by Lawrence Wilson, MD
© July 2010, The Center for Development
Meditation is a very
commonly-used word. It generally
refers to methods of calming or stilling the mind. In some instances, meditation and prayer refer specifically
to a religious or spiritual practice of some kind. However, in this article and in all articles on this
website, the word refers to a specific type of mental concentration and
observation at the same time. This
is very important to understand, as otherwise one may think that meditation refers to any number of
exercises that are offered today.
This
exercise is adapted from the work of Mr. Roy Masters of The Foundation Of Human Understanding or www.fhu.com. I purposely include this reference so
that anyone can go there and listen to his meditation procedure before moving
on to the slightly modified version I will recommend in this article and
perhaps in others on this website.
Mr.
Masters calls himself a Judeo-Christian teacher, but the meditation, he says, is
completely non-denominational. It
also requires no religious training or affiliation, although familiarity with
certain biblical concepts is helpful to understand it.
He
says he learned it spontaneously as a child and just found it gave him a
special kind of peace and perspective, so he just kept doing it. His religious beliefs came later when,
though the insights he gained due to meditating each day, he realized the
importance of some of the words and phrases in the bible. He says that you, too, will have
similar insights once you begin meditating as he recommends. I have found he is correct about this
idea.
For
more of Mr. Masters ideas, I suggest his small book entitled How
Your Mind Can Keep You Well.
This is his basic book about the meditation exercise, and the most
important of his 12 or so books.
The others deal with specific issues such as parents, sexuality, food,
medicine and other topics. They
vary somewhat, and some are quite controversial and hard to read.
Reading is not the answer. Mr. Masters states clearly that reading will never solve
your problems, so do not waste a lot of time reading books. Instead, learn to meditate every day
and most problems will slowly disappear from your life. I agree with this, for the most
part, and so I do not recommend reading a lot of books about meditation for
this reason. However, Mr. Masters
basic book on meditation is helpful to get started and for a basic
understanding of the procedure and why it is different than all the others I
have encountered.
A DEFINITION OF MEDITATION AND EVEN PRAYER
Moving
on beyond the basics that Mr. Masters discusses, I will define meditation as a
specific exercise or method for bringing into the body the maximum amount of
subtle energy. This may seem
unusual, as it is not the common reason why one prays or meditates. However, it is the specific intent of
this particular exercise. I would
also submit that it is the intent of most prayer, as well.
The
subtle energy refers to a basic physical energy that animates all life on
planet earth. The energy itself is
unseen and unfelt for the most part, but is in fact the basic ÔstuffÕ or ÔetherÕ
out of which all created matter is built.
In other cultures and traditions, it is known as prana,
chi, qi, vital force, life energy or perhaps
zero-point energy.
The
more of this energy that we possess or take in and pass through our bodies, the
better we look and feel. Also, by
ingesting or absorbing more of it, we can develop certain brain centers that
otherwise remain dormant in almost everyone. These can offer new abilities such as telepathy, an ability
to see the aura or energy field around an object or person, and much more.
Thus,
the single goal of this meditation is to bring in more of this energy in a safe
and simple manner. This can be
done by anyone willing to spend the time to do the exercise. I have used this method for some 30
years on a daily basis. It continues
to help me heal the physical body and it continues to develop my mind in ways I
would not have imagined. This is
the reason I continue to recommend it.
A SAFE EXERCISE
Safety
should and must be a primary concern when one considers any meditative
practice. This is because
meditations, prayers and affirmations are quite powerful mental tools. Also, one can waste years with certain
prayers and meditations if they are helpful. The Roy Masters exercise is very safe for the following
reasons;
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It is easy
to learn at home. It does
not require any special training, initiation, paying fees, or trained teachers
or a group to help you with it.
This is a safety feature, since teachers and groups can corrupt
meditations, especially.
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You can do
it as often and for as long each session as you wish. This cannot be said of many other
meditations. For example, please avoid
any prayers or meditations that send your energy upward, as they may produce
marvelous effects on the mind, but may not be safe in the long term.
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It will
not lead you astray. Some
types of prayers, such as affirmations, can easily lead people in directions
that are not healthy. For example,
some affirmations cause people to believe in things that are not really true,
such as ÒI am happier and healthier every day.Ó This statement might be true, but often it is not and is
just an attempt to brainwash yourself.
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It does
not cause visions, hallucinations or other psychic phenomena.
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It is
grounding and centering, which tends to be far safer than most others.
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It does
not cause strain to the body or to the mind. For example, many prayers and meditation teachers suggest one
assume uncomfortable postures that are not needed, in our view, and can even
damage the body over time. This
particularly applies to Oriental systems such as yoga and tai chi,
unfortunately. These can be good,
but one must have a teacher who continuously checks to be sure there is no
strain on the ligaments and joints of the body.
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It is not
hypnotic. In fact, Mr.
Masters calls it the anti-hypnosis, as it will break many light hypnotic
trances easily. Mr. Masters was a
hypnotist before he taught meditation and states that this exercise can help
break the effect of hypnotic speech, images, etc.
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No dogma or
doctrines are needed. In
other words, there is no need or attempt to inculcate certain doctrines in
order for this exercise to work.
It is a pure exercise in this regard. Dogma may help some people, but it is not needed and this is
another safety feature since one is not forced to learn any particular
information. The exercise is
mainly about removing images, thoughts, and emotions that are revealed to be
untrue as one progresses with the exercise. This is very different from affirmations that seek to
influence the brain in ways that are sometimes not healthy, though the
affirmations may seem benign.
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It does
not develop Òpsychic abilitiesÓ. Some may see this as a disadvantage. However, in our experience, most people
are better off without these abilities until they are sufficiently balanced to
handle them properly.
