ADDICTION
by Dr. Lawrence Wilson
© August 2018, L.D. Wilson Consultants, Inc.
All information in this article is
solely the opinion of the author and for educational purposes only. It is not for the diagnosis, treatment,
prescription or cure of any disease or health condition.
Addictions
are unhealthy
attachments, habits, behaviors or dependencies. One could also be
positively attached, meaning devoted to God or to oneÕs spiritual development
or health, for example. This is
not really an addiction, however, because it is not an unhealthy attachment,
but rather a profound understanding and appreciation or love of the real self
and of life.
This article discusses principles of addiction,
causes of addictions, some types of common addictions, and how to stop
addictions of many kinds. Let us
begin with some principles involved in addiction.
PRINCIPLES OF ADDICTIONS
–
NOURISHMENT VERSUS
STIMULATION
Nourishment
is anything that is required for life, including simple food, water, warmth,
even true love or relationship, and other items. By definition, nourishment does not cause much of a stress
reaction in the body when given in the right amounts at the right times.
Stimulants are substances, behaviors, and habits that may seem
to nourish, but cause a stress reaction in the body. They eventually weakens the body
and/or mind. Even nourishing
substances such as foods can become addictive and stimulating if taken in the
wrong amounts or too often or not enough, for example.
Combinations. Any habit, behavior, or other addictive item may also
be part nourishing or nurturing, and part addictive or co-dependent. For example, coffee contains nutrients,
but is also stimulating and irritating.
Cigarettes encourage deeper breathing, but contain cadmium, nicotine and
other poisons. Alcohol can be used
as a fuel in the body, but it depletes B-complex vitamins, zinc and magnesium
and damages the liver.
All stimulants tend to be
addicting. All nourishment tends
not to be addicting. This is partly just a definition of
addiction. In other words, healthy
items in the right quantity at the right time are not addicting, but
nourishing. Misuse of them tends
to create all addictions.
Stimulants tend to cause a high followed
by a low when it is withdrawn. Anything that causes a temporary 'high'
or feeling of well-being followed by a 'low', tends to be addictive. As the well-being
effect wears off, another dose or fix is needed to regain the temporary high.
Every addictive substance or habit
weakens the body or mind. It stimulates more than it nourishes.
When the 'high' wears off, one feels a little worse than before one used it or
experienced it. This is why a
person is attracted back to the substance, habit or even a person to feel good
once again.
CELEBRATION VERSUS
NEEDINESS
To
some degree, how one uses
behaviors, sex, foods, activities and even people can determine whether they
are addictive or nourishing. For
example, some people can celebrate and enjoy a little alcohol or caffeine
without becoming addicted. If,
however, one is looking to fill a void or some deep need inside or Ôget
somethingÕ from a food, activity or a person, addiction is inevitable. What might be slightly nourishing can
turn to poison as a result.
This is
a very fine line, however. The
reason is that all alcohol contains poison. All caffeine is a stimulant, no matter how it is used. If the body chemistry is just perfect,
maybe it can be handled, but if one is healthy, it will never tend to feel
good. It will tend to feel like a
poison to some degree. If one
needs the nutrients it contains, perhaps it is not addictive, but it is never
very healthful, and the risk of addiction is always present.
The same
can be said for most ÒbadÕ habits, whether they be lying, stealing, too much
sex, co-dependent relationships or even too much sleep, though that is usually
just due to fatigue.
ADDICTION HAS SOMETHING TO
DO WITH MALADAPTATION
By this
we mean that addictions have to do with a disconnect
or improper stress response that throws the body out of homeostasis. This is one way of viewing addictions
from the perspective of the stress theory of disease and general systems theory
and cybernetics.
RUNNING FROM REALITY
All
addictions are escapes from reality to a degree.
ADDICTIONS SUBTLY INCREASE CHAOS IN THE
BODY AT DEEP LEVELS, WHILE SEEMINGLY REDUCING CHAOS AT MORE SUPERFICIAL LEVELS
This
is a way to understand all addictions from the perspective of chaos theory, a
rather interesting concept that we use in development science.
Development
is the exact opposite, by the way.
