MASTURBATION AND ITS
EFFECTS
by Dr. Lawrence Wilson
© May 2020, LD Wilson Consultants, Inc.
All information in this article is for
educational purposes only. It is not
for the diagnosis, treatment, prescription or cure of any disease or health
condition.
SUMMARY
Masturbation
is a harmful habit. We donÕt agree
with the psychologists and doctors who say it is fine. For the purposes of development of a
human being, it is not wise at all.
It uses up the precious sexual fluid, especially with men.
This depletes zinc, which causes the body to absorb lead, copper,
cadmium, mercury and the ÒamigosÓ.
It also often leads to a chronically fast oxidation rate. This can be due to low zinc and the
presence of toxic metals.
It also wastes your time and energy, and it is distracting. It keeps the mind focused on the lower
energy centers, rather than where your attention belongs - on the upper energy
centers. To learn about these
centers, please read The Energy Centers on this site.
This article suggests a number of ways to stop the habit. That is all it is – a habit.
The
Biblical
view. http://bibleresources.org/masturbation/
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MAIN ARTICLE
I.
INTRODUCTION
Definitions of masturbation. 1. Sexual self-gratification, usually to orgasm.
2. (Psychological
definition). Any activity that
tickles the mind or body and gives a little pleasure,
but is really a waste of time and accomplishes nothing.
I often
receive emails from young men and women who have a masturbation habit. Here is a typical one:
Dear Dr. Wilson,
I
had a severe addiction with pornography and masturbation between the years of
18 and 26. I ejaculated about 60
times a month during these years.
It felt good for a while, but then I developed the following symptoms:
-severe premature ejaculation all of a sudden
-severely sexually exhausted and drained
-feeling tired, sleepy, and dopey all the time
-seminal leaking during bowel movement and after urination
-severe lower back pain
-severe bloating/tension pain in my abdomen after orgasm and
lasting days/weeks
-frequent urination
-waking up during the night to urinate
-severe prostatitis
I
became very alarmed and concerned, and finally realized that I had destroyed my
body over the years.
My addiction was
hard to kick. However, a year later
most of my symptoms have cleared, except for the prostate pain/inflammation and
its associated issue (urinating frequently, etc.). So I basically still have the prostatitis
issue.
I
need help, please doctor,
I am desperate.
-
John
Another
young man, age 21, wrote to me he could not understand why doctors told him
that masturbation is okay. By the
age of 15, he had developed the following symptoms:
1.
Damage to the nervous system. He
became very nervous in social gatherings and seminars.
2.
Tremors in the hands and head.
3.
General tightness over the body, especially the legs.
4.
Pain in the legs after masturbation.
5.
Trouble walking. His legs feel
wooden and he feels like a robot when walking.
6.
Loss of muscle mass.
7.
Lethargy and dull feelings, and sometimes depression.
8.
Loss of self-esteem and confidence.
9.
Both knees look distorted and tend to be bony pointing outwards. Before
excessive masturbation, they looked normal and healthy.
10.
Back pain.
11.
In his teens, until age 18, he could recover after masturbating much
faster. Now at 21 years of age,
recovery is MUCH slower.
MASTURBATION
IS A BAD IDEA
I do not
care what any psychologist, doctor or preacher says about masturbation. It depletes a man or womanÕs sexual fluid,
especially that of men, and it wastes vital energy needed for healing.
It also
keeps one living in fantasy-land, which is not helpful
at all. The best idea is to stop
it altogether. If you must do it
now and then, it is not too bad if it is done once a month or less.
Also, stop
the behaviors that feed the masturbation habit. These include:
- Looking
lustfully at others – men and women.
-
Pornography, or even just watching programs on television or elsewhere that feature
pretty girls and handsome men who are not well covered up. This is sometimes called Ôsoft pornÕ,
and is very common.
- Thinking
about sex and sexual fantasies.
- ÔDressing
downÕ, in an effort to make yourself look sexy and attract the attention of
others in a sexy way.