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A slow,
steady and safe way to open the energy centers of the body and heal the body. This is a great key and benefit of this
exercise that cannot be said of most prayers and meditations, sadly. The reason is the exercise is
non-specific. That is, it does not
target any particular thought, body organ or area, or anything else. It might be called instead an exercise
in pure energy awareness of the whole person.
Now
let us discuss a few important topics and benefits of this meditation exercise.
EMPTYING THE MIND
The means of
bringing in the new energy is most important. It is to empty the mind or self of as much of this world as
possible for the short period of meditation. This is critical to understand. Roy Masters does not emphasize this enough, but it is at the
very core or essence of this exercise if one is to succeed with it.
The concept is
discussed in the bible, for example, in the phrase, Ònot my will, but Thine be doneÓ. This is the concept of emptying the self of all that one
thinks is important and instead opening the self, the mind, and the body, including
the joints of the body in particular, to something new, something different,
something beyond this physical world.
A NEW SOURCE OF ENERGY
The
modified Roy Masters exercise can permit one to connect with a new source of
personal and healing energy. This
may seem like a strange idea.
However, it is no doubt true, and one can feel it, first as a slight
tingling and later throughout the body.
This
energy is the primordial energy of life that promotes and provides health and
long life. It is also associated
with new abilities and powers that are not available when one is connected only
to the physical and environmental sources of energy or physical reality. This is a key to understanding this
meditation exercise and, to some degree, all prayer and meditation practices.
THE GOAL OF THIS PRACTICE
The
goal of meditation is to activate your full potential. This is more than just calming the
mind, or increasing oneÕs awareness, although these are among its
benefits. It is a long, slow road,
so it is best to begin now.
BENEFITS OF MEDITATION
PHYSICAL HEALING
The
effects of the new source of energy are many, and they occur on all levels of
our being. For example, physical
healing occurs because the subtle energy, as it enters the body through the
head, automatically flows everywhere in the body and helps to deconstrict and decongest areas of
the brain and body.
Many
other subtle changes occur in the glands and other organs of the physical
body. For example, the practice of
sitting quietly and meditating as suggested inhibits the sympathetic nervous system. This is the fight-or-flight nervous system. Resting this system powerfully rests the adrenal and thyroid glands
and assists the activity of the immune,
digestive and elimination systems of
the body.
Many
other benefits flow from this one benefit to the nervous system. Breathing
tends to automatically slow and deepen, bringing more oxygen to the body
cells. As breathing changes, the
body becomes better oxygenated.
More oxygen in the body greatly assists the proper nutrition and
metabolism in the body. This often
brings healing all by itself and is the reason oxygen therapies are highly
recommended for certain ailments.
Causing healing reactions. As the physical body shifts due to the effects of the
meditation, you can expect some unusual or just annoying healing symptoms, at
times. This is nothing to be
concerned about and they will pass.
Perhaps skip the meditation for a day if you feel your body needs to
Òcatch upÓ or move through something one day.
On
the other hand, at times, meditating more will move the reaction through
faster. Some experimentation will
be needed to learn how to best handle these situations. I may be able to assist you if
difficulties of this type continue to arise. For example, you may be overlooking a procedure or aspect of
your life that needs more attention.
MENTAL/EMOTIONAL HEALING
So
much change occurs on mental and emotional levels that a large section of this
article will discuss just a few of the major ones.
Mental
healing occurs for several reasons.
Meditation is like a once or a
twice-a-day mental checkup.
Often you will find that you automatically review your day and plan for tomarrow without having to think about it.
Incomplete thought processes will be
completed as the
mind stops racing out of control.
Most people do not realize that they are so busy with their momentary
activities that they do not complete their thoughts, and many projects at home
or at work. So during meditation, you will realize what
you need to do and many thought processes will complete on their own. This
not only relaxes the mind and the emotions in many cases. Often this also brings with it
surprising insights and creative ideas for you.
Old mental and emotional traumas
come up for viewing and are resolved in the light. This reduces stress dramatically. This is a very necessary process for many peopleÕs physical
and even more so their emotional and mental healing. It is not always pleasant, but if one will just observe
whatever comes up with equanimity and an observing attitude, not judging
whatever it is, then it will pass eventually. That is all that is needed in most cases. Rarely, it is wise to talk about your
insights with a counselor or a good friend, but usually this is not necessary,
nor is it always helpful since all that is usually needed is to let it go and
move on. Talking for hours about it is not usually helpful at all.
Meditation also brings and keeps one
in the present moment. This is where all wisdom
and healing lie. Fear and anxiety
are in the future, while guilt and remorse are in the past. You will begin to understand this much
better as you meditate daily. This
exercise is superb for keeping a person in the present time, something that
most people have difficulty doing well and consistently.
The exercise is extremely grounding
and centering. This is not true of most meditations,
by the way. Grounding, which is
the subject of an article on this website, is most important for healing for
many people today. Especially as
our world is changing rapidly, grounding and centering are extremely important
for all healing processes.
Deprogramming, rather than
reprogramming. The exercise deprograms the mind and
even the body in many ways by upsetting and breaking up old tensions. That is, it slowly undoes your past
traumas and issues.
In
contrast, affirmations, most visualization and concentration exercises only
reprogram the mind. This is a
vital difference between this meditation and almost all others that I have
seen.
Whitewashing Vs. Removal. This subject could fill an entire
book. It means that other methods
will tend to whitewash over your problems, fears, angers and the rest of the
unwanted thoughts and emotions.
Instead, the meditation I recommend here will often do the opposite.
It
will bring them up for review. If
you are able to just observe them without too much reaction, they will then be
released and you will be free from the original cause of the attitude, emotion
or thought.
This
process of deprogramming takes a few years, but is well worth the effort. Each level of traumas and hidden
emotions and thoughts that you progress through clears more negative thought
patterns and little by little you will be free and will function much better in
every way.
