THE REAL SELF or LOVE IS THE ANSWER
by Dr. Lawrence Wilson
Ó December 2019, LD Wilson Consultants, Inc.
All information in this article is for educational purposes only. It is not for the diagnosis, treatment, prescription or cure of any disease or health condition.
This article is a condensed version of the book-length article and book, The Real Self, which we also call Love Is The Answer.
Life is nothing but feedback for you. Whatever is going on in your life and around you is due to what you think.
Life is not exactly real. It is a construct.
God is Love. This is the real nature of God. All else about God is false. It does not matter what any book or religion teaches. If it teaches that God is Love, it is the true religion. If it teaches any other qualities of God, especially anything that is the opposite of Love, it is false religion.
We know this will offend many people and we do not intend to offend. We intend to present a philosophy that exists throughout the universe and that is being brought to the earth at this time, and that is all.
Only the Love of God is real. This is the same as the principle above. We can just extend and say that the opposite of Love is fear. And fear is always unreal and does not really exist.
So if you focus on fear, you are not living in reality. This is more difficult for women, who seem to be and at one level are much less safe than men, so they tend to focus more on fear. This is a mistake, we say.
You answer that the fear keeps me from making mistakes that could cause a rape or worse. We answer that there is another way. It is to ask, in every moment of every day, for the Will of God to be done through you.
This is a lot of work and that is the main reason most people, women and men, don’t do it. They would rather live on “autopilot”. This means they set certain rules, procedures, boundaries, “friends” and more and they just live within these parameters. This more or less keeps them somewhat safe.
We say that in the future, this will not work as well and you will be less safe. The only answer to be safe will be to ask, in every moment – “Father, what would you have me do in this moment, in this hour, and in this day?” Please pay attention to this warning.
You are wholly dependent upon that Love at all times and in all situations. There are no exceptions, ever. This means that the ego or low self or false self (same thing) is never in charge, and in fact it is rather stupid and vicious and evil.
Events are all neutral. Thoughts are not neutral and make and break your life. This is one of the most difficult of the principles. The reason for it is that events are simply feedback. If someone rapes you, you must have put out the thought that it would interesting or exciting or educational or necessary that I experience a rape.
The logical mind (really the ego, the low self or false self) rebels at this idea. It says “So the holocaust and World Wars they are just neutral. That is crazy!.
In truth, however, it is true. In fact, some people get excited at the thought of going off to war – to beat someone up, to get even with someone, to show them who’s boss, to “let them have it.”
If enough people think this way, there will be another world war. But if most people say, “I don’t need to do any of the above”, then the wars will cease, and only then.
Protesting for peace, giving up your guns or your nuclear weapons, voting for gun control and “peace candidates” to keep us out of wars – THIS WILL NOT WORK.
The answer is always the same. Tune in to God and ask for guidance. Ask for “Thy Will be done in my life right now and forever.” If you do this properly and wholly, you will be safe and you will be “successful”, which is different for each person.
For example, your marriage may fall apart, but that is because it needs to fall apart. Rather than be upset and think “How will I support myself and I will be so lonely”, you can say, “Thank you, Father in Heaven.” I trust you to bring me everything I need now and forever.
Your work may change and you may be asked to sweep the streets – very demeaning work. You can be upset or you can say, “Thank you, Father”. I know you bring me everything I need and that I am in the right place at the right time.”
All my structures just get in the way. This means that my philosophies, my religions, my friends, my thoughts and much more often block the reception of the Will of God.
There are no victims. This is a direct consequence of the first principle above. If events are due to our thinking, then we are never victims of the world because we co-create our reality with our thoughts. If you don’t like what life is showing you, change your thoughts.
Seriousness is a disease. Life is a grand drama. As with any play or movie, taking it too seriously is always a mistake. Commitment is excellent, but seriousness is not needed or helpful. So see the humor in everything and in everyone, including yourself.
Forgive seventy times seven times. We cannot know all the reasons for any event, so it is wise to be unattached to all events and to forgive everyone for everything that ever happened to you – no exceptions.
Also, holding on grudges, anger and resentment just destroys your body and your mind and stops development.
I do not know what my brother or sister needs. Each person is to be guided by God alone. Thus, one person cannot truly know all the needs of another. However, one can ask to be of service to others.
My past and present are perfect. Your past and current situations have brought you to this present moment – where you have found and are open to reading and learning this material.
This is what the souls want - to wake up. Whatever occurred in the past and is occurring now are fulfilling that wish. In this sense, they are perfect.