- Other
behavior such as gesturing, staring, or visiting bars or other places where sex
is featured.
If you have been masturbating, then I
suggest eating an 8-ounce hamburger every other day – not overcooked (it
should be juicy) - for at least three months to replenish some of the vitamins
and minerals that are lost when you masturbate.
Instead of a hamburger, twice or three
times weekly you may substitute about 8 ounces of lamb or another cut of beef
such as roast beef or beef stew meat every other day for at least a few
months. This amount
of red meat for a few months should not cause cholesterol or other problems.
This article
presents a view of masturbation that focuses on its physical effects on the
body and how to cope with it. To
repeat, masturbating once a month or less is fair and not too harmful. However, it is a problem when done more
than once a month or so, and especially when it becomes a repetitive habit.
End the habit, which is slow suicide
and like raping yourself gently.
Do not be too ashamed or embarrassed about it, however. Just move on. Masturbation is not a healthful habit
for a number of reasons discussed below.
However, becoming ashamed and embarrassed is not that helpful. Much more helpful is to simply become
informed about it, and stop doing it for that reason. Here are reasons to stop masturbating:
SYMPTOMS THAT CAN RESULT FROM A MASTURBATION
HABIT
1. Rapid aging and an early death. This is a horrible syndrome in which
oneÕs vitality goes down and one may feel exhausted, even as a teenager, or as
a young man or woman. The hair may
turn gray, the body may become thin and lose muscle, and one feels old. This is why masturbation, which some
feel is okay, is really a form of slow death or suicide.
2. Irritability and unsteadiness. The most common
symptom is a kind of irritability, emotional unsteadiness, low self-esteem,
loss of willpower, and a certain type of weakness of the mind and the
body. One also often becomes more lazy, and thinking is definitely impaired.
Both the speed of the mind, and the memory are
impaired when sexual fluids are depleted.
Most people notice this even after regular sex. They often mistakenly think it is a
sign of ÔloveÕ or ÔrelaxationÕ.
However, it is the same type of ÔrelaxationÕ one gets from using drugs
or alcohol. It is more like a type
of deep fatigue, mild stupor or trance state, and is not the same as real
relaxation.
3. Sexual fluid depletion. No matter what anyone tells you, this
is a total disaster. It is a
nutritional and etheric disaster, and it gives rise
to aging, unsteadiness, tremors, lack of courage and willpower, and more.
4. Sexual fluid craving. Women, in particular, who lose a lot of
sexual fluids, all develop Sexual Fluid Craving. Please read about this, ladies, as it
is a very important article on this website. Men can develop this condition, also, craving male or even
occasionally female fluids, but it is not as common.
Frequent
masturbation, too much sex, vegetarian diets, junk food diets and often rapes
deplete women terribly of precious sexual fluids. Often the nutrients are never replaced and the woman suffers
fatigue, depression, brain fog and other problems for the rest of her
life. (There is no need to suffer,
however, as this can be overcome with a complete nutritional balancing
program).
5. Loss of vigor. Electrically, the body is discharged and
the person loses his or her vigor.
This is a very critical effect.
Also, the sodium/potassium ratio tends to decrease, which is another
sign of loss of vitality in some subtle way.
Loss of vigor means one loses ambition,
excitement with life, and perhaps some mental capacity.
6. Prostate problems in boys and men. This can occur because the prostate
gland requires a lot of zinc and selenium, and these can easily become depleted
by repeated masturbation. I know
that some doctors recommend having plenty of sex for prostate problems. I do not agree with this.
7. Acne, dermatitis, eczema, other skin
diseases and hair loss. This also has to do
with zinc depletion, particularly in boys and young men.
8. Women may gain weight on the hips.
9. Damage to the first and second energy
centers. This is a bit esoteric, but very important. It affects the brain, as well as the
sexual and other pelvic organs. For details, read The
Energy Centers on this website.
