WHAT IS WRONG WITH A FOCUS ON SEX?
by Dr. Lawrence Wilson
© February 2021, LD Wilson Consultants, Inc.
All information in this article is solely the opinion of the author and is for educational purposes only. It is not intended as diagnosis, prescription, treatment or cure for any health conditions.
A prevailing attitude today is that sex is fun and more is better. Another prevailing attitude that is widely taught is that as human beings we need to attract mates and reproduce the species, and dressing and acting sexy helps.
Also, sexy is fun and feels good. Thus, sexy is just natural!
Many people wonder why the Bible and this website say there needs to be strict rules about sexual activity. They say this is very old fashioned and out of date. This article explains why we say there needs to be strict rules about sex. The article is organized according to the 7 system:
II. REASONS TO AVOID A SEXUAL FOCUS
1. PHYSICAL REASONS
A SEXUAL FOCUS IS DANGEROUS, ESPECIALLY FOR WOMEN
Sexy thoughts, dress and behavior attract predators and rapists. There is no question about this, although some would say it is wrong.
A SEXUAL FOCUS IS A HUGE WASTE OF TIME
Ways that a sexy focus waste time and energy include spending too much time on one’s appearance, such as washing and combing long hair. People also waste time shopping for just the right clothing and just the right body care products and cosmetics to have the right “look”.
Another waste of time is that many people spend hours every day “checking out” how others look, speak and behave in sexy ways on social media, walking around town, at work and everywhere.
A SEXY FOCUS OFTEN LEADS TO UNHEALTHY EATING AND LIVING HABITS
For example, some women eat foods that they find grow their breasts. This is quite common. It is not all bad in that some people know that by eating in a healthy way they will be more attractive. However, a desire to look sexy often causes distorted eating and living habits.
A SEXUAL FOCUS OFTEN LEADS TO MORE ORDINARY SEX
This tends to spread disease and risks pregnancy and rape. It also spins the energy centers backwards and leads to sexual fluid loss. This may seem harmless, but it is not. It contributes to nutritional depletion and soul loss, as well.
A SEXUAL FOCUS IS A MORE YIN BEHAVIOR
Yin means expanded and too open. Today, it also means weaker because all bodies are already too yin. For example, a sexy focus tends to open up one’s energy field and this allows harmful souls to enter more easily.
2. EMOTIONAL REASONS
EMOTIONAL UPSET IN ONESELF
A sexual focus tends to upset and cause disarray of the emotions. This is easy to see in teenage girls, for example. However, it occurs with everyone.
EMOTIONAL UPSET IN OTHERS
Dressing and acting sexy causes envy, coveting, anger, and a lot of fear in other people. For example, women are fearful that other sexy women will steal away their husbands. Men are fearful that sexy women will steal away their wives.
3. POWER AND CONTROL ISSUES
A SEXY FOCUS IS OFTEN USED AS A WAY TO CONTROL OTHERS
Both men and women do this. It can seem easier than handling control issues in relationships, work situations and friendships properly through discussion and negotiation.
4. SOCIAL REASONS
A SEXY FOCUS OF ONE’S SOCIAL LIFE LEADS TO MANY UNHEALTHY AND TIME-WASTING BEHAVIORS
These include spending hours shopping for, dressing up for, and then attending social events such as parties, concerts and other gatherings that usually do very little in terms of development or reducing your curse.
A SEXY FOCUS OFTEN LEADS TO SELFISH SOCIAL BEHAVIORS
This often occurs even if the social activities seem worthwhile or charitable. The focus becomes showing off and checking out the dress, body parts, odors, hair styles, makeup and behavior of others so that one can learn to do it better oneself.
5. PARTNERSHIP AND MARRIAGE-RELATED REASONS
A SEXUAL FOCUS CAN AND DOES ATTRACT THE WRONG TYPES OF MEN OR WOMEN TO YOURSELF
Thoughtful, high quality women don’t want their man to look and act sexy. It is flirting and quality women hate it.
Thoughtful, high quality men don’t need or want a woman to look and act sexy. It looks cheap, superficial, is just showing off and prostitute-like.
A SEXY FOCUS, SUCH AS SEXY DRESS OR BEHAVIOR, IS HARD ON MARRIAGES
It is a superficial focus, often a negative competitive attitude, and it causes worry and fear, as explained in Section II above.
6. MENTAL AND INTELLECTUAL REASONS
A SEXY FOCUS IS ALWAYS INTELLECTUALLY SUPERFICIAL AND INTELLECTUALLY BANKRUPT
Think of the famous line from the movie, The Unsinkable Molly Brown. The madam who runs the brothel teaches Molly: “When the penis goes up, the brain goes down.”
The teaching is very true. In fact, a sexual focus is, at best, a distraction. Often, it is a drug that many people use to forget and escape their problems and conflicts.
SEXUAL THOUGHTS ARE ALWAYS SELFISH
7. SPIRITUAL, RELIGIOUS AND DEVELOPMENT-RELATED REASONS
ALL SEXUAL ACTIVITY TENDS TO MOVE SUBTLE ENERGY UPWARD THROUGH THE BODY – AND THIS IS HARMFUL
The process of development requires learning to move subtle energy downward from the head to the feet. For details, read Downward Moving Energy And Healing.
SEX ALWAYS INVOLVES A FOCUS ON THE LOWER ENERGY CENTERS OF THE BODY – SPECIFICALLY NUMBERS 1 AND 2.
These are not spiritual centers and for development one needs to focus on the upper energy centers. For details, read The Energy Centers.
A SEXUAL FOCUS OPENS THE AURA TO NEGATIVE AND VERY HARMFUL SOULS AND DISCARNATE ENTITIES
This is the truth. For details, read Entity Attachment And Release.
A related article is Why Do Some People Crave Sexual Activity?
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