HOW TO BE MORE SEXY
by Lawrence Wilson, MD
© May 2013, The Center For Development, Inc.
To become more sexy, become healthier by following a nutritional balancing program. This is what many clients report to us. While looking sexy is not the goal of the program, I often hear the following:
“My skin finally looks great”
“I look ten years younger”
“The cellulite just seemed to go away!”
“I lost the weight in the right places, and without effort, except to follow the program”
“I am standing up straighter”
“People say I have a sparkle in my eye”
“My husband is envious and says I’m prettier than when we married twenty-five years ago”.
“My skin has tightened and my breasts have firmed up again, after years of sagging”.
“My hair now holds a perm, and looks much healthier”.
“Fingernails are strong and pretty again, and the stretch marks are gone”.
“Libido is back. Partner is happy”.
Even if your facial features are not the most beautiful on planet earth, you may be surprised how much better you will look and feel as you become truly healthy with a nutritional balancing program. It will take some months and often a few years, but is well worth the effort.
HEALTHY PEOPLE ARE SEXIER
Both men and women who are healthier are definitely more sexy. Here is why:
Your hormone balance:
It is known that the sex hormones such as estrogen and testosterone, in particular, will increase secondary sex characteristics, and are associated with being and feeling sexy, and having a good libido.
When one becomes healthier these hormones definitely begin to come into better balance automatically. Their quantity in the body tends to increase to a normal level if it is low. If they are too high, they tend to diminish to a normal level.
Hormone replacement. I never recommend taking bio-identical or other hormone replacement unless the organ has been surgically removed. There are just too many side effects of hormone therapies, in general. Also, it seems to slow or stop what I call mental development. In almost all cases, a nutritional balancing program can restore more youthful or appropriate hormone levels at any age.
In my experience, it is not true that people need hormone replacement if the hormone levels become low. This is a error perpetrated by many doctors, conventional and holistic ones. They just do not know how to restore youthful or appropriate hormone levels.
A better way to balance your hormones is to follow a complete nutritional balancing program. It works, and we have proved this in thousands of people of all ages. It requires a healthful diet of the type we recommend, detoxification of the entire body of all the toxic metals, not just a few, and restoring the balance of the vital mineral ratios in the tissues. It takes a few years, but is well worth the effort. The entire body is rebuilt, literally, in this manner, including the hormonal system in a man or in a woman.
For more on this, read Hormone Replacement Therapy on this website.
HAVING MORE ENERGY IS SEXY
Another way that being healthy is sexy is that higher hormone levels and better libido is associated with higher overall vitality, or higher adaptive energy. This is a crucial concept that is not taught in medical, chiropractic or naturopathic schools nearly enough, if it is taught at all.
Vitality is critical for feeling sexy. Most people know that when they become tired or burned out, sexual desire and general interest in sex diminishes greatly. This may be because sex is not a vital function, so the body just shuts it down if the energy level is too low.
When clients complain of low libido, in most cases their energy level, according to a hair tissue mineral analysis, is very low. As their energy level is restored, their attractiveness and libido also increase, in general.
An exception is that in some cases, when a person is very tired there is excessive interest in sex, perhaps because of hormonal imbalances, or the person is acting as an energy vampire during sex. In these cases, a nutritional balancing program can actually help normalize sexual desire and help a person stop acting as a vampire. For more on this, read Energy Vampirism on this website.
Nutritional balancing can also help stop energy-depleting habits such as masturbation.
LOSING WEIGHT PROPERLY, AND IN THE RIGHT PLACES, IS USUALLY VERY SEXY
Nutritional balancing programs get rid of cellulite in women, tighten the skin without the need for surgery, and remove layers of toxins in the skin and elsewhere.
Many people have lost 100 pounds or more easily, without the need for vigorous exercise, drugs, hormones, or low-calorie diets. All of the preceding methods I consider extremely dangerous, stupid and unnecessary. Read the article on this website, for example, about HCG Diet Dangers. Also, read Exercise And Its Dangers.
HEALTHY LOOKING SKIN IS MORE SEXY
Sexuality has a lot to do with the condition of one’s skin and the exterior of the body, in general. Better health often brings with it a more vibrant and healthy look, feel and glow of the skin. This is definitely more sexy. Use of a near infrared sauna as part of a complete nutritional balancing program is sometimes quite amazing in what it can do for the skin.
A BETTER BODY ODOR, SWEETER BREATH AND LESS GAS AND BLOATING
Many people, even young adults, have a stale odor, or a yeasty odor, or a toxic odor to the body, no matter how much deodorant they apply every day. This is because the interior of the body is unclean and is supporting bacteria, fungi or other micro-organisms that generate foul odors.
Also, when one eats incorrectly, often food rots or putrefies in the large intestine, causing not only smelly gas and bloating, but the production of very toxic and odorous chemicals in the colon. These are reabsorbed to a degree and must be eliminated – in part through the skin. All of the body secretions are affected and the urine, feces, sweat, breath, and oils of the skin will take on different odors depending upon which toxic chemicals are being formed inside the body.
As the body is cleansed and balanced properly, these odors definitely are reduced and replaced more by a “baby odor”, which is much sweeter and more pleasant. This applies particularly to women, but also to men.