10. Orgasms all cause energy to flow upward and
tend to weaken the body. This is another subtle
problem, but it is real. For more,
read Down Energy And Healing on this website.
11. Psychologically, masturbation is a form of
self-absorption and fantasy, and this is not healthful. Far better to
volunteer and help others, or get a job. Distract yourself, rather do not become self-absorbed.
12. Masturbation is addictive, in some cases. Masturbation fits the definition of an
addiction. It is a behavior that
provides some pleasure, but then weakens the person so that one craves more of
the same behavior afterwards.
Please read Addiction for much more on this
important aspect of masturbation.
13. Masturbation tends to make one more
attracted to homosexual acts.
This is not helpful.
14. It definitely weakens the brain and nervous
system. It can cause or contribute to slow
thinking, memory loss, brain fog, irritability, depression, anger, and
stupidity.
15. Spins all of the energy centers backwards. This is a type of trauma to the energy
system of the body.
16. It is a huge waste of time and energy.
17. It makes the body more ÒyinÓ in Chinese
medical terminology, which allows stray discarnate entities to enter and lodge
in oneÕs energy field. This is disruptive, and
can even cost you your life.
Entity attachment may also occur due to having
too much sex, or due to a rape.
For more on this, please read Entity Attachment
And Release on this website.
18. As stated above, masturbation causes loss
of vital nutrients that are quite difficult and slow to replace. Restoring the zinc and selenium, alone,
can take several years of basically sexual abstinence to recover fully.
19. It tends to make a person secretive, which
is not a good idea because it can lead to other secretive behaviors.
20. As mentioned earlier, masturbation often is
associated with the pornography habit, which is always harmful.
21. Repeated masturbation is a type of trauma,
not unlike rape, in some ways.
These effects include nutritional depletion, and causing shame,
embarrassment, low self-esteem and others.
22. It can cause infections of the genitals
from excessive handling of them, and from nutritional and etheric
depletion of these organs.
23. It tends to harm interpersonal
relationships – children with parents, and adults with their partners. Often masturbation starts because a
child feels that a parent is not there – usually the father. Often, the relationship with the mother
is affected as well, and the mother may be cold and unloving as a cause of
masturbation, especially in boys.
24. It may slow emotional maturing. Instead, a person lives in a little fantasy land, often with delusions of grandeur.
25. It can lower the testosterone level in
boys.
26. It can be a type of ÔgatewayÕ into drug
use, since drug use is also a type of self-absorption.
27. It tends to open one up to outside
influences. This is because it
makes the body more yin. In fact, some doctors and psychologists may tell you it is
okay to masturbate because they want to control you.
MASTURBATION DOES NOT AFFECT EVERYONE EQUALLY
Several ways in which this is true are:
1. Men tend to lose much more sexual fluid from
ejaculation than women. Therefore, masturbation
may be more harmful for men. Also,
all the male sexual fluid contains sperm, which are the essence of the body and
not easily replaced. WomenÕs
sexual fluid, in contrast, does not contain their essence. Instead, it is mainly a mucosy lubricating fluid, whose loss is less
important. However, I do not
suggest that women should masturbate.
It is not helpful for them, and they do lose some of the life force when
they do it.
2. Some men, in particular, lose much more
sexual fluid than others during ejaculation.
This is especially true if orgasm continues for more than a few
seconds. Extending ejaculation
with more orgasms is the worst thing to do, men.
Boys and men that lose more fluid, for whatever
reason, are more affected by masturbation or by regular sexual intercourse, for
that matter, and will usually feel much more tired afterwards, and will
experience more of the symptoms listed above if they ejaculate too often.
Women, generally, do not have as much
variability in the amount of sexual fluids they lose, except during rapes,
which can be of varying intensity.
For much more on this topic, read Rape on this
website, a long and important core article, though not pleasant to contemplate.