Deprogramming and Healing. Freeing negative energetic patterns
also greatly opens the body for every kind of healing.
THIS MEDITATION IS:
á A Habit That Allows You to End Your
Attachment To Mindless Habits.
á A Discipline That Helps Remove The
Need For So Much Discipline.
á A Use Of Your Lower Will That Helps
End The Reign Of Your Lower Will.
This meditation is a form of
psychotherapy. It gently brings up hidden thoughts and
attitudes so they can be examined objectively. It is a self-therapy
that proceeds at your own pace and brings up issues in exactly the correct
order. By cultivating the
ÔwitnessÕ in oneself, it shines the light of truth on every activity,
relationship and event in oneÕs life.
This has a powerful healing effect if one is willing to make needed
changes that are best for oneself and best for others as well. While psychotherapy can be beneficial,
problems with all psychotherapy are that one must interact with a therapist who
is usually not completely clear about all of his or her own issues, so things
become confused and distorted in all instances that I have observed. In other words, just interacting with
another, while often helpful, also introduces other input and theories and so
on that may not be relevant and often send the client off in random directions,
many of which today are not helpful.
Negative and random, distracting
thoughts suddenly are found to have less power. This is a mental effect that is quite startling to
people. It has to do with
observing oneÕs thoughts and the idea of bringing up and releasing old
traumas. As this is done, the
negative thoughts and feelings associated with the traumas stop coming into
your mind.
You
may find that oddly, you no longer feel sorry for yourself, for example, or you
will strangely find you are less angry or upset with your family, perhaps. Automatically reducing this negative
thinking is an incredible benefit for many people who have tried affirmations,
prayer, other meditations and many methods to accomplish this goal.
This meditation is an anti-hypnosis. Roy Masters is a hypnotist by profession. He realized people did not need
hypnosis to cure their problems.
In fact, most are already hypnotized! Most people live in a light trance state that he calls Òthe
hypnosis of lifeÓ. For example,
television advertising, he says is just a way of giving many people a
post-hypnotic suggestion to buy a certain car or brand of shampoo. Advertising may work because the
population is already in somewhat of a trance state and are easily influenced
by these silly ads. Advertising
has other more spiritual aspects, however, which is to raise awareness and
alert people to new products and services. However, many ads are aimed at unconscious and often hypnotic
suggestions to lure people unconsciously.
This is what might be called the dark side of advertising.
Meditation,
by increasing awareness, very slowly assists one out of the hypnotic or very
light trance state they are in and helps them come back to reality.
This meditation will help develop
healthier attitudes. Emotionally, one slowly becomes more
centered and balanced in oneÕs attitudes and approaches to life. One
becomes more centered in oneself, which is not the same as becoming
self-centered. The difference
between these two states is enormous.
Centered in oneself means that
one has a place of balance and peace within. This allows one to be much less self-centered, which means preoccupied with the ego self or
selfishness.
These
physical, mental and emotional effects combine to reshape the entire person,
top to bottom, into a more loving, more unselfish, more enlightened being. This is the beauty of this meditation.
HABIT CHANGE
With this meditation, bad habits
will tend to drop you. Interestingly, you will no
longer be compatible with them.
Many such habits simply stem from unawareness. As your awareness grows, you will see the roots of your habits. This meditation allows you to
understand yourself without becoming morbid or negatively self-conscious.
You
will see the process of your thinking and why you smoke, drink alcohol or
engage in other habits or activities that deplete you. As you begin to take more of your
cues from the higher self or real self, you will be less often triggered by
people or events. Common sense and
a spiritual sense take over.
Change then becomes much easier.
Life becomes simpler and happier without exerting any special effort,
except to keep meditating even if you think you have ÒarrivedÓ or become ÒenlightenedÓ.
THE WITNESS
The exercise offers a simple way to
retrain the mind to watch itself without judgment or condemnation. It is not, in itself, a way to solve
problems, but a way to increase awareness.
By increasing awareness, one understands
oneself and others better. This
understanding brings solutions for problems without struggle or effort. The only effort required is to practice
the exercise regularly.
This
is a unique way to solve problems.
I first read about the idea years ago in the books written by J. Krishnamurti.
I highly recommend reading one of his books. However, while he recommends meditation as the solution to
all problems, he does not offer a specific exercise, so the results did not
come. I believe he practiced this
same exercise but either did not wish to share the details or perhaps did not
realize the need to share them clearly.
As a result, his books are wonderful to read, but will not produce the
same results as doing the recommended exercise in this article.
USEFUL ANALOGIES FOR THIS MEDITATION
This
meditation is:
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Taming the wild beast of the mind. At times, the exercise can feel like ÔbreakingÕ a wild horse
or trying to tame another wild beast.
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Coming home. It is like deciding to stay home, so to speak, and spend
time with your real self instead of just running out all the time with various
distractions and activities. This
meditation is a way of being with oneself in a relaxed way, of viewing problems
without running from them or having to react in any way.
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Turning down the volume of a blaring
radio, so you can hear the more subtle music within.
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Going to the movies every day. However, the subject of the movie is yourself. This may seem boring, morbid or
self-centered but it is really none of these. You are a child of god and to explore and see yourself in
this way is a wonderful exercise that helps you to appreciate yourself and then
to appreciate others at deeper levels as well.
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Magnetizing a piece of iron. This particular exercise is like
stroking a piece of iron with a magnet to magnetize the piece of iron. One simply strokes the iron over and
over again in the exact same direction and way, and sooner or later the iron
becomes magnetized properly. It may take thousands of repetitions,
however, to form a strong magnet.
Once done, however, it is quite permanent, and indeed, it builds upon
itself.