It is about reducing chaos at the deepest levels even though it may seem
to cause more chaos at superficial levels for a while.
ADDICTION AND THE ADRENAL
GLANDS
Another principle
of addictions is that they commonly involve the adrenal glands. This
may be because the adrenals are so essential for having energy, and because
some adrenal hormones such as cortisol and cortisone,
notably, give one a natural high.
They do this by stopping pain, increasing the oxidation rate in most
cases, raising the blood sugar level a little, and decreasing inflammation in
the body. This combination, and
perhaps other effects as well, makes the adrenal
hormones very needed and perhaps ÒaddictiveÓ, one might say.
The
principle of adrenal involvement with addictions I learned from Dr. Paul
Eck. Most people with addictions
have weak adrenal glands. They essentially crave the euphoric feeling that goes
with more active adrenals. They gravitate to substances, activities, habits,
behaviors, relationships or other situations that stimulate, or perhaps nourish
to a degree, the adrenal glands.
Just a
few examples of this include addictions to caffeine, sugar, cocaine, depressants,
stimulants, anger, fear, sex, vigorous exercise, or job or marital drama.
Furthermore, these stimulants eventually weaken the adrenals, causing a
deepening of the addiction. Understanding how substances, habits and even
emotions affect the adrenal glands can be a key to understanding their
addictive power.
SYMPATHETIC NERVOUS
STIMULATION
Another
principle of addiction related to the above is that one can stimulate the
adrenal glands directly
with various chemicals including caffeine, salt, sugar, chocolate, cocaine or
amphetamines. However, another way
to stimulate the adrenals is with anything that moves the body into a state of
activation of the sympathetic nervous system. Examples are exercise, fear, worry, anger, cold, pain, sex
and perhaps some other stressors.
OTHER ORGAN AND SYSTEM
STIMULANTS
Another
principle of addiction related to the body is that some addictive substances,
habits or activities stimulate various body systems, and weaken them at the
same time. For example, smoking,
exercise, sex and wearing inadequate clothing in cold weather may temporarily
stimulate the circulatory system, but may also weaken it.
Other
stimulants primarily increase the depth or rate of respiration, providing a
high that can have to do with increased oxygen and/or lowered carbon dioxide in
the blood. These can include exercise, cigarette smoking or inhaling certain
other irritants. It can even
include certain postures such as puffing up the chest.
Activities
that stimulate the muscles such as weight lifting, running and other exercise
can also create a lactic acid high.
One can also become addicted to stimulating the palate with certain
tastes, or feeling ÔstuffedÕ.
Other
stimulants mainly act at the level of the brain rather than the body. This, of course, includes some drugs
and even foods such as carbohydrates or sugars, at times. However, one could become addicted to
certain attitudes and beliefs, for example, because they calm the brain or
nervous system and relieve nagging anxiety, self-doubts, loneliness, fears,
anger or persistent negative thoughts.
Not all of these attitudes or beliefs are addictions, of course. They might be healthy attachments to
the idea that God exists, for example. This can become addictive, but is not necessarily
so.
TYPES OF ADDICTIONS -
SUBSTANCES THAT ALTER BODY
CHEMISTRY
Substances
like alcohol and coffee are addictive because they influence body chemistry in
particular ways that produce temporary feelings of well-being
in some people. One could become
addicted to vitamins or minerals for the same reason. Substance can influence
body chemistry in thousands of ways.
Vitamins
such thiamine and niacin speed up the oxidation rate and can give one a ÔhighÕ
for this reason. While these vitamins have many beneficial effects, if used
symptomatically without being part of a total program to promote health, they
can easily act as stimulants that may seem to improve oneÕs health, but are
really making health worse. This is why I do not like guessing about what a
person needs and I always use the hair mineral test, when properly performed
and interpreted, to guide supplement recommendations. This is crucial to understand. Muscle testing, symptomatic recommendations, use of
electrical machines and other methods I do not find nearly as reliable to avoid
mistakes with vitamins and minerals, for example, or other substances and
foods, for that matter.
For
example, adrenal glandular supplements, thyroid supplements and hormones,
ginseng, maca, ephedra, guarana, yohimbe, ginger, cayenne
and other stimulant herbs can also give one a temporary feeling of well being.