MASTURBATION VERSUS SEXUAL INTERCOURSE OR ABSTINENCE
Some people prefer masturbation to sexual
relationships because:
1. Sex carries risks of disease, entangling or
abusive relationships, and the risk of pregnancy and rape for women.
2. Some have trouble finding and keeping a
sexual partner. This may be due to
a history of sexual trauma, or physical disabilities, oneÕs appearance, or for
other reasons.
3. It can be easier to live in a fantasy world
than to handle life on more physical and emotional levels.
On the other hand, sexual relationships have
definite advantages, in that they can bring true love, happy relationships,
greater sexual enjoyment, companionship, and perhaps other subtle energetic
benefits in some cases.
Abstinence.
Abstaining from sex altogether gives one the advantages of no sex such
as not spreading disease, no pregnancies, and no entangling relationships. There is also no need to find a sexual
partner, or to use someone for that purpose. Abstinence also does not require living in a fantasy world
of your own making. Instead, it
urges one to engage in productive activities.
MORE DETAILS ON SOME EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION
1. Zinc and other nutrient loss.
Masturbation depletes the body of zinc, selenium, B-complex vitamins, as well
as many other vital nutrients. Male and female sexual fluids are particularly rich in
certain compounds of zinc and selenium that are hard to replace with food and
impossible to replace with supplements, as far as I know. Some people recommend herbs, but we
find these are toxic, so we donÕt recommend them.
Anyone who
masturbates often, and even those who have sex more than once a week, will lose
a significant amount of some zinc compounds and other nutrients that are
difficult to replace. For this
reason, sexual fluid should be treated as very sacred and never ever wasted.
Picking up toxic metals. When zinc is lost, the body
absorbs many more toxic metals.
Specifics are in the first paragraph of this article.
2. Etheric loss. Etheric energy
is also sometimes called "vital energy" or "vital
force". Masturbation
causes a depletion of this special type of subtle energy each of us was
born with that is required in order to live a long, healthy life. One can
regenerate this energy, at least to some degree, so all is not lost. But it should never be wasted, ever,
and regaining the energy takes months of sexual abstinence, in most cases, and
eating red meat daily or almost daily.
It is fine to hug and kiss, but orgasms must be avoided or limited to
regenerate the etheric energy.
3. Subtle energetic effects of masturbation. Masturbation and sexual intercourse,
even more so, tend to spin the seven main energy centers of the body
backwards. This may sound strange,
but it is a big reason that orgasm causes pleasure in the body. This is a bit esoteric, but I am told
it is the truth and important to know about.
Spinning the energy centers backwards feels
good for a few seconds, but subtly weakens the entire aura or energy field of
the body. In effect, it uses up a
certain amount of vital force or adaptive energy that leaves the person with
less energy and less vitality afterwards.
This can help explain some of the symptoms of masturbation such as
faster aging, irritability, and others.
4. Encouraging the mind in unhealthy thought
patterns.
This means that stimulating the genital organs tends to cause a certain type of
thinking and feeling that is generally harmful for a person. It is much worse if one does it often. This also applies to viewing
pornography, in any amount. This
problem, by the way, is often more harmful for women, as it can attract them to
the wrong kinds of men, and attract a rape, for example.
This is a more complex topic that has to do
with the type of energy that resides in the lower part of the body, as compared
with the type of energies that reside in the upper part of oneÕs body.
The symptoms of this problem include difficulty
concentrating, attention deficit or ADD, ADHD, irritability, superficiality in
your thinking, lack of intelligence, lack of follow through ability, impaired
school or work performance, and other difficulties in thinking clearly and
forcefully.
5. Pornography and masturbation. Another consequence of masturbation in
some people is a strange attraction to pornography. By this I mean attraction to photos, movies, written
material such as racy sexy novels, and other things that discuss, illustrate,
or demonstrate sexual acts, sexual organs of the body, and things related to
this area.
Attraction to pornography easily becomes a
habit and an addiction. It is one
of the worst addictions, in fact.