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Inducing a current flow in a
transformer. A more
exact analogy for this exercise is that of a transformer that induces a
current. The exercise actually
induces a kind of electrical current in the body. In a transformer, one wire that is connected to a battery or
energy source is placed next to another one, although they are not directly
connected. The current and voltage
from the first wire, when set up properly, is able to induce or cause a voltage
in the second wire. This is
somewhat of a good description of what is going on with the Roy Masters
meditation. The energized wire is
the energy that one moves through the body. The body itself is the other wire that becomes energized, as
a result.
FROM EXTERNALLY CONTROLLED TO INTERNALLY
MOTIVATED
This
meditation helps enormously to shift the control or major influence on a person
from the world and its hidden forces and agendas, toward control by the inner
person. This makes room in the
mind and opens the way, later, for receiving other excellent guidance that is
not of this world.
Beware, however, any time the mind
is made receptive to guidance. Change in this direction, however,
takes time and occurs slowly and gently in most cases. If an opening occurs quickly, all the
better. However, one must be on
guard, at all times, against the intrusion of other beings into the mind who
are not benign, or who are less benign.
These are sometimes called negative souls or negative guides.
One
must always use common sense in regard to following any possible guidance. It is imperative that one stay well
rested, well-hydrated and well-nourished so the mind never is allowed to become
unbalanced or too tired.
Meditation allows one to unfold from
within, like a flower in the spring. In our physical development, we grow from the
inside out, but mentally most people
grow from without to within. That is, oneÕs education, friends, events and
traumas shape the mind from the outside in. This meditation permits a different kind of mental and
emotional development from within.
It occurs according to oneÕs personal plan, not by accident or by the
effects of others or random circumstances of ones life.
This
is a fascinating concept of the unfoldment of the
mental and emotional nature of an individual and few methods permit this type
of unfoldment.
I was told by Roy Masters and others that I might not even recognize
myself as I begin to unfold from within.
But not to worry, they said, because my positive qualities would be
maintained. The only ones that
would drop away would be those that were not truly mine, but instead had been
Òslapped onÓ by unthinking or just unconscious parents, friends, teachers and
others. These need to be
removed. Some may not like the
Ònew youÓ but they are not your real friends, as the real ones will love that
you are Òcoming into your ownÓ in new ways.
THE ULTIMATE LIFESTYLE MODIFICATION
This
exercise is the ultimate lifestyle modification because it will slowly shift a
number of areas in your lifestyle, often in interesting and unusual ways as you
keep meditating.
IMPROVED RELATIONSHIPS AND MORE LOVE
This
meditation cultivates a relationship between the inner self and the outer
self. In other words, it is a
powerful way of cultivate a sincere, loving relationship with yourself, one
that is not a relationship with the ego self. To cultivate a relationship with the ego self is easy, as
the ego is always demanding things and one simply follows the impulses to eat
some ice cream, perhaps, or buy some new clothes or put on some makeup to look
better, perhaps.
This
is a different kind of loving relationship that is not about the ego self or
even about the mind. The mind is
actually part of the ego. The mind
might make demands, too, such as it wants to be entertained by going to a movie
or perhaps it wants to be stimulated by reading a fascinating article or book,
even this one. This is still of
the ego self, though perhaps at a different level.
The
relationship that is cultivated through this meditation is actually still at an
ego level, but so subtle that it is far more health-producing and healing. It is actually a relationship with the
most subtle aspects of the body-mind and spirit.
Because it is at this high level,
however, it tends to straighten out and improve all of oneÕs other
relationships with people, things, and events. By
working on this relationship, all other relationships improve because one is in
better touch with oneÕs deepest essence or higher self or God. For example, marriages often begin to
work better, or perhaps one may realize that this marriage is not going to
change much and another course of action is needed.
Children
often begin to shape up and relate to your better because most children are
more in touch with their deeper self, having had less time to learn and build
up layers of ego defense mechanisms that adults have. All other types of professional and personal relationships
also tend to get better. This does
not mean they will all continue, since some are unhealthy and one will become
more acutely aware of this fact.
However, whatever happens, one becomes much more authentic, genuine,
present, and not as easily fooled or manipulated by others.
While
it is not discussed enough in psychology books, a key to relating to others is
to not allow them to manipulate conversations and other activities. This may make others angry, but in the
end it is best for them, as well, of course, as it is for oneself. Allowing others to control and
manipulate oneself is just an ego game that is Òpar for the courseÓ in most
human relationships. When that
comes to an end, some relationships will disintegrate or end, but that is as it
should be. They will be replaced,
inevitably, by better ones based upon deeper spiritual connections and real friendship rather than seeing
if one can get oneÕs way with others, as is the more common style on earth.
As one learns to see oneself more
clearly, one sees others with more clarity and discernment. Of course, not all your friends and family will like
this. They may have been using
your anger against you, manipulating you with praise or blame, flattering you to
get what they want or intimidating you with idle threats. You will see all this more clearly and
the relationship will change.
One becomes less influenced by
images and illusions outside as you dissolve the images and illusions inside
your head. One becomes less gullible and less
vulnerable to other's attempts to deceive and control you.
If a couple meditates, it is like
adding a neutral third party or mediator to the relationship. This reduces ego fighting and the
battle of the wills that often occurs between partners. This is an extremely powerful way of doing marriage
counseling, by the way, without having to pay counselors. However, both parties
must really do the exercise correctly, and that, unfortunately, is rare
today. Usually one will do it
thoroughly, while the other is still stuck in what he or she believes is
correct and cannot truly let go completely into the exercise for fear that
perhaps one will see that the perspective was not correct, after all. This is the only problem with
recommending that a couple meditate together, so beware of this possibility.