HEALTHIER LOOKING GUMS AND TEETH
As you build your health with nutritional balancing, but often not with other methods, your teeth and gums, especially, will begin to look much better. Many people have so much gum disease that it is a wonder anyone would want to kiss them. This is not necessary, and correcting gum disease usually occurs easily and rapidly on a nutritional balancing program. The gums take on a light pink color, receding gums often correct themselves, and the teeth may even straighten on their own.
If you combine this with brushing the teeth with hydrogen peroxide, this will also whiten the teeth slowly and easily. Brushing with a mild soap solution, while not tasty, is another way to brighten up your mouth area. Use some peppermint soap to leave a nice odor. This is often far better than any toothpaste. Always avoid fluoride toothpastes and alcohol or harsh mouth washes.
FASTER OXIDATION IS MORE SEXY
Dr. Paul Eck found that fast oxidation is more associated with interest in sex and a more sexy demeanor, in general. One reason is the person is literally more alive, more sensitive to touch, and the skin and hair are more moist and juicy.
Another reasons for this may be complex, having to do with yin and yang aspects of body chemistry.
Body shape and the oxidation rate. Faster oxidation also brings with it a different body shape, with more weight carried higher up on the body, and less on the hips and legs. This is definitely a more sexy look.
If the oxidation rate is too fast, a person is likely anxious, nervous and perhaps paranoid and angry. This can also come into balance and help with one’s appearance and sexuality.
Softening the body. Slow oxidizers also tend to build up calcium and other minerals in the soft tissues. This effectively “hardens” the tissues and makes them less flexible, less moist, and much less attractive. As this condition, which is really just a part of aging, is reversed, the skin and muscles become much softer to the touch and flexible, more like the tissues of a young person or child.
Importance of Retests. Nutritional balancing programs always are set up to balance the oxidation rate, and this is an important reason for retesting the hair every 3 to 6 months, and not going for too long without a retest.
Sexual numbness in slow oxidizers. One of the problems of those with a very slow oxidation rate is they have a buildup of non-ionized calcium in the body tissues. This acts somewhat like an electrical insulator and it literally numbs the nervous system to some extent. This is not always the case, but often is so.
Other nutrient imbalances can also affect the sensitivity of a person to touch, including copper and aluminum, among the most important ones.
Another imbalance that can cause some numbness is the beginnings of diabetes. This is extremely common today, and manifests often as a slight tingling or numbness in the feet, often, and later in other extremities. This will go away on a properly designed nutritional balancing program.
RELEASING SEXUAL TRAUMAS HELPS ONE TO FEEL SEXY IN A BALANCED AND NORMAL WAY
A nutritional balancing program often will bring up and resolve old emotional and physical traumas that many people carry. This includes a variety of sexually-related traumas such as rape, molestation, beatings, humiliations, and more. The incident may have occurred at a young age, so one may not remember it at all. If it was severe, one may block out the memory of it.
Releasing these trauma, as will usually occur on a nutritional balancing program when the body’s vitality is raised high enough, can cause gigantic shifts in attitudes and behavior related to sexuality. Often, a much healthier, more wholesome and balanced interest in sex returns, or occurs for the first time.
For example, rape always affects women to some degree. It does not have to be an actual physical rape, but even the fear of it or a mild incident affects the pelvic area of the body, and often other aspects of sexuality. This is true for both women and men. For more on these topics, read Pelvic Syndrome, molestation, and Healing Rape on this website.
SPECIFIC MINERALS AND OTHER NUTRIENTS, AND SEXINESS
A large and interesting area of nutrition is the effect of specific minerals on one’s sexual feelings, attitudes and even beliefs. I will just touch on it briefly.
Trace minerals and sexuality. Most of the trace minerals are involved in the human reproductive system, and in the nervous system, as it relates to sexual activity and attitudes.
Specific minerals play critical roles in our feelings and secondary sex characteristics. This is a very unusual and interesting area of trace mineral science. For example, zinc and selenium are called masculine minerals. They tend to be balancing and calming. Copper, manganese and iodine are called female minerals, because they are more important for women’s sexual and reproductive activity, and perhaps for women’s health, in general. Copper is called the emotional mineral, while Dr. Eck called manganese the maternal mineral, due to some of its subtle effects on the brain. Selenium and silicon, especially, are associated with joy, and a silky smooth quality of the skin and hair. Think of corn silk, which is very high in silicon.
Toxic metals and sexuality. Too much mercury can cause erratic behavior and spaciness. Cadmium is called the pseudo-male mineral, as it is associated with more macho attitudes, a hollow or weak true masculinity and sometimes with violence.
Nickel is associated with depression and often suicidal thoughts that can interfere with sexuality. Arsenic and lead reduce the vitality level and tend to diminish sexual interest. The is an introduction to a complex topic of how minerals act within our bodies upon the hormone levels and neurotransmitter levels as well. A much more complete discussion of this, and related topics, is found in Nutritional Balancing And Hair Mineral Analysis, 2010 edition, Chapter 43. To look through the table of contents of this book, click here.
To be continued:
MINERAL RATIOS AND SEXUALITY
MINERAL PATTERNS AND SEXUALITY