It can waste a lot of time, energy and money. If continued, it usually leads to unhappy relationships, and
even to rape or murder. If you are
involved with pornography in any way, I suggest you stop it immediately and do
not compromise with yourself. This
may be difficult, at first, and there may be groups and other resources
available to help, but it is important to stop this habit that often
accompanies masturbation.
6. An anti-social behavior that reverses the
mind in some way. Masturbation tends
to make one self-centered in a serious way. It is a selfish habit.
Doing it once a month or less is probably okay for most people. If repeated often, however, it tends to
turn a person too inward and has an anti-social effect.
It is also a reversal of natureÕs natural
process to procreate the species.
By this I mean that the vital sexual fluid is designed to impregnate or
fertilize an egg and produce a new human being. When orgasm occurs in other contexts, such as rape and
masturbation, it is a type of mental reversal that is confusing to a healthy
mind and has a detrimental effect.
Similar to depletion
after sex. Some men and women
feel depleted after sex due to fluid loss or etheric
energy loss. However, other
factors also cause this feeling in men and women after sex. These are discussed in the article on
this website entitled Energy Vampirism.
OVERCOMING MASTURBATION
If you follow these suggestions, you can
overcome the masturbation habit.
To overcome a masturbation habit:
1. Reach out and help others so you are not
focused on your own problems and your own body.
2. Do not stimulate yourself with pornography, fantasies
or pornographic thoughts. This is
also quite important. Get rid of the
girlie photos, magazines, websites, books, movies and friends who talk about it
or encourage it in any way.
Ladies, this applies to you, as well. Stop talking dirty, stop staring at
boyÕs and menÕs bodies, and stop flirting by the way you dress, your behavior,
your gestures, etc. All of these
perpetuate the problem, and can set a woman up for rape very easily.
3. Follow a complete nutritional balancing
program. This can be very
helpful, and perhaps required, to rebuild your health, learn self-discipline,
and set you on a much more positive healing path in life. It will also help replenish the
minerals lost during masturbation, such as zinc and selenium – two
spiritual minerals.
I suggest eating about 8 ounces of beef or lamb
every other day for several months, at least, if you are breaking a
masturbation habit.
4. Read about addictions. A masturbation habit is a type of
sexual addiction. It causes a
slight ÔhighÕ, like some drugs, and this is why people like it. Some experience this more than
others. The high is always
followed by a low, however. For
more on how all types of addictions work, read Addiction
on this website.
5. Meditate using the Pushing Down
Exercise. This can be very helpful to end
masturbation. A secret of this
exercise is moving energy downward from the head to the feet as hard as you
can. It will provide a little
erotic pleasure.
You may do the exercise as much as you
wish. Avoid most other
meditations, which will not have the same effect and may make things worse.
For more on this, read The Pulling Down Exercise
on this website. An audio program
on this subject is free to listen to and download at this article.
6. Distract yourself with other
activities and increase your interest in other things. For example, go out, be with friends or
family, watch non-sexual TV or movies, eat at healthful restaurants instead of home
alone by yourself if this is when you masturbate, take short showers instead of
long ones if this is where you masturbate. Perhaps you can find a healthy sexual relationship instead
of fantasizing.
7. If needed and if helpful, get help
from a counselor. Know, however,
that many counselors actually condone masturbation and think it is just
fine. Stay away from these
counselors, as they are very wrong, in my opinion.
8. Be sure to eat enough high zinc foods. The main one for this purpose is hamburger
meat, and ground chuck is the best of them. Lamb is also very good – about 8 ounces of some kind
of red meat every other day for a few months, perhaps. Then you can cut back on the amount to
about two to three times weekly.
Totally avoid vegetarian diets, which will weaken you more.
9. Helpful condiments. A product that may
help rebuild the body and restore lost sexual fluid is royal jelly (a bee
product). Just use 1 capsule or 1
tablet daily.