MEDITATION AND LOVE
By loving oneself through taking the
time and trouble to do this meditation, one becomes less dependent on the love
of others. Meditation allows you to practice true
love. Many people want to be
loving, but they don't seem to know how. By connecting to your higher self or
real self, one is filled the love of the Creator. This can then be shared with others in endless numbers of
ways. It can truly allow a person
to do as the bible suggests, to Òbless and forgive this worldÓ in each
moment.
This
kind of love is detached, asks nothing in return, and is therefore more pure
and unconditional. One can see
what others really need, not what they think they need or what they say they
need. It is the quality of compassion and not a bargaining
session, as too much of ÒloveÓ is on this planet, such as Òif you love me I
will love you. But if you do this
or that, then I donÕt love you any moreÓ.
This is purely an ego type of love, and not very spiritual at all.
By
experiencing the Òreal thingÓ, one becomes aware of selfish motives and
feelings that one thought were love.
These include attachment, identification, projection, lust, ambition,
sentimentality, enabling and pride.
One will be able to let these go as one sees they are not very deep
forms of love. This can help relationsips of all kinds in fabulous ways if a person can
remember that love is always blind in that it just loves, and does not look for
anything in return.
EMOTIONAL CONTROL
This
meditation is about getting to "know thyself" at a much deeper
level. It is an impartial way to
study the self and the mind. As
one understands the self more deeply, power and control over the self
increases. As you gain control
over yourself, your emotions come naturally more under your control and begin
to even out. They just have less
power and effect.
In
a sense, the real Armageddon is fought inside your head. When you have conquered yourself,
meaning your own thoughts and emotions, dealing with the world is much easier. The world situation, you will see, is often no more than a reflection of
the struggle that goes on inside each of us. By changing yourself, the spiritual struggle is won and the
world tends to shift in amazing ways around you.
POWER AND AUTHORITY OVER OTHERS
Interestingly,
you may find yourself oddly more confident, even if nothing changes on the
outside. You may also discover
that you will have more control or authority over others. Some people will not like this, by the
way, especially Òold friendsÓ and family who may have known you as you were
before.
These
people are often ones that are used to having you somewhat out of control so
they can manipulate you in certain ways.
This may sound negative but it is the truth, just one truth that you
will learn as you continue to meditate.
You
will see how people feign the truth, change their voice to manipulate and
control others, and use a hundred other sly methods, often without realizing
they are doing it, to control others.
As you see and feel these, you will be less influenced by them.
This
will place you in a superior position of authority, and they will be unhappy
that their little tricks donÕt work any more. You must be ready for this, as it will cause some anger on
their part in most cases. But it
is best, of course, as their manipulative actions and words hurt them as much
as they harm others.
GREATER ABILITY TO LOVE AND HELP OTHERS
Many
times, we wish to help others but it doesnÕt seem to work out. By
learning to love yourself using this particular exercise, you will have a
greater understanding of how to love others. Without any conscious effort on your part, for example, you
will cease to spread around your stress and your negative thoughts and emotions
you didn't even know you had. This
alone can have an amazingly calming and uplifting effect on everyone around
you. They may not understand it,
but will just realize that somehow Mom, Dad, Joe or Nancy is just nicer to be
around these days.
You
will have a greater sense of perspective and therefore become more knowing and
compassionate. Compassion is a
special kind of love in which you understand more. You will understand better what people need, when to
intervene and when to leave people alone.
Without even realizing it, you will start to manipulate people less and
just allow them to be more. This
also has a subtle calming effect on some people, though not all.
HAPPINESS
Positivity
and happiness can tend to be of two basic types. This meditation tends to cause one to develop an honest
positivity because one lets go of false negative ideas, delusions and useless
emotions such as thinking that I am ugly, stupid, stubborn and worthless. OneÕs understanding and perspective
begin to derive more and more from the high self or real self, which is happy,
free, relaxed and okay all the time because it is unaffected by the world. This kind of happiness develops slowly
as layer after layer of unreality or unhappy ideas and emotions are removed
from your mind.
This
is very different from the ÒhappinessÓ and Òpositive thinkingÓ that many people
experience, especially adults.
Theirs is dependent upon temporarily blocking out the negative ideas and
emotions, usually by turning their focus to something else such as their new
house, their children, their job or friends or family, perhaps.
While
there is nothing wrong with any of these things, if they are used to ignore or
block out negativity, this is called a co-dependent relationship and it is not
healthy. But is the common way in
most peopleÕs lives. It is very
different, for example, than the joy of a newborn baby. They donÕt think much or need a new
house or car or friend to feel good.
When they are fed and dry, can just be happy without all these things,
and they can often play by themselves for hours, as every mother and father
knows, in harmony and peace, it seems, and without needing to run away from
anything.
Increased awareness, or just knowing
more, as a result of meditation, can be a great source of happiness. We all want to understand ourselves and others better. Awareness can bring that understanding
and this is a source of joy for most people. Of course, awareness occasionally brings pain as one sees
that the world is not as one thought it was. But that usually passes if one realizes that knowing the
truth is best, even if it hurts, at times.
As
you become happier inside, you will stop looking for happiness outside
yourself, and this relieves a great amount of anxiety and stress, bringing even
more happiness. This is another
secret of meditation of this type.
Another
way this meditation brings happiness is that as the body heals the cells begin
to send messages of happiness and joy to the brain. This is a subtle type of happiness that may not be
appreciated by some people, but it is the truth that a healthy body is easier
to be happy within. Life flows
more easily, one can sleep and digest and eliminate better and the hormones
that make us feel good are available in abundance. All this contributes to a happy outlook on life.
A POSITIVE MENTAL FOCUS AND WAY TO SOLVE PROBLEMS
This
particular exercise can provide a new focus for oneÕs life – to calm
down, and become centered and more self-aware. These are ancient ways to refocus the goals and purposes of
oneÕs life that are not heard much today, but are nevertheless wonderful ways
to refocus oneÕs life. Any shift of focus away from time-wasting and unhealthy
ego pursuits has a healing effect.
