SUCKERS OR VAMPIRES
VERSUS REAL MEN, AND
ÒRELATIONSHIPSÓ
VERSUS FRIENDSHIPS
by Dr. Lawrence Wilson
©
October 2013, L.D.
Wilson Consultants, Inc.
All
information in this article is for educational purposes only. It is not for the diagnosis, treatment,
prescription or cure of any disease or health condition.
Suckers are people
who take the energy or substance of others without giving anything back, or much
back in return. They are also
called Energy Vampires on this website. They are basically con artists. Some are ordinary types, while others
are professional rapists, thieves, users or others. They are all seducers, however. Some are able to generate warm fuzzy feelings inside of a
womanÕs body, for example, and then they use this ability to get what they want
– usually sex. They are
everywhere, in all regions of the world and in all professions.
Real
men and women, in contrast, give love and do not take anything except if
they ask and it is given freely.
They have deep integrity and
may be called impeccable. This means they do what they say they will
do, they do not lie or steal, and they do not use others for their pleasure or
for anything else. Instead they
love others. However, in the world
of relationships, they often sit on the sidelines because they are not
seductive or ÒskilledÓ at getting the attention of others the way the con
artists are.
The suckers
or energy vampires are very adept at making women, and sometimes men, believe
that they are getting something when they are not. They do this by seduction, which can be extremely subtle using
words, phrases, body language, clothing, gestures, touching, cooing and
singing, subtle energy transmission, and other methods. Another way to say this is they are
able somehow to set up a rapport with their target or victim that makes the
victim feel loved, wanted, excited, sexy, smart or something else that the
person secretly or not so secretly wishes for. This is how they succeed in life. They are very good sales people, one might say.
In contrast,
the real men often seem cold and unfeeling. This is because they are more honest and ÒstraightÓ with
women. They offer themselves, but
they do not seduce and entice women with warm, cozy feelings that are fake,
basically. Sadly, millions of
women mistake this clear and upfront attitude for coldness or uncaring, and the
women shun these men, much to their detriment.
This is the
basic idea of suckers versus real men.
Women, please beware of any man who is too nice, seems to offer too
much, or gives off or generates a warm fuzzy feeling inside of you. Do not trust your feelings in these
cases, as they are usually wrong.
Do not ignore the advice of your parents, good friends or others who
warn you against taking up with these men. Please listen, as your safety and your health might depend
upon it.
RELATIONSHIPS
VERSUS FRIENDSHIPS
Many
people are desperately seeking a relationship. A few are smart enough to want a friendship instead. Here is the difference, as I will
define it:
Relationships. A relationship is when two
independent people get together.
Perhaps they live together, or just share a bed, or share meals, or
share work together, or perhaps something else. Their motto is sort of ÒI do my thing and you do yours, and
if we blend together, then fine, and if we do not, then we go our separate ways
and that is fine, too.Ó
Those in
relationships are somewhat immature and always somewhat selfish. They have little long term commitment
and often do not necessarily love each other. Thy mainly live, work, recreate or play together. This is the essence of what I mean by a
relationship.
Friendships. I will define a friendship differently. It is two who are devoted to each
otherÕs highest good. This is very
different from a typical relationship.
It is two who share deeply and intimately, though not necessarily
sexually or living together. It
can be two of the opposite sex, or the same sex, and it doesnÕt matter. Neither does age difference or other
differences matter.
It is two
who care deeply for one anotherÕs welfare in all ways, even if it costs them
the friendship. A friend is more
like a loving parent, or a ÒbuddyÓ, or your companion. A friend does not think selfishly about
his or her own needs around you, whether that need be great sex, a great meal, enjoying
a good movie together, a great vacation, or anything else.
Instead, a
friend only wants to know how you are doing and what needs to be done to keep
you healthy, happy and moving in a more spiritual and uplifting direction. This is a very different type of human
interaction, and actually somewhat rare on planet earth. It requires much more maturity,
commitment and a much longer view.
It is not selfish in the least.
This topic
dovetails well with the first part of this article. My advice to women, especially, is to look for a friend, not
a relationship. You will be
happier. Men, look for a friend,
not a relationship. Do not be in a
hurry about it, either. If you
find a friend, you are a long way toward a really deep and intimate
relationship or friendship that will last a lifetime. This is the goal of this article to present these ideas.
Once again,
women especially, must be careful of suckers or users who seem to be their
friend, confidant or whatever, but who really do not look out for their best
interests. Men must be careful of
women who are seducers as well, but ore often the men seduce the women.
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