10. For men and for women, possibly, an Òorchic glandular productÓ may be helpful for a while. Orchic
glandular means freeze-dried animal testicles, and they have been used for this
purpose for millennia. However,
this is not a substitute for eight ounces of hamburger or other red meat daily
for a while.
11. Avoid herbs that are used as aphrodisiacs
and used for sexual potency.
Stay away from yohimbe, ginseng, licorice, and
most other Òsexual herbsÓ. These
are stimulating and not good at all in the long run. Avena sativa or common oats are
fine, however, and may be helpful to rebuild vitality.
12. Increase your absorption of etheric energy from the environment. There is a real energy you can absorb
from the environment by eating a slow oxidizer diet,
sleeping and resting a lot, drinking a good quality
spring water, keeping warm, breathing
deeply every day, taking in extra oxygen, and
avoid all distractions and wastes of energy.
13. Oxygen therapy. Breathing extra oxygen, or taking it in
other ways, is also helpful. If
possible, live in a rural area with a higher oxygen
content. Try to avoid spending a
lot of time in closed-in spaces with a lot of other people such as crowded
theatres that are not well-ventilated.
An ozonation/ionizer
air purifier in your bedroom is also very helpful. For
more on this topic read, The Ozonator/Ionizer Machine. You can also take baths twice weekly
with one to two cups of 35% hydrogen peroxide added, and with ozone added, as
well. These are excellent two
times weekly for most people. They
are described in the article entitled Baths on this
website.
14. Other procedures. Lesser, but often excellent effects
come from doing coffee enemas daily, daily genital coffee implants, and using a near infrared lamp sauna daily, (but less so with
other saunas).
15. Sexual rejuvenation. Also see the
article entitled Sexual Depletion And
Rejuvenation.
16. Circumcise all male children. This seems to reduce the tendency for
masturbation later on in life. The
ancient Hebrews used this method and it still works very well.
17.
Avoid
vegetarian diets. Masturbation
plus a vegetarian diet is a particularly bad combination.
18. For
men – try to make women or girls seem less sexy; and for women –
try to make men or boys less sexy. Here are some ways to do this:
1. Look at their heads, and not below. This
definitely helps.
2. Always remember - sexual attraction is
survival-of-the-species biological programming. It is not love. It
really has no other meaning other than some biological programming, no matter
what anyone says.
3. Some of the opposite sex are
very unhealthy, even if they are pretty or handsome. This can be a sexual
turnoff.
4 Some of the opposite sex are
spoiled, selfish, mean or angry. This can be a definite sexual turnoff.
CAUSES FOR MASTURBATION
These vary and include:
1. Some children accidentally discover the
little pleasurable feelings they get from touching themselves. It becomes a fun habit, but one that
should be discouraged.
2. A parent may stimulate a child too much
while changing diapers.
3. A child may learn masturbation from a friend
or even from a parent.
4. Too much female energy in the home of a
young boy, especially if he is unhappy or feeling frustrated, can lead to
masturbation in boys. This is more
common than one may imagine. The
boy feels somehow emasculated, and masturbation is a type of social anxiety
disorder response. It is related
to depression, in this sense.
5. A rape or some other trauma can lead to
masturbation in girls, as can too much emphasis on sex, sexy clothes, sexy
talk, and so on. This can also
happen to boys and men, but it is less commonly the cause among boys and men.
6. Unhappiness or boredom can lead to
masturbation, especially among boys, but occasionally among girls as well.
7. Loneliness, extreme shyness and/or
embarrassment or awkwardness, especially with the opposite sex. This is also a type of social anxiety
disorder in which the person withdraws into self-pleasuring instead of
participating in society.
8. A kind of Òsafe sexÓ. For a man, masturbation offers a way to
avoid a relationship with a woman, and a way to avoid risking a pregnancy. It is also a way to avoid getting or
spreading sexually transmitted diseases.
For a lady, masturbation is also much ÒsaferÓ
than regular sex in many ways, and this is certainly true.