Since
meditation offers much greater clarity about ones life, this alone can result
in new directions, new pursuits, new occupations and new relationships that are
more healthful and satisfying.
Roy
Masters likes to point out that this meditation is not a way to directly solve
problems, but a way to increase awareness. This will slowly bring new insights that can help solve most
problems. The principle is Ôthe
truth will set you free. J. Krishnamurti, a famous author, once said, Òawareness brings
its own actionÓ.
Mental biofeedback. A
principle used in the science of biofeedback is Òanything you can monitor, you
can changeÓ. Meditation is a form
of biofeedback in that one monitors oneÕs thoughts and other mental
activities. As one does this,
thinking and feeling habits will change.
Confucius said Òif you understand a problem deeply enough, you will have
the answerÓ. Meditation is a way
to study yourself ever more deeply.
This will bring answers to many problems.
Becoming more objective. Meditation is like carefully a
studying a friend from an objective perspective. Often it is easier to solve friendÕs problems, because one
is less involved. The same will
occur with oneÕs own problems as they are seen more objectively. Common sense will take over in
many instances and help you solve your problem.
Learning to observe objectively. This meditation is a way to Ògather the
factsÓ about oneself and oneÕs situation in a new way. The trick is not to judge what you see
or observe. DonÕt say, ÒOh, but
this canÕt be. That person seems
so niceÓ.
Just
keep observing and ask only for the truth to be revealed. With enough insight, solutions to
problems become apparent. There is
no need or benefit to adding any new thoughts or ideas of your own. It is enough to see what is. The underlying premise is that you know
the answers. They are just
obscured by confusion and misperceptions.
This meditation is, in fact, a removal process. This differs from many exercises that
seek to Òaffirm awayÓ or cover over negative or undesirable thoughts or
emotions.
Meditating
in order to solve a problem is not the correct motivation for meditation. One should not Òmeditate on
somethingÓ. However, it is fine to
begin with this motivation. Later
you can change your motive to just wanting greater awareness, which will in
turn bring answers in their own time.
In the meantime, if you do not know what to do about a problem, often it
is best to just wait. In your
helplessness, help will come.
STRESS REDUCTION
When
the head is filled with racing thoughts, one is often unaware of danger and
stress until it becomes extreme.
As one meditates regularly with this exercise, one becomes aware of
stress sooner and can take faster action.
One becomes more like the wild animals who sense danger and react
quickly, as by instinct.
For
example, it allows you to feel tensions in the body each moment, so one can
change posture, habits or other causes rather than let the tensions build up.
This
meditation reduces stress in dozens of other ways as well, such as reducing
negative and illusory thoughts and feelings, reducing stress on the nervous
system, and more.
A POSITIVE STRESSOR
Emptying
the self of the old and bringing in a new source of energy functions as a positive stressor. This means it stresses one, but in a
positive or beneficial way. It
brings in more truth, along with the subtle energy, so one can say it is the
stress of truth and awareness.
This places a spiritual stress on one that can result in character
development.
The stress of needing to
change. This meditation exercise will show
one the truth about many things.
One is not forced to act on the information, but If one does not act,
the truth will be brought up over and over again. This is an interesting effect of increasing oneÕs
awareness. Sadly, it causes some
people to stop meditating, as they do not want to be reminded of certain
truths.
SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT
The
most important benefit of this particular meditation is that the new source of
energy slowly develops the subtle or energy bodies of a person. Human beings are not aware of these
bodies and in most people they never develop to any significant extent. This is sad, however, because the
development of these bodies brings with it long life and health.
Human
beings all have seven physical and energy bodies. Only the physical body is visible. However, the others can be felt and measured with the proper
electrical instruments. This
website describes them to a degree in an article entitled The Human Aura.
HOW TO MEDITATE
Below
is a description of the Roy Masters meditation practice, with my modifications
to it. However, it is far easier,
especially at first, to learn it while listening to a compact disc
program. Mr. Masters offers this
exercise on a cassette tape or CD, and I believe you can download it from his
website.
I
also offer a CD with a few improvements, in my view. This CD is described on this website and available by clicking here
for the meditation CD.
The Basic Meditation Procedure:
Sit
in a straight-backed chair, with your arms hanging loosely at your side. A variation is to lie down and place
your hands at your sides. Close
your eyes.
Become
aware of your right hand. Just notice it.
Do not concentrate on it or visualize it, exactly. Just be aware of it and notice it. Do
not force anything to happen.
It
is often easier to be aware of one finger at a time rather than the whole hand
at once. Move your awareness from
finger to finger, but do not move your awareness to the rest of your body. Keep your awareness on your hand. It should start to tingle a little bit.
At
the same time, look through the middle of your forehead, as though you were
sitting inside your head and looking out. It should feel like you are sitting
inside a cave with nothing much to look at, so you just look straight
ahead. Do not roll your eyes up in
your head or do anything else.
Just look out of your head through the middle of your forehead.
Allow
and assist energy to flow into the top of the head and down the body to the
right hand. Encourage this energy
to flow by drawing it down into the body and them move it to the right
hand. Slowly this flow and the
tingling of the right hand will increase.
Eventually, you will allow and move the energy down from the head into
both hands and then into the feet as well. This is more advanced, but is another excellent aspect of
the exercise.
To
enhance the exercise, empty the body and mind and imagine the energy flowing
into the void or emptiness of the body.
You can imagine a giant vacuum cleaner or force pulling the energy down
from the top of the head and into the right hand and down to the feet. You can also imagine standing under a
giant shower or waterfall with the energy cascading down into the body and down
the front of the body. These
visualizations may help a process that is real, namely bringing the energy down
from the head to the feet as forcefully as you can.