Again, these herbs and products have many beneficial qualities. However, most
contain subtle stimulants that are damaging, so they must be used carefully, if
at all. Otherwise their addictive
properties easily overshadow their benefits and the patient becomes worse over
time.
THE CANDIDA ALBICANS
CONNECTION
Deranged
body chemistry, especially combined with sugar consumption, often leads to
chronic intestinal yeast infection or candidiasis. Deficiencies of zinc and other minerals
weaken the normal immune responses.
Weakened adrenals cause copper to become biounavailable. Copper is the body's natural yeast
killer. Also, eating sugar feeds the yeast, which encourages its growth.
Repeated antibiotic therapy, birth control pills and steroid therapy may be
additional addiction factors as they contribute to yeast overgrowth and weaken
body chemistry.
Candida
produces alcohol and acetaldehyde, both toxic substances. The alcohol can
produce its own addiction, even though one has not drank a drop of
alcohol! Both substances also
further weaken the body, affecting will power and mental clarity.
THE PEPSI GENERATION
Soda pop
is an interesting addictive substance.
Not only does it contain caffeine and up to 10 teaspoons of sugar per
can, but it also contains phosphoric acid. This chemical cuts the sweetness. It also binds calcium, magnesium and zinc in the intestines
and removes them from the body.
This may temporarily increases the metabolic rate, making one feel
better for a while. Of course, it
can lead to mineral deficiencies and other imbalances.
Diet
soda is little if any better.
Although it contains no sugar, the other chemicals are still present,
and the sweetness can mislead the body into thinking one has consumed a
sugar-laden beverage. Diet soda also perpetuates the sweet craving, which may
be linked to old emotional responses or trauma.
Advertisements
for soda pop and other junk foods are total lies. Drinking Pepsi won't make you
slim, beautiful or popular, even gallons a day.
EMOTIONAL ADDICTIONS
Another
principle is that emotions can be addictive. For example, millions of people are addicted to watching
violent, x-rated or horror movies, listening to loud music or tuning into
ghastly headlines on the nightly news.
Without these stimulants, they feel bored or even somewhat dead. Similarly, arguing with a partner,
hating anyone or anything, and holding grudges or resentments are other methods
that many people use to get high for a while.
Some
even become addicted to religions that teach hatred, anger, guilt or fear, and
that believe in stories of an angry, vengeful or jealous god.
Fear,
at the emotional level, is the common denominator of most emotional
addictions. Love, for example, if
it is real, tends not to be addictive.
It is just there. Sex, by
this definition, is not love. Sex
is a feeling in the body caused by hormones. Love is a presence of a gentle healing energy that is
entirely different. Both can help
you forget your fears and other symptoms, but they are not the same. Sex always tends to deplete the body in
some ways, while love never does this.
MENTAL ADDICTIONS
These are beliefs that get one high and keep one
high. They differ from
positive, healthy beliefs because they are damaging to the mind and often to
the body. For example, feeling
superior to others will tend to give anyone a high. One may feel smarter, more attractive, more talented, or
even wiser than others.
This
will help one forget oneÕs inadequacies.
However, it also interferes with healthy relationships and wise
decision-making. It is sometimes
called arrogance,
and this is the main mental addictive quality or activity.
Another
fatal type of mental addiction is believing a lie. It could be almost anything from believing
in a stock that will rise, when it does not, to believing in another person, or
believing in a political party or ideology, or anything else. This, too, is a form of arrogance as it
is a rigidity of the mind, although it could just be a form of ignorance that
you insist upon maintaining in the face of facts to the contrary.
Another
type of common mental addiction is called a neurosis. This is also a type of fixation, but not necessarily a
lie. It is simply an exaggeration
or glitch or trap that keeps holding you down. Common neuroses are fear of germs, for example, or
fascination with sex, or intellectualism – reading all the time, or
something else. There are
literally thousands of them. They,
too, can give one a spectacular high, but slowly damage the mind and body,
causing them to be addictive.