9. An unusual cause is entity possession or
attachment. For more on this,
please read Entity Attachment And Release on this
website.
MASTURBATION AND HAIR MINERAL ANALYSIS
Masturbation is more common in those with a
slow oxidation rate. This may be a
cause or effect of masturbation.
Masturbation does not cause a four lows pattern,
early on. This may be because it
gives a little pleasure. However,
if one persists with the habit, it will lead to a four lows pattern and ruined
health, depending upon how often one masturbates.
ANOTHER LETTER ABOUT MASTURBATION
I received this letter about masturbation on
9/6/2013:
Dear
Dr. Wilson,
I was addicted to masturbation until I read your article about
masturbation. Now
its more than 4 months that I have stopped this practice.
I feel that I have got my life back. I am 30 years old, unmarried, and
after stopping masturbation I feel very, very strong both mentally and
physically. My hair on my head has
become very thick and silky. My
eyes are clear and I am looking very handsome (many people have noticed my
change). On the professional
level, I have also had success. I got promoted to Research Scientist.
I am from an orthodox Christian community, but no one told me that
masturbation is sin. After reading
your article about the 10 commandments, it all makes sense. In Matthew 5:28,
Jesus said that whoever looks at a women with lust
already commits adultery with her.
Furthermore, Jesus says that to pluck out the eyes if your eyes make you
to sin, thus saving the whole body.
This is so true.
I have noticed that not only one should stop masturbation, but one
should also stop looking at women lustfully. As when you look at them lustfully or have bad thoughts,
there is semen build up in the prostate whereas when we live a holy life then
the sperm is stored in the testis, which is natural.
I have finished reading the whole Bible recently and found that Paul
in all his letters to the Gentiles asked them to keep away from sexual sin,
lust, fornication etc. ITS A SHAME THAT THESE THINGS ARE NOT TAUGHT IN OUR CHURCHES
NOWADAYS.... Recently I have started living a very strict Biblical lifestyle. I
have stopped watching movies, going to malls, watching sitcoms(most
American sitcoms are shown non stop in Indian TV, these days).
One thing that I have noticed is that once I stopped masturbation, my
testosterone levels have increased, my voice is very deep now, I am calm and
relaxed, and have no brain fog.
I tried explaining the need to educate the youth to not masturbate and
be away from sexual temptation to my youth pastor, but he laughed at me. He told me the usual answer that
masturbation is harmless. Many of
my friends in the Church listen to me, but then I sense that they laugh at my
back.
I have noticed that in North India, Christians are not circumcised,
but in South India due to the influence of St Thomas (who preached in South
India and his grave is also there) most Christians are circumcised. Circumcision greatly decreases the
desire to masturbate as the sensitive nerve endings are cut. Thus South India Christians are
stronger and more successful.
I personally believe that, as Paul says, that circumcision of the
heart is necessary (Romans 2:28-29, Colossians 2:11). But this should also be taught in the church, where the
attitude to sex and masturbation is very casual. I have lost most of my precious years to masturbation. It is only by the grace of God that I
stumbled across your articles and got my life back.
My Father is very proud of me (though he does not know that I was
addicted to masturbation and have now stopped). He feels that I have become
very responsible and serious with life now. I really thank you for sharing
these things in your articles.
Yours in Christ - SM
WET DREAMS OR NOCTURNAL EMISSIONS
This occurs more with men than with women, and
consists of an orgasm with loss of fluid during oneÕs sleep, often during an
erotic dream.
The problem of wet dreams seems to occur in the
same people who are having a problem with masturbation, in a number of
instances. Wet dreams are
disturbing mainly because one cannot control them, and they cause vital fluid
loss, which is not good.
To stop wet dreams, the advice is the same as
that given above to help stop the masturbation habit. That is, stop fantasizing about sex, or about body parts, or
anything related to sex. In many
cases, the wet dreams will begin to fade away if you do this consistently.
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