs days at the pub, the coffee shop, or the bars and the parks, is
not nearly as helpful. This may
have to do with self-reliance,
another attitudes that is helpful for
development. This is one reason
that welfare states seem to cause less development than capitalist nations, in
general.
RELIGION
AND DEVELOPMENT
Organized
religions are generally helpful for development, in my experience. For this reason, I believe they will
remain for many centuries on the planet.
This does not mean they wonÕt change, but they do help millions of
people develop to a small degree, at least. They do this in many ways. Among them, however, is to foster a lot of the attitudes
that are discussed in this article.
Also, they should help people live more peaceful, orderly, healthful
lives.
Among the
organized religions, the best, in my experience so far, is Christianity. It is not clear to me why this is so,
but it seems to work well, and this is quite a consistent finding. Judaism is not as good as Christianity,
but not bad.
Buddhism,
Hinduism and Islam are not as good as the ones above. One reason for the problem with the Eastern religions might
be that they often suggest vegetarian diets, which we find are
absolutely harmful for development.
This may have to do with the low zinc content of most vegetarian food,
or perhaps deficiencies of sulfur amino acids in vegetarian and raw foods. Islam is more authoritarian and more
confused, in my view, although I know some will totally disagree.
New
age thinking and new age religions such as Unity, Unitarianism, Science
of Mind, and Ethical Culture are not as helpful. in
almost all cases. While I am not
sure why, I believe the reasons are that these religions make things Òtoo easyÓ
for people.
Little
discipline and sacrifice are required.
Few doctrines are taught and those that are taught are quite mild, by
comparison with traditional religions.
This is just an educated guess as to why people in these groups do not
seem to develop as well.
Also, these
religions do not emphasize a higher being or authority as much. Instead, they often use affirmations
that encourage a person to Òthink their way to successÓ. This is not the same as letting go and
letting God, for instance. The
latter approach seems to favor development much more.
POLITICS,
NATIONALITY AND ATTITUDES
Political
attitudes that appear helpful include a
desire for freedom, a positive outlook, and what are called free market,
laissez faire capitalistic attitudes that encourage freedom, hard work,
entrepreneurship, making money, and following your dreams – and allowing
others to do so as well, with minimal government interference or regulation.
Attitudes
that are generally harmful for development include believing in a powerful central
government, socialistic and communistic thinking, and believing in racial
divides, class warfare, Ògroup rightsÓ such as gay rights or womenÕs rights,
and doctrines such as affirmative action and hate crimes.
These all
tend to divide people, tend to make excuses for some people, tend to be based
on sloppy thinking in most cases, and appear to get in the way of mental
development which must be perfectly logical.
Nations and their development. Development is a totally
individual matter, so it does not matter within what nation a person
lives. However, it is interesting
to observe which nations are developing fastest, in general.
America
leads the world in this way, and is definitely ahead of other nations that are
more socialistic such as those of Europe and Asia.
The next
best nations appear to be Australia and New Zealand. Next appears to be areas such as Germany, Ireland, and parts
of the former Soviet Union such as the Ukraine, Latvia, Lithuania and Georgia.
Romania,
Hungary, Poland and other Eastern European nations are also gaining some
momentum, although poverty slows their development to some degree. For development to occur, one must
usually have enough good food and water, and at least a little free time to
contemplate and for recreation.
Southern
Europe is not developing quite as well.
Perhaps this has to do with the diet or other factors.
DRUG AND DEVELOPMENT
All
recreational drug and alcohol use hinders development. The attitude that drugs are okay,
whether they be medical drugs or recreational drugs,
also slows development.
Problems
with all drugs include:
1.
Toxicity. Regardless of what ÒstudiesÓ show, all
mind-altering substances are highly toxic to the brain or they would not have
the effects that they have. Smoking anything, of course, is totally toxic to the lungs,
throat, and bronchial tubes. A
client recently reported she has seizures each time she uses marijuana. This would only happen if the substance
is quite toxic to the brain.
2.
Drugs take one away from oneÕs center.
This is obvious to anyone who has tried cannabis, or any other toxic
substance. Often this is the
reason why people enjoy the use of the substance.
3.
Drugs often deaden very delicate nerve centers in the brain. Drugs may
do this by interfering with the nutrition of the brain, or by more subtle
means. Regardless of how it works,
it is always damaging.
Please
do not make a big mistake and believe that some drugs, notably marijuana or a
little alcohol for social drinking, is okay. They are not okay if one wishes to
develop quickly and easily. In
most cases, we find we must remove all residues of all drugs taken in the past
for development to proceed well.
Fortunately,
sauna therapy with a near infrared light sauna, along with
coffee enemas, are most helpful for this purpose.
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