SPIRITUAL ADDICTIVE
ÒHIGHSÓ
Even
religions and spiritual practices can function as stimulants and
addictions. Some meditations and
religious practices can cause a high that keeps one coming back for more, even
though the practice is really not moving a person forward or developing the
person spiritually very much. This
is a problem with some charismatic church practices, some new age practices
such as reading cards, and many meditations, Eastern and Western. Even beautiful prayers can be abused.
This
can be just a form of neurosis, but it is also possible to be so focused
spiritually, that one ignores the body and the physical reality. This tends to damage the physical body
because not enough attention is paid to oneÕs diet, rest and sleep, staying
warm enough or other aspects of living as a body on earth.
Martyrs
might tend to fall into this type of addiction, though not all of them. Some just believe strongly and are
willing to sacrifice the body for a cause. Others, however, simply ignore the needs of the body because
they are ÒhighÓ on the spiritual world in some way, so they die young and often
needless deaths.
ADDICTIVE BEHAVIORS AND HABITS
These
can impact the body, the brain, attitudes, emotions and all levels of
functioning. In fact, the more
levels a behavior impacts, the more addictive it can be. Here are two common examples –
exercise and sex addictions.
EXERCISE ADDICTION
Exercise
powerfully stimulates the adrenal glands, causing a cortisone
high. It also stimulates respiration and circulation, causing euphoric feelings
related to these. It also produces lactic acid, which can have a euphoric
effect. On top of all this,
exercise is fashionable and one hears that Ômore is betterÕ for oneÕs health.
Exercise
addition also appeals to those overly concerned with their appearance. A slim,
muscular build is associated in their minds with health. Unfortunately, as with any activity,
when it becomes addictive it becomes damaging. Excessive sympathetic nervous system activity shuts down the
immune system, deprives the adrenals of rest, upsets thyroid activity and
overworks the joints.
Many
compulsive or excessive exercisers do not eat well, believing that plenty of
exercise is all they need. Nothing
could be further from the truth.
Some of those in the worst of health are exercise addicts. They destroy
their adrenals, joints and immune systems by their lack of balance in regards
to exercise. For more about
exercise, click here.
SEX AS AN
ADDICTION. This is a large topic. Please read Sexual Fluid Craving for more information about one common type of
sexual addiction today, more commonly seen in women than in men.
ATTITUDES AND EMOTIONAL ADDICTION AND LOW
SELF-ESTEEM
Low
self-esteem is sometimes a cause of addiction. If one does not feel good about oneself, it is tempting to
settle for momentary highs, even if it is destructive to the body or mind. One may feel one has little to lose.
Only
the ego mind compares and contrasts one person with another. This will always make one feel inferior
in some way. In fact, many people
with low self-esteem are the most wonderful, sensitive people. Because of their sensitivity, they are
more aware and often more honest.
However, parents and teachers often do not reward this, as it can be
embarrassing.
So
one must, in this case, realize the truth that each person is a divine creation
and totally loved and worthy. If
one is in the habit of comparing oneself with others, or always looking for
approval in the world, these habits must stop. Each of us has gifts and talents, and time is better spent
developing oneself and spending time only with those who offer support to you.
Then
addictions associated with low self-confidence disappear, as they make no
sense. The word confidence, by the way, means with faith, from
the Latin. Faith is the quality
that one often needs more of when one feels low self-confidence or low
self-esteem.
HANDLING ADDICTIONS
SUPPORTING THE ADRENAL
GLANDS
Supporting
the adrenal glands is a powerful way to help end the cycle of addiction. Nourishing the adrenal glands to
enhance their activity can help provide a person with some of the same euphoric
feelings that mild addictive substances provide without the harmful effects of
stimulants. Nutrients that benefit the adrenal glands include vitamins
B-complex, C and E, manganese, chromium, zinc and eating some protein at least
twice daily.
Plenty
of rest and sleep are also excellent for the adrenals. Letting go of fear and
worry are essential. Getting rid of chronic infections is also very
important. Detoxification of heavy
metals such as lead, cadmium, mercury, copper, and toxic levels of manganese,
iron, chromium, aluminum and others is also required or at least most helpful.