Advanced ideas. Ways that an help move more energy
through the body include:
á Pushing the body down, mentally,
sort of like it is a sponge and you can squeeze the body downward. I am not sure why this works, but it
seems to move more energy through.
á
Moving the attention from one finger to
another. This was mentioned earlier.
á Thinking of magnetizing a metal rod
by continually stroking it in one direction only.
á Thinking of inducing a current in a
wire (the body) by moving energy through and around the body.
á You can either or both push, or pull
or draw the energy down the front of the body. Any visualization that you can think of to help with this
may move more energy down the body.
á Move the energy not just down to the
feet but somewhat beyond or below the feet. This also appears to help.
Distractions. You will probably find you cannot do
the exercise for very long without becoming distracted. Thoughts arise, as may songs, memories
or things you have to do later that day.
Your body may itch or hurt, or you may even fall asleep. Just observe the thoughts and feelings
without judgment and then bring your attention back to your hand.
Bring
the attention back to the right hand thousands of times, if needed. Slowly, your mind will learn not to
stray quite as much. You are training part of your mind to observe at all times. Some days will be easier than others.
Results. You may notice results within a week or less, or results may
take longer. You may feel calmer,
more detached, and you may gain insights.
Often the insights will not come while meditating. They may come while you are doing the
dishes or driving your car.
Each
time you meditate, you alter the way you perceive the world. You will see things slightly
differently. Some of what you see
may not be pleasant. Just watch it
all from a neutral place.
PROCEDURAL MATTERS
á Do the exercise as much as you can
and, if possible, at least twice a day. You can do it anytime and anywhere,
although certainly do not do it while driving or some other dangerous activity. Roy Masters teaches
that eventually you will be doing the exercise 24 hours a day.
á Each time you practice it, do the
exercise as though it were the first time. It should never become a habit or mechanical. Do it a little deeper each time.
á Make meditation part of your
lifestyle. Schedule it into your day
so you donÕt overlook this important new part of your life.
á Be patient. Benefits come in their own time, not
when you think they should.
á Some days it will be easier to
meditate than others. Several
months to years may be required to refocus your mind. Just keep at it.
It is something like training or retraining an old dog or cat. It may not be easy and the old reactive
mind or Ômonkey mindÕ, as some call it, will fight you hard at times to stay in
control, and to keep you out of control.
á If at all possible, be open to
seeing the truth about everything, and to waking up and seeing yourself as you
really are. You will see your faults and shortcomings. You will also become
aware of many qualities and abilities that you didn't know you had. This is all part of the process as you
become free of your past and all the false notions that you learned from your
environment.
WHAT TO DO IF YOU HAVE TROUBLE MEDITATING
It
is perfectly normal to have difficulty meditating with this exercise at times,
particularly when starting out.
Here are several suggestions:
á Make meditation part of your daily
lifestyle.
á
Set things up so you have the time to
do it in peace.
á Turn off the phone and, if needed,
arrange for someone to watch children.
á Go to the office early if you cannot
meditate at home.
á Ideally, set up a special room and
chair that you use just for meditation.
á On difficult days, think of
disciplining an unruly child who has been spoiled for 40 or more years. Sometimes it will resist a lot. DonÕt worry about it. Just say, ÒOK, weÕll do our best and
perhaps better tomarrow.Ó
á If you are an athlete or train at
anything, you know that training involves good and bad days. Just take it all in stride. Meditation involves discipline, which
comes from the same root as the word ÔdiscipleÕ. It is not about forcing things. It is about gently staying with or following your path and
the results will come.
Gimmicks. Use gimmicks to help you stay with meditation. An excellent gimmick, if it can be
called that, is to use a CD or cassette tape to help you maintain your focus
and to time your sessions.
Another
gimmick is to do the exercise while walking slowly, if you cannot sit still, as
I have had trouble doing. I also
learned to meditate while doing a coffee enema that was part of a physical
healing program I undertook. It
was a perfect time to meditate, as I was forced to lie still for 20 minutes or
so while retaining the enema.
Any
place you are confined to a chair such as during an airplane flight or at a
pleasant concert can be an excellent place to meditate. Meditate in the bathroom stall if that
is the only peaceful place where you find yourself.
MEDITATION GROUPS
Some
people function better alone, while others prefer a group setting for prayer
and meditation. Therefore I will
discuss the benefits and disadvantages of each situation.
Benefits of groups. These are many.
Among them are:
á Social networking and social interaction. This may ease tensions, spreads
friendships and love, and relaxes some people.
á A positive group setting. For some
people, getting out of their home or work environment and going to a clean,
happy group setting is a wonderful benefit, especially if the home is chaotic,
noisy or lack moral and other types of support for the person.
However, this
usually involves more time, driving, and some disruption of oneÕs regular
schedule, so a balance must be struck.
á Dealing with meditation problems. Groups
can sometimes bring up and deal with problems that occur during meditation
better. These have been discussed
in the paragraphs above.
á Help with discipline and consistency. Groups definitely help those who are not as good with
discipline.
á Group love and healing. This means
that there is an energy is a good group that can relax, ease tensions and help
heal everyone in the group. Some
need and want this more than others.
Very advanced students may be held back by this energy, however.
á More learning. Group settings can be good for
spreading more knowledge.
á Spiritual development and healing, especially for beginners. Group energies can be extremely beneficial and positive for
new members, especially. This has
to do with the field of energy that is created by any group process.
á Easier for some guides to work with groups. Guidance is real and present always. Guides can often work more easily with
some prayer and meditation groups because there is a common, shared bond of
energy. This is most important,
once again, for beginners. Later,
guides prefer working on one person at a time in a more isolated setting such
as at home rather than in a diverse group with many levels of imbalances and
energies.