Strengthening
the adrenal glands can also improve oneÕs resolve or willpower. The adrenals
are called the fight-or-flight glands. OneÕs ability to secrete adrenal
hormones in large part determines oneÕs ability to handle stress. Adrenal glands weakened by sugar consumption, excessive exercise, stress or anything else
will reduce one's ability to resist the temptations of other drugs.
In
other words, oneÕs ability to cope with reality depends, in part, upon a balanced body chemistry. The use of any item or habit that
weakens or unbalances the chemistry reduces the ability to handle stress. The temptation to go into denial increases, and with it the
temptation to use drugs or other habits to deny reality. It is possible to overcome a weak will
through faith, concentration or a support group. However, fixing oneÕs body chemistry is also a great help!
NORMALIZING THE BLOOD
SUGAR
Normalizing
blood sugar is another way nutritional correction can help overcome addictions. Recently, a teenager consulted me who
admitted he was addicted to Coca Cola.
He had spent time in a local mental institution for severe depression. During his stay, he was allowed all the
Coca Cola he wanted. No one
understood why he made poor progress.
When his nutrition was corrected, his depression lifted.
Have
you ever noticed how much coffee with sugar is consumed at Alcoholics Anonymous
meetings? Weak adrenals often
result in hypoglycemia since adrenal hormones raise blood sugar. This condition
is very
common. When the blood sugar level
drops, cravings can be very strong for sugar, soda pop, a cigarette or another
adrenal stimulant. Alcohol craving
can also be caused by low blood sugar.
A COMPLETE DEVELOPMENT PROGRAM
This is
excellent to build self-discipline, help the brain function better, and eliminate
traumas, negative thoughts, and other problems that may be contributing to
addictions. For details, read Introduction To Development Programs.
HEALTHY FRIENDSHIPS
A
powerful factor in some addictions is oneÕs friendships and groups. The effect can be extremely negative,
or it can be very positive. A true
friend is one who looks out for your best interests at all times, even at
parties or other social events.
If a
person you know or are involved with in any way leads you toward more unhealthy
behavior, that is not a friend. It is just a buddy or
acquaintance. Many people indulge
in alcohol, for example, to be social, to fit in, or to Òhave a good timeÓ. These are never oneÕs real friends, however.
False
friends or unhealthy groups can have other negative influences when it comes to
addictions. They might talk you out of change, emphasizing how hard it is to
change, how likely one is to fail, or how others have failed. They might make you think it is silly
to change and not worth the effort.
They may
bring you gifts that keep the addiction going, such as a bottle of wine,
without even realizing at times what they are doing. They may speak badly about you to someone whom you are wanting to invite into your life. This can be a tremendous block for some
people if they continue to listen to or even associate with these
"friends".
Positive friends. Good friends, of course, can also be life-saving
forces to help one change and give up addictions. This is the basis for AA sponsorship and other similar
programs. The friend who reinforces that one can change, one can succeed, and
one is doing well is as a rare gem.
This is a true friend, one that holds oneÕs highest interest in mind at
all times, no matter what happens.
Good
friends are especially important when family and other influential adults are
sending one negative messages.
Indeed, choosing the right friends is a great secret to overcoming any
addiction.
For this
reason, permanent reversal of addictions requires accepting reality and not
trying to run away from it. A
client who was a psychologist once uttered in my office, Òreality is the pitsÓ,
when I suggested she needed to face reality. An important block in doing so is that so many people have
come to believe that the physical life is basically rotten, or at least not
very enjoyable. They do not believe it possible to create such a wonderful life
that the very idea of escaping from it makes no sense.
I
have covered this topic in more detail in an article entitled, The World Is Perfect, as well as in others on this
website.
Anything
that gives one hope or better, can demonstrate that life can be really
terrific, will greatly assist one to let go of all addictive behavior. This is
the appeal of spiritual teachings such as Alcoholics Anonymous, attending
religious services or reading spiritual texts. It is also the reason group support, friendship and love are the finest things to help
people end addictions.
CONCLUSION
Understanding
the nutritional and glandular causes for addiction can make breaking addictions
easier. Supporting the body with a
scientific program of diet modification and nutritional supplements can
definitely ease the pain that sometimes occurs when one lets go of addictions.
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