Problems with groups. These include:
á Slows the more developed people. The energy of
the group is often not clean and pure enough for a more advanced person. Thus groups are usually best for
beginners.
á Inadequate leadership can disrupt or even ruin a group.
á Distractions. For example, socializing and networking
at group meetings is fun, but can waste time and be distracting for the more
serious participants.
á Power and control issues, at times. Struggles
often develop in groups for leadership, for time spent talking to the group,
and other things. This can dilute
the benefits of the group.
á Logistics problems. One must drive and spend
extra time going to and from the group, and often wait for the group, and go at
the pace of the group, wasting time.
Group meetings may be at inconvenient times or places
á Going off course. Groups easily may deviate somewhat
from the stated purpose of the group.
This is often led by beginners who donÕt understand the purpose of the
group well enough and must be stopped gently but firmly or the group transforms
into something different than it was intended.
á Safety. Sometimes groups are not safe, as
predators may join to pick up women or men, or for other selfish reasons. Leaders need to be sensitive to such
issues.
á Advanced students generally make faster progress on their own, though
not necessarily.
HOW TO COPE WITH WHAT COMES UP DURING
MEDITATION OR PRAYER SESSIONS
One
reason some do not continue with meditation is the fact that, at times,
negative thoughts or feelings from within a person arise and this can be very
disconcerting. If possible, learn
to just observe whatever comes up during meditation.
Be
grateful for seeing the truth, even if it is unpleasant. You do not have to react in any
way. Definitely do not judge
yourself or others. If you wallow
in your thoughts or insights, it will keep them around. It is best to view all thoughts,
emotions and insights as you would view clouds in the sky. As they arise, just observe them and
let them go.
HOW DOES THIS MEDITATION DIFFER FROM THE OTHER
EXERCISES?
Prayer is not so different from this
meditation in some ways. Both
involve asking and emptying the self, for example. However, many times prayer is a more rote exercise for
people involving just the repeating of various words and phrases. This is not the same. This meditation does not require or
involve any words or phrases or mantras at all. In fact, it is purely energetic and if you add any words,
prayers or mantras to it, you will either negate it altogether or at least
weaken its effect.
However,
to say a prayer at the beginning, and even for a while at the end to help with
closure, is fine. But realize the
exercise is very specific to bring in a new energy by emptying the self of the
old.
Prayers
also often specific rituals and doctrines. This meditation requires no doctrine whatsoever. The only ritual is to empty the self
and allow and even force the energy down from the head into the hand and
eventually the feet. That is
all. OneÕs religion, nationality
or belief systems do not matter in the least.
In
fact, this is a danger with this meditation, in that anyone can use it for his
or her benefit, even if the person is not the most honest or high integrity person. This is a danger with this method. I am not too concerned, however,
because the exercise takes a fair amount of work and dedication to receive the
benefits.
Is it a religion? This exercise is certainly not a
religion, and can be done by anyone, as stated above. However, I see it as the basis for a new religion,
perhaps. The reason is that it is
a way to get in touch with oneself, which is the real meaning and desire of
religions. The danger, of course,
is that someone will design a religion around the exercise and fill it with
other rituals and doctrines until the basic exercise is forgotten. This has happened before in history.
Is it relaxation, visualization,
self-hypnosis and concentration? The exercise
does involve some visualization and some concentration. However, these are not the goal or the
central focus of the exercise.
That is how it differs from most of these other exercises. This meditation is certainly not
self-hypnosis, a concept that is the very opposite of wanting to remove or
eliminate all hypnotic tendencies of the mind.
Repetition
of words, phrases or mantras tends to produce a somewhat hypnotic state, and
this is one reason this is not employed with this exercise.
What about breathing with the
exercise? This is not required. Adding special breathing, such as
counting to 10, or holding the mouth or tongue a special way, can definitely
distract one and slow progress with this exercise.
If
one wishes, a very simple breathing method called circle breathing may be used
an might enhance progress. One
simply moves energy up the back during the inhale and down the front of the
body on the exhale. That is all
there is to it. However, recall
that one is supposed to be moving energy down the body at all times, so this
should be done as well. In fact,
energy will circulate this way – up the back and down the front –
to some degree. However, pushing
the energy or drawing the energy down the front is by far the most critical and
important.
MEDITATION AND THE PURPOSE OF LIFE
This
exercise concerns some basic qualities of life on a metaphysical level:
á Self-awareness. This is a purely human trait, one not shared much by animals or other
life forms. This meditation
directly assists anyone to increase self-awareness.
á Healing. While diet, lifestyle, nutritional
supplements and detoxification are all critical and never to be overlooked, the
mind is also very important for healing.
It is either your friend and ally or, in many people, it just gets in
the way. Worry, fears, desires, racing
around all the time and other things use up most peopleÕs energy. This meditation can do a lot to bring
the mind under your control and learn to use it to assist healing on many
levels.
á Spiritual development. The
development of the subtle bodies is everyoneÕs birthright as a human
being. Very few, however, make
much progress with it. This
meditation allows it and assists it easily. This can extend life and allow achievements that most people
cannot even imagine. We have all
read about these types of unfoldment of super-human
abilities. This meditation may
allow this in your personal life journey.
Most
people live the ego lifestyle, going from goal to goal, often trampling others
to achieve their goals. Meditation
allows you to grow from the inside. You will find, if you do the exercise
regularly, that your outer life, work, relationships, family matters and more
will change for the better, often in unusual ways. As you meditate, you let go of the blocks that are in the
way of your happiness and success.
References
Masters, R., How Your Mind Can Keep You Well, The
Foundation of Human Understanding, Grants Pass, Oregon, www.fhu.com.
To obtain a CD from us with the enhanced meditation